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    I havent been on here for so long.. but a lot has happened..
    I dont know where to start really... not even sure what to say .. so many emotions going on. mainly just anger and depression
    I thought maybe writing this all out and talking to you girls would help me out

    so lets start...

    One of my regs that ive known for quite sometime now.. has always helped me out and bought me gifts.. when i didnt work hed pay my whole daily goal. one month he gave me 8k.
    sweet, life is good.. i felt on top of the world.. things were starting to get hectic in december.. i start to get chronic utis.. once again. always sick.
    he offered to pay off some of my debt.. in the back of my head i knew not to get disappointed.. but apart of me. believed him cause after all he always gave me crap tons of money

    the day came around for him to give me the money..
    blocked from twitter
    Instantly I was fucking just let down.."hes just like the rest!!!"
    Then like a few hours later im unblocked.. he said he got hacked

    liar

    but wait. i mean it could happen but the odds of this happening when he was suppose to give me money

    hmmm

    I continue having a mental breakdown cause I realized that theyre all the same.. they want one thing. He wasnt my friend like I thought

    he said ill send you the money tomorrow. promise

    i get a message saying hes in the hospital.. needs surgery cause of a blood clot
    (could happen.. he is overweight) but hmmm..once again

    It gets better...


    im like whatever now.. whatever happens.. happens. says.. tuesday he wanted to do a three way call
    to pay off my debt.. sure whatever.let me know when ur ready and ill have my loan people call you.

    i go about my day and get on cam.. (im not letting anything get in my way.. after all .. hes a liar)

    around 5pm his time and 2pm my time.. he comes online.. says he cant be my friend anymore
    cause

    dun dun dun

    youll laugh at this one
    he says

    the gas company guys came by cause theyre doing street work..
    so i let them in.. they all have name tags.. and everything is verified..
    they head down to the basement to look at some gas lines... he said he turned around and the guy was like
    this is for (my cam name) and beats the shit out of him with 3 other guys.


    okay okay. im like whaaat?!?!! who the fuck does that.. my fans would not just go ape shit and possibly lose their job for me, right/...right

    Again.. liar.. said he has a black eye.. sent me a picture. no. nothing was there.

    so

    for someone who just got out of a surgery.. and got the shit beat out of him.. hes awfully busy during the day.. (i suspect hes at work, cause well.. hes a liar!)

    whatever

    the guy who supposedly beats him up said he wont be messing with you any longer.. i took care of him for you
    like what who the fuck are you?!

    well turns out this guy who was suppose to help me out.. has two accounts..
    i did a background check on that motherfucker and hes lied about a lot..
    I did the background check cause yeah.. "wow this guy is fucking crazy"

    anyways.. he lied!

    he comes online when im working.. gives me money .. im sitting there like >.>
    and hes like this is the best time ever! this is sooo much fun!
    thank you thank you!


    uhh im sitting here bored..

    whatever. ill take your god damn money
    :3

    dude he acts like nothing has happened..everything is fine
    definitely are not. i fucking hate his guts! but.. ill still take his money.. sure.



    so i got done camming again and sure shit.. woke up in the morning with a uti from hell. 3rd one in 5 weeks

    hubby made me throw away all my toys.. told me to get new ones
    going for 100 % silicone and glass and gonna take great measures to make sure i dont get another one
    its depressing me.. not sure why im getting these.

    hubby told me to wash the sheets every night
    wash the toys after every show.
    i usually just laid them on a clean towel thinking ill just wash them after my shift is over.
    but i dunno guess thats not the case. i need help ladies.
    im tired of utis.. what am i doing wrong?!
    i dont even do anal anymore! still getting them
    then i was thinking okay maybe its squirting causing it but read its not

    im going insane

    so mr. liar..
    wrote me on twitter and is like you were never my friend you just wanted my money. im like no
    actually i was your friend youre the one who always spent your money. and hes manipulative as hell! i cant stand it.. i just want to tell him to fuck off but best if i probably just fade on out


    more of the story dont believe any fucktards.. just dont.

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    I'm sorry this happened, Hugs. Do you have any meds for the uti? Take care.


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    "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time."
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    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.




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    I'm reeeeeeally sorry this happened to you. If you can, try not to let it depress you and ruin your life - even momentarily. Take it as a hard lesson learned.

    Sometimes we forget that our customers, our regulars, they are hustling us too. This is why we can never let our guard down. These guys are NOT our friends! No matter how much money they promise us, no matter how much money they actually give us, no matter how much we have in common, or how much we truly like them or enjoy their company... they are not our friends. Ever. And quite honestly, that is okay. That is how it should be, in the cam performer/customer relationship.

    I have always cautioned heavily against relying too much on regulars because in an instant, as you have found out, they can turn on you. Every whale has an expiration date... every single one. Sometimes you can tell when that time is approaching, sometimes you can't. For this reason, you cannot ever rely on the income from regulars to pay your bills, pay your debt, make your daily goal, nothing. You simply just cannot rely on them. Enjoy the money they give you while it lasts, but don't ever count on it.

    Lesson learned, right? You DO need to tell him to fuck off and never have any more contact with him. Why? The moment you two make up and things are going good again, he will do the same thing and leave you high and dry relying on his money, and then what?

    As far as the UTIs, you probably need to see a doctor since they are so frequent. You could have a larger issue going on with your kidneys or bladder. UTI and bladder infections are sometimes talked about as the same thing but they are two different things. Both are caused by bacteria. If you have lingering bacteria in your bladder, it needs to be taken care of with antibiotics. Right now it sounds like the bacteria is lingering... seems to away and comes back when in reality it's probably just one bad infection that needs to be taken care of.

    Good luck, try to take care of yourself. Don't let this guy impact your life beyond this.
    xoxo ~ Sarah





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    I learned this too. I had a whale who really wanted to marry me. Bought me a car. Bought me my flat-screen TV. amazon gifts all the time. Cash just because. Etc etc. Probably dropped a little over 10k (excluding car) on me during the span of 9 months.

    Then he left me for a girl IRL and was engaged to her 6 months later. lol!

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    I'm so sorry your going through this .I agree with Sarah every big spender has a expiration date .Enjoy the money while you can but dont depend on it.As for the UTI's i get them a lot .This is what i do that has stop them.I drink 3 cranberry pills from Walmart each morning shift and 2 each night shift.I'm also drinking a lot of water to flush out my system.Also never rub ur asshole then touch ur pussy because everytime i do that a UTI POPS UP.I dont even offer anal period but sometimes ill rub my asshole and forget and touch my pussy when i do that i'll run to go pee immediately To prevent a utis .so to make it short, drink cranberry pills and lots of water so the bacteria cant attach itself to ur walls.KEEP YOUR HEAD UP.YOU CAN AND WILL BOUNCE BACK FROM THIS.

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    oooh okay. ive been taking cranberry and d mannose after my shift.. but i guess you need to make sure ur bladder is slippery so nothing sticks to it... makes sense i dont know why i just took it at night after work or before bed

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    Yes i take them as soon as im going to start camming .If your break up your time into 3 shifts i would stay take 2 BEFORE each time your about to start working.

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    do you think squirting can cause utis?

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    Quote Originally Posted by gingerstripper View Post
    do you think squirting can cause utis?
    No, i actually think it prevents them.Also like you said it might be your toys .I use high grade toys only in my vagina and cheap ones for oral.I never use the same toys for my mouth in my vagina and vice verca.

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    mkay! good to know yeah im looking at 100% silicone toys like tantus and throwing out the ole hitachi for a silicone vibe.
    itll cost a pretty penny to replace all my toys but i need something that isnt gonna grow bacteria
    also my hitachi when i was done i just threw it on the ground under my bed. and who knows if my cats walked on it.. hubby thinks thats it and since its rubber.. itll grow stuff. and yeah. so thats gone.

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    Try to avoid scented soaps, too! I find the scented soaps caused UTI. Baby oils too! So, I switched all my soaps and lotions and everything that go down there from regular brands to LUSH brand. I have never got any infection with LUSH and it is much much better for skin, anyway. For some weird reason, scented LUSH stuff are okay with me. I even fucked my husband in the showers with soaps and all just fine.

    I also take cranberry pills, because I suck at try drink at least a cup of cranberry juice everyday. I don't really like it very much. ha.

    Natural ways to prevent UTIs

    13 STEPS FOR THE PREVENTION AND NATURAL TREATMENT OF FEMALE URINARY TRACT INFECTIONS (be sure to check High Alkaline Diet)

    Treat and Prevent UTIs Without Drugs

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    It is actually unfair to depend on anyone for money. It does something to your psyche and you kind of look at them like you would your parents/caregivers and when they stop giving you believe they have betrayed and stopped loving you. No matter how big your debt you will survive. Have you looked into bankruptcy? There is no shame in it and there are many advantages to going bankrupt rather than mediating or consolidating.

    As for UTI's, (I also get them), if your kidneys are in pain then you need to go to emergency ASAP. Once you clear that up, look into maintaining with D-mannose and supplemental baking soda. If you are not experiencing back/kidney pain, try this: take 1/2 teaspoon of PURE baking soda once daily in 8 ounces of water. Also take the recommended dosage of D-mannose every 4-6 hours. I really like the one made by AOR called UTI Cleanse because it also contains cranberry extract. The powder form is cheaper. You take one scoop 4times a day. You should feel relieve within 2hours of taking it unless it has reached your kidneys or the bacteria is not e-coli. If you don't feel relief, go to emergency. You take the D-mannose 4 times a day for 5 days straight and then you can do a maintenance dose once a day. Try not to drink alcohol or caffeinated drinks during treatment time. You can still cam but be very diligent about cleaning toys and peeing. I usually just take a scoop after a really busy camming day now and not daily anymore.

    Your husband is right, you need to get rid of all toys that are not medical grade silicone, glass or stainless steel. Toys made of soft plastic, rubber, jelly. TPR, etc. are not safe and will make you sick because they are porous and cannot be sterilized. Hard plastic is OK though. Most of the girls here, including myself, like the Vixen Vixskin toys like the Mustang and the Bandit models. Have separate toys just for anal...glass is best for your ass in my opinion because even the best silicone gets rank stink no matter how much you enema or douche your starfish.

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    thank you!
    its my school debt. so no bankruptcy.. i can pay for my bills and everything he just wanted to help me pay it off sooner so i didnt have to work so hard. cause i work a lot.. or use to not lately cause of my health. :/

    lesson learned though. I dont want to rely on anyone.. they take up too much of my time as well cause they constantly want attention

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    also curvy yesterday i did oil show.. baby oil.. and rubbed my whole body in it.. wonder if that was it..
    for oil shows should i just use coconut oil?

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    I don't use baby oils in the shows. I used it one time in the bathtub in hopes to prevent itchy skin after in tub for hours and bam i got a really nasty uti the next day. had to go to ER!




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    probably makes bacteria easier to stick to the bladder cause shits hard to get off your skin even after showering.

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    yes probably! quit using any oils for now.




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    Mineral oil is baby oil. It boggles my mind that we would slather a by-product of gasoline on our babies and our bodies. Same goes for Vaseline, yucky. For oil shoes, coconut oil is a bit too thick and does not look glossy on cam. I like to use almond oil or sunflower oil because they are more liquidy and glossy on cam.
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    I'm sorry this happened .

    AS far as the UTI's go.. I was a premature birth and had an underdeveloped Urinary Tract. I literally grew up having a HORRIBLE UTI every other week, and was hospitalized multiple times for kidney infections. I don't have the problem anymore, but I swear to god I tried every remedy under the sun when I didn't have money for the doctor and UNFILTERED Apple Cider Vinegar was the ONLY thing that actually cured it. Other things would mask the pain, but eventually I would end up in the hospital with a kidney infection after thinking it was gone. I started drinking apple cider vinegar (you can take it as a shot, but personally I always mixed it with a glass of water, lemon juice to cut the taste and some unsweetened cranberry juice) 3x a day and then took a home test for UTI and it was cured within 3 days. The pain was gone for me within the first couple of hours. I now drink ONE apple cider vinegar drink a day plus take cranberry pills and have not had a UTI in a little over 2 years! Make sure you get UNFILTERED because that's the good stuffn that makes it work so well. The best kind is BRAGG's Organic Unfiltered Apple Cider Vinegar. They sell it almost everywhere, definitely at Whole Foods, and also at Kroger for sure in the Organic section.
    I'm not a doctor by any means, but as a chronic UTI sufferer this has literally saved my life.

    As far as the Regular goes, Fuck bitches. Get Money. That is all.

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    UTIs are the absolute worst. I have interstitial cystitis, so I basically get flareups where it feels like I have a UTI but there's no infection present. Have you been tested for a UTI recently? Make sure that's actually what you have, since treatment will be different if it's actually something else. And if it is a UTI, be religious about taking your antibiotics and prepare for a yeast infection.

    Upgrading to body-safe toys will probably help a lot in the long run. It's scary how certain toys can suddenly turn on you! Even brands that are supposedly good like Doc Johnson have given me issues. I've literally been burned by toys before! Switching over to silicone ONLY has made a huge difference for me. I swear by Tantus and Lelo.

    I *highly* recommend that you check out shevibe.com for toys. They have just about every toy under the sun, their prices are good, and there's tons of helpful info/reviews. I'd stay away from Amazon since you never know if you're getting the real thing or a Chinese knock-off.

    I hope you feel better soon!!


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    For UTI's I agree with the cranberry pills! I take one a day here (maybe in europe they are stronger but one is always enough) but also two tablespoons of Apple Cider Vinegar in a glass of water every day should kill it off. You want the unfiltered stuff from a health food store, if you live in europe any brand will do cause they dont filter or pasteurize any of it over here but if your unable to find the natural stuff then just any will do until you can get the unfiltered one.
    Also I douche with 3% hydrogen peroxide once a week whenever I am having problems with UTI's. For me this immediately cures all UTI's and yeast problems. Right now there are also great oranges available. Eat those oranges, I eat one once a day and that seems to work really well to.

    For the old customer block him immediately. Now go to amazon and buy Ho tactics and even Solving Single by G.L. Lambert. great advice on dealing with customers like this and when to walk away. Changed my life! If you want to play the sugar daddy game you have to learn how to play it through from beginning to end. There will be other whales swimming by and knowing how to catch them, use them and drop them will save you all this frustration.

    Also this guy is acting like a catfish (all this shit about being in hospital and getting beat up) so communications with him must stop! He might come back under different usernames trying to hook you again so be aware and block him as soon as you realize its him! And do not respond to him on twitter or anywhere else if he contacts you. Dont even tell him to fuck off just ignore ignore ignore and he will go find a new girl.

    Big hugs your gonna get through this! We all learn this lesson and it will make u a better camgirl/sugar babe in the future.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gingerstripper View Post
    I havent been on here for so long.. but a lot has happened..
    I dont know where to start really... not even sure what to say .. so many emotions going on. mainly just anger and depression
    I thought maybe writing this all out and talking to you girls would help me out

    so lets start...

    One of my regs that ive known for quite sometime now.. has always helped me out and bought me gifts.. when i didnt work hed pay my whole daily goal. one month he gave me 8k.
    sweet, life is good.. i felt on top of the world.. things were starting to get hectic in december.. i start to get chronic utis.. once again. always sick.
    he offered to pay off some of my debt.. in the back of my head i knew not to get disappointed.. but apart of me. believed him cause after all he always gave me crap tons of money

    the day came around for him to give me the money..
    blocked from twitter
    Instantly I was fucking just let down.."hes just like the rest!!!"
    Then like a few hours later im unblocked.. he said he got hacked

    liar

    but wait. i mean it could happen but the odds of this happening when he was suppose to give me money

    hmmm

    I continue having a mental breakdown cause I realized that theyre all the same.. they want one thing. He wasnt my friend like I thought

    he said ill send you the money tomorrow. promise

    i get a message saying hes in the hospital.. needs surgery cause of a blood clot
    (could happen.. he is overweight) but hmmm..once again

    It gets better...


    im like whatever now.. whatever happens.. happens. says.. tuesday he wanted to do a three way call
    to pay off my debt.. sure whatever.let me know when ur ready and ill have my loan people call you.

    i go about my day and get on cam.. (im not letting anything get in my way.. after all .. hes a liar)

    around 5pm his time and 2pm my time.. he comes online.. says he cant be my friend anymore
    cause

    dun dun dun

    youll laugh at this one
    he says

    the gas company guys came by cause theyre doing street work..
    so i let them in.. they all have name tags.. and everything is verified..
    they head down to the basement to look at some gas lines... he said he turned around and the guy was like
    this is for (my cam name) and beats the shit out of him with 3 other guys.


    okay okay. im like whaaat?!?!! who the fuck does that.. my fans would not just go ape shit and possibly lose their job for me, right/...right

    Again.. liar.. said he has a black eye.. sent me a picture. no. nothing was there.

    so

    for someone who just got out of a surgery.. and got the shit beat out of him.. hes awfully busy during the day.. (i suspect hes at work, cause well.. hes a liar!)

    whatever

    the guy who supposedly beats him up said he wont be messing with you any longer.. i took care of him for you
    like what who the fuck are you?!

    well turns out this guy who was suppose to help me out.. has two accounts..
    i did a background check on that motherfucker and hes lied about a lot..
    I did the background check cause yeah.. "wow this guy is fucking crazy"

    anyways.. he lied!

    he comes online when im working.. gives me money .. im sitting there like >.>
    and hes like this is the best time ever! this is sooo much fun!
    thank you thank you!


    uhh im sitting here bored..

    whatever. ill take your god damn money
    :3

    dude he acts like nothing has happened..everything is fine
    definitely are not. i fucking hate his guts! but.. ill still take his money.. sure.



    so i got done camming again and sure shit.. woke up in the morning with a uti from hell. 3rd one in 5 weeks

    hubby made me throw away all my toys.. told me to get new ones
    going for 100 % silicone and glass and gonna take great measures to make sure i dont get another one
    its depressing me.. not sure why im getting these.

    hubby told me to wash the sheets every night
    wash the toys after every show.
    i usually just laid them on a clean towel thinking ill just wash them after my shift is over.
    but i dunno guess thats not the case. i need help ladies.
    im tired of utis.. what am i doing wrong?!
    i dont even do anal anymore! still getting them
    then i was thinking okay maybe its squirting causing it but read its not

    im going insane

    so mr. liar..
    wrote me on twitter and is like you were never my friend you just wanted my money. im like no
    actually i was your friend youre the one who always spent your money. and hes manipulative as hell! i cant stand it.. i just want to tell him to fuck off but best if i probably just fade on out


    more of the story dont believe any fucktards.. just dont.
    Ging, what did I TELL you in chat? I said yes, he may have given you X amount those other times, but $30k or whatever to pay your taxes- not gonna happen. I was actually just thinking about you the other day because I haven't seen you around. I'm glad you were able to realize that even the guys that spoil us lie bb. Hugs and I hope you get better. About the UTI, perhaps your body doesn't like a certain food you're eating/drinking or can't take the cam abuse (constant toys)? Fuck that guy anyway!




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    Quote Originally Posted by gingerstripper View Post
    he says

    the gas company guys came by cause theyre doing street work..
    so i let them in.. they all have name tags.. and everything is verified..
    they head down to the basement to look at some gas lines... he said he turned around and the guy was like
    this is for (my cam name) and beats the shit out of him with 3 other guys.
    This is ...................... idiotic. I'm really sorry this happened to you. I think people have layers of agendas and you saw a deeper one of his. He wanted to assure you he'd take care of a huge chunk of debt, hoping you'd plan your finances accordingly. Then, when he doesn't, you're screwed-in his mind, and have to work, more desperate and broke than ever-again, in his mind. Honestly, it sounds like he's coming a little unhinged mentally.Unfortunately, sex workers are exposed to a higher percentage of the population during events like this, in my experience. At the end of the day, you have a family, a well-paying job, a lot more years left than him. He's a creep who pays to watch strangers touch their genitals. He's not someone you want as a friend. For the uti's, any cranberry products help. I'm guilty of not wanting to wash toys after every show, too. I really hate baby oil for shows, coconut oil-a bit better, hope you like the smell more than I do. Do you ever take antibiotics for UTI's? Sorry if you've mentioned it,my eyes are tired and it's late. I ask because they lower your immune system and frequently cause rebound uti's. Also, stress lowers your immune system, so the constant knowledge of that such a big portion of your debt being done away with is relying on one guy could have began beating down your immune system as soon as the agreement was made.
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    If you're sensitive down there like I am assuming you are, I'd stay away from coconut oil. I was having issues where I would tear on the sides of my vagina, so I started taking rephresh every day (which absolutly fixed my tearing! apparently that was a PH inbalance issue??!?) and I thought it would be a good idea to put coconut oil down there since it seems to be good for everything. I started itching and burning and it ruined my PH balance. This went on for over 2 weeks, even after I had stopped using the coconut oil. It was so insanelt painful and every time I had to use the rest room I thought I was going to pass out from the pain.

    I know that's a lot of TMI, but hey, if it helps

    Make sure you aren't spraying anything down there like feminine deoderant or anything scented. Make sure you use the restroom every time after a show/sex and wash it with unscented soap and water. I got UTIs back to back when I was pregnant and it was absolute hell. Cranberry juice (NOT cocktail juice) and cranberry pills should help, but like everyone is saying I would go to a doctor incase it is something more serious.

    When it comes to the customer, NEVER put your faith or trust into someone that does stuff like that. I had a few customers that would give me large sums of money with no strings attached, but I have one that wants to give me a LOT of money, but with conditions. I don't think that's fair at all. When someone offers to get you a bunch of stuff (or pay you) it might be without conditions in the beginning but over time they will learn to ask you for stuff or be vindictive or weird about it. They will lie, they will trick, and sometimes they will do it or promise to do it just to hurt you. BLOCK HIM IMMEDIATELY!

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