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    Default Club agent asking to see in my thong?

    So I tried a new club last night. The agent was incredibly unprofessional, didn't explain anything to me (or the new girl who had never danced before), and was rude. He started spreading rumors about me to the other dances and kept pulling me away from customers the first 2 hours I worked. That not only ruined my money, but also the whole night I had girls coming up to me "I heard that you're a guy" and that bullshit. Pissed me off how a professional can be so damn childish.

    I have a masculine voice, and they accidentally put "male" on my dance card I had gotten yesterday morning. At first he seemed fine, got me a drink (lul I'm 19), friendly, etc. But before even allowing me on the floor, the agent pulled me into a room, asked some guy in there to leave, then asked to see inside my bottoms. Desperate to work (my old club told me I was fired when I walked in to work last night) I did it anyway. A half an hour later, he asked for me to show him again, this time with another girl in the room to check as well.

    He also had that girl randomly walk up from behind and grab my throat to check for an Adam's apple. Shortly afterwards he asked If I could give that girl a dance, as if I had some secret dick that would come out in the back room?? Luckily i got called on stage right then.

    I worked at another club before and have my Detroit dance card, so it's not like I'm some random kid walking in the club. I have and CAN make money, regardless of my voice.

    It made me really uncomfortable having to literally prove I don't have a penis, especially with my driver's license and any other ID says female. (Plus I'm standing there, clearly looking like a half-naked female.) Being true, I know at a dr's appointment I had to have a female present in the room for the doctor to legally touch/see me without clothing.

    I doubt I will be able to (as if i wanted to) come back to this club, and I really don't care. Is the agent asking to see inside my thong (esp after providing a 19-year-old with alcohol), in a private room, grounds for pressing charges?

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    Default Re: Club agent asking to see in my thong?

    Jesus. That's insane. Run away from that club as fast as you can.

    Is the agent asking to see inside my thong (esp after providing a 19-year-old with alcohol), in a private room, grounds for pressing charges?

    Yes. But...BUT you have to be prepared to have your name and likeness associated with pressing charges as an exotic dancer. You are not a minor, so the media will use your real name in the press. This will likely lead to being unable to work at clubs in your area because clubs don't want any media attention that even sounds a little bit like sex trafficking or sex abuse of their employees.

    Also, your name will forever be associated with being a stripper. So you have to decide how important it is to press charges. If you are suffering from PTSD due to this incident, definitely seek mental health care. Discuss with a therapist the ramifications of pressing charges against your harasser. It may not be worth it, if it ruins your future job potential.

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    Default Re: Club agent asking to see in my thong?

    Get away from that club and that agent asap!!! It honestly would be hard to pull charges on them for anything. The camera in the room could have been broken. There are two peoples' accounts of events vs yours. You'd be taking on the agency and probably the club, who both have incredible legal connections. Most of the Detroit clubs have dbags like that working in them. I would suggest based off of this thread and another you started previously to move away from 8 Mile clubs and move to the smaller scale ones away from 8 Mile.

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    Default Re: Club agent asking to see in my thong?

    Maybe there's a way you can file some type of report anonymously or without your name being released. Unless you are familiar with the law and your rights then It's probably best to consult a lawyer for this type of question. Most will do the first consult for free.

    If someone doesn't let him know what he's doing is not okay then he may keep doing this same thing to other dancers.

    I would say that's harassment and the agent should not be doing this to people much less at your place of work.
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    Default Re: Club agent asking to see in my thong?

    Damn honey, they did you WRONG! I would call a local lawyer and ask. Just being completely honest here, you are going to go against a club, agent, and other dancers, the odds don't look great for you

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