So I tried a new club last night. The agent was incredibly unprofessional, didn't explain anything to me (or the new girl who had never danced before), and was rude. He started spreading rumors about me to the other dances and kept pulling me away from customers the first 2 hours I worked. That not only ruined my money, but also the whole night I had girls coming up to me "I heard that you're a guy" and that bullshit. Pissed me off how a professional can be so damn childish.
I have a masculine voice, and they accidentally put "male" on my dance card I had gotten yesterday morning. At first he seemed fine, got me a drink (lul I'm 19), friendly, etc. But before even allowing me on the floor, the agent pulled me into a room, asked some guy in there to leave, then asked to see inside my bottoms. Desperate to work (my old club told me I was fired when I walked in to work last night) I did it anyway. A half an hour later, he asked for me to show him again, this time with another girl in the room to check as well.
He also had that girl randomly walk up from behind and grab my throat to check for an Adam's apple. Shortly afterwards he asked If I could give that girl a dance, as if I had some secret dick that would come out in the back room?? Luckily i got called on stage right then.
I worked at another club before and have my Detroit dance card, so it's not like I'm some random kid walking in the club. I have and CAN make money, regardless of my voice.
It made me really uncomfortable having to literally prove I don't have a penis, especially with my driver's license and any other ID says female. (Plus I'm standing there, clearly looking like a half-naked female.) Being true, I know at a dr's appointment I had to have a female present in the room for the doctor to legally touch/see me without clothing.
I doubt I will be able to (as if i wanted to) come back to this club, and I really don't care. Is the agent asking to see inside my thong (esp after providing a 19-year-old with alcohol), in a private room, grounds for pressing charges?



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