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    Hello again,

    that's sooo stupid. I know. But really want your help/tips for that.

    I have on both hands a RSI-Syndrom. I have it under control. But if i must make good money. I must work harder.

    Now my problem. ^^. I have everytime really orgasm. And that's really hard for me. I have a high bloodpressur and are a bbw. It's really hard for my body and for my hands.

    Okay you can say. Lose Weight. Haha. I know it. But i don't have a magic fairy in the near, to make me slim in one day. ^^

    Yea, laugh about me. I am really stupid. I can't do a fake orgasm, if i play with my vibrator on my clit. Hehe.

    I show mastrubation videos and don't see it, a fake orgasm with a dildo without vibration. All of the woman use a vibrator, or a vibrator & dildo.

    Now my stupid question for you.

    Do you think it works, if i use a dildo without vibration, without playing on my clit, and simulate a fake orgasm (i can learn it, but it's hard for me), and the guys trust it?

    I laugh about myself. It's so funny.

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    I am 'amazed' to read how many cam girls believe they really need to orgasm when they cam or that feeling or not feeling horny has anything to do with cam work, porn actresses fake everything, is harder for the guys cause they need to be and stay hard & perform but women?! You can be an ice block & feel nothing while giving men the impression u soo very horny haha, that's what i always do by the way

    I feel nothing when i work, i am never horny nor i feel like i cant work cause i am not horny, my motivation to cam is not about getting myself off on cam but about getting guys off on cam while making them believe i am very horny & being paid for it. Money is all i care about on cam, i am an actress.
    I rarely decide to let's say have a real orgasm with a guy that stays with me longer & i feel comfortable with but i am 'forcing' myself into orgasm & dont really enjoy it plus it takes longer time & effort from me & it drains me, i prefer NOT to orgasm so i can stay fresh & fit lol.

    Guys never know what u really feel there, everything can be faked on cam, even squirting or being very wet, we women have this amazing advantage of having a pussy & not a cock haha, with a cock u cant really fake it lol.

    So, take advantage of the oportunity & fake ur orgasms whenever u want, study urself in the mirror, make specific faces like u look very horny & aroused, watch porn, see how the women look when they have sex, study, learn, have imagination, do not let ur body dictate when u able to perform on cam but use ur brain for that, this way u save lots of energy & are able to perform better & longer & make more money eventually.
    Do not waste ur energy on real orgasms if this is tiring u, save it & use it different, eventually learn fetishes, learn domination, learn as much as u can to have more tools to work with that with ur body only. Good luck.


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    Fake orgasms look way better than real anyway I think! If you really want to use a vibrator, aim it away from your clit, don't actually touch the clit with it. I work a lot of hours and I'd be numb if I used a vibrator all that time. I've never used one, just dildos. The visual is much better I think.

    You are selling an image on their computer screen.

    They are paying you to make THEM orgasm. You're an actress so play the part, save your energy for your performance and make it look awesome.


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    I use only dildos or fingers too, i could ever handle the vibration all day. I also say to them, that inside pussy orgasm are always better than clit ones (in my case that is true, but i still fake it) this way you do not have to touch the clit. And if they still ask it, i put my finger or tou under the clit, they dont know much of a woman anatomy anyway.

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    Personally, I have never once had an orgasm while camming! In like, 7 years! lol They're paying for cam time so they can get off......focus on that. If they want to see you orgasm, fake it. How would they know? I never even turn the vibrator on. They can't tell unless it's a really loud one. Cam girls do all different stuff....some use toys, some just fingers etc etc. Start with what is easiest on your body and only switch if the guy asks you to. There are guys that will push and push you to do more but when time is up, they log off and you have to do more shows. Don't hurt yourself for a show. Only have toys available that are easy on your body and use lube. Lots of it!

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    That's why i don't use toys at all and fake fingering, playing with the cam angles.They won't notice at all if you moan and shiver your tights lol pretending you have the orgasm of your life.When they ask me for toys i say i dislike fake dicks only real ones and that's okay to them,it seems to turn them on



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    See I can't work when I can't get horny. It's hard for me to play it off faking because my orgasms are so intense.

    But lots of girls fake orgasms. Watch some solo vids, see how the other girls "cum." Practice makes perfect.





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    The most appropriate place to say "Fake it 'till You Make it" on this entire forum!

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    In my experience, both irl, and on cam, most guys have no idea how the female body works.. Heck, even a lot of women don't even know!
    These guys watch a lot of porn, naturally, so you could tell them you come form getting a pat on the head, and they would believe it. I mean, if they really think that getting titty fucked, and gagging on their cocks is a turn-on.. come on..
    I never had a guy on cam rate me low, or be dissatisfied because he thought I didn't really come.
    Most of the time I don't even pull out a toy anyway. Unless I'm giving a simulated bj. It's all about their orgasm anyway. In my experience, as long as I talk about their dick most of the session, they are happy.
    Being that guys are so self-absorbed and consumed with their own orgasm is a good thing on cam.

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    I save my real orgasms for guys that I know are going to be in excl longer than 5 min. Even then I have to fake it because a real orgasm isn't all that fake screaming and twitching like you're possessed. It's totally asinine what guys think a real orgasm is.
    I get alot of guys that come in and want me to cum for them and in their notes I have them down for the standard 2 min 38 sec . No fucking way I'm cumming. If that's what they expect their lady to do IRL then no wonder so many unsatisfied people out there. For those guys just fake it. They obviously think you can so they won't know you're not.
    I have faked the worst orgasms out there. Literally oh oh baby, I just came so hard.( That's as much effort as I give the total asshole that I get sometimes) And never once been called on it. They can't tell you didn't.
    That's why alot of guys like to see you "squirt". Because they feel since they saw something you did something. So,so,so,so,so very stupid.

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    OP ,SOME of those men cant tell when you have a real orgasm ,go ahead and fake it if its tiring you and affecting your health.You say you need to work more and if orgasming makes you work less then you have to practice faking.For me is different ,I can only work less or not work at all if I am not horny and after I orgasm once I want more and this is helping me do long shifts.Do whats best for you.But practice a lot,you dont want to look pathetic when making horny faces on cam .So ,practice and when you think you are doing it well then practice some more.And maybe keep the real thing for your regulars.

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    Orgasms make me itchy for more orgasms and I am constantly trying to get better ones which makes masturbating addictive. I get vibrator burn and very sore inner thigh muscles from being splayed out and my quads ache from cowgirling. I also get carpal tunnel pain from all the dildo thrusting. I sweat like a pig. I think this explains why I lost 20 pounds from when I first started. I also forget to eat because I just don't feel hungry until all of a sudden it hits me like a brick wall and I am ready to go shoot a horse for meat. I really need a fucking machine.
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    So where is the original poster now? Too exhausted from multiple orgasms to take part on the conversation?! Everyone gave input and she is gone HA! Kidding!
    I saw an ad at TV about a drugstore here & they had a very good promoting line: "We are all different & need different things to feel happy", i really loved it, very smart, not new but soo true. If you are a hyper-sexual/ nympho or a-sexual or demi-sexual, we are all hot women sharing our sexuality on cam & pleasing the horny guys who pay us nice fees for this service. Just adapt ur sexuality to their needs, it's all that matters, Cheers!

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    Hello all,

    thanks a lot for the replies. And i have fear to post my question hihi.

    You all gave me so much motivation and great tips to ahm fake it. ^^.

    I don't send, if i am horny. Not after 1,5 years of camming. My clit burn down. Okay if i play on my clit, i get a little bit horny, if the guy go and dont see it, i play with myself, because i want it, without visitors.

    I think i don't buy a hitachi, to fake it ^^.

    To fake it with penetration without vibration, it's a new world for me. .

    I saw yesterday a guy in my chatroom, they are a better camgirl as every camgirl i see. HE IS A GREAT SLUT. He say it he is a slut, and thats his slutface for me. I must laugh the whole time. And we have many fun. But that i think its toooo fake. To find a way, not to many "original" and not to many "fake" i think i need time for that. And yes, i think it's right to have a real orgasm with guys, they respekt you and gave great bucks. And gave the cheapasses only fake. It's sounds hard. But you as a camgirl have more health as i to be more ego to choose which guy get a real orgasm. I understand guys. It's expensive. But we not a 5 minutes pornclip. Most of the guys never understand of the camwork. They want to do this all for free to show his dick and play 24 hours a day. Haha. And lately one week later, they hate it. HAHAHA. *sorry*

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    Now this is a real example of what language barrier means, i am lost in translation now
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    I think it's awesome that she's trying. I got most of it.

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    Alice. I understand you very well. I hope you not to long lost. Hihi.

    Mare. Thank you. I hope to write and talk better english in the future.

    I know so much girls, they don't try it to make money on streamate or so, because of the bad english. I understand it. But i want more! And than i practice more.

    I hope it hurt not so much to read my text.

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    Just teasing u around Windchen, i know u do ur best, language is soo important when camming, it took me years to learn english & i still learn, good luck there.
    I used old fashioned dictionary, books, online translators, everything.
    Yes u right about some girls not wanting to learn the language and just typing "pvt baby?" Members under value such models & will never pay higher fees for models not able to communicate properly no matter how gorgeous they are.
    Also these guys get the idea in their minds that ALL non native english speakers, non western girls suck & have no value because of the ones who dont put any effort in learning, these models have very low prices & undersell themselves simply. Not good for the ones wanting to earn more money.

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