I had veteran dancers giving me a few pointers here and there, and eventually I paid it forward by doing the same with newbies. I had never expected a single cent in return.





I had veteran dancers giving me a few pointers here and there, and eventually I paid it forward by doing the same with newbies. I had never expected a single cent in return.





I wouldn't say you owe them unless you asked them for help, and then I would not repay them with a tip but just a heartfelt thank you, or pointing them towards a good customer if you find yourself "in the know".
If someone voluntarily helps a new girl, they are either doing it because they feel for the newbie, or they are up to some scheme.
"People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."
"You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave."
I do agree with what jay12 said. I had a girl take me under her wing, and show me dresses to wear that would compliment my body shape, how to approach people at stage to make better money. I always try to pay it back by helping other new girls. I think thats the only way that you are suppoused to pif.




I wouldn't wan that. Recently a girl came to me and told me some other girls were doing that to her and telling her she should move in with them and all this other stupid shit. I know that the evil girls had a pimp and the one asking me was new and naive and not very sharp. I told her the truth and to run for the hills. She did.
Another situation I see is a girl who is absolutely gorgeous coming into a new club and a dumb bitch pretending she needs to show her the ropes but in reality is riding on the tailcoats of the gorgeous girl. Avoid this type of dumb bitch.
This world we work in is too shady to trust ANYONE as a newbie. So many ways to get fucked.



The only time I've ever 'taken a girl under my wing' so to speak was if they were already friends of mine OTC for a long time and were considering dancing, needed tips on dancing/attire/hustle. And even then that came to bite me in the ass in the end and I learned not to really help out the competition (I'd recommended friends to my manager to be hired three times, each time they did something god awful and got themselves fired). The only person I don't regret helping out as a newbie would probably be my sister and that's because she's family. Not to mention I like to compartmentalize my life so I don't really hang out with the girls I work with, which means while I'm friendly with everyone we aren't besties and I'm not going to try and go looking for friend material in the club.
That being said, if I hadn't have lucked out by working with a girl I used to be friends with back in highschool when I very first started and hadn't had her mentor me, I probably wouldn't still be dancing. I wouldn't have lasted a month because it was before I found SW.
If you just keep to yourself and observe the behavior of those around you it's generally pretty easy to get a feel for who is real and who isn't. Take everything with a grain of salt imo.
Last edited by SkyeSabrina; 02-16-2015 at 04:43 PM.
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