When getting dances I will put my hands back behind my head, like you would do for doing a sit up. I do that so that the dancer, the bouncer, and the camera can see where they are. Plus after having read here about the gratuitous and unwanted grabbing, I figure if the dancer can see them, so much the better. Last night both dancers said to me it makes it seem as though I am not relaxed. The chairs don't have armrests, so can't put them there, and if I just let them hang down they disappear into darkness where nobody can see them. Both of them reached up and put my hands in my lap, considering they are true lap dances that doesn't seem to be the best place.



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