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    Hello! I've been off SW for a while, but as of last november, I got engaged! I am so excited but am at a standstill when it comes to what I do with my ring while at work. I really do honor my commitment to my fiancé, which makes it difficult to have to take it off my hand 5 days a week. But I am afraid that if I do wear it, it would hurt my income.

    So my question is, do you wear your ring at work? If so, what do you say when you are asked about it?

    Thanks ladies!

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    I think there is a thread in Hustle Hut addressing the 'commitment + ring' question

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    Don't wear it. It could get scratched on the pole, lost, or even stolen.

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    Congrats! It's never hurt mine and I'm not engaged anymore but still wear it because we bought it at the mall my mother and father met in Chicago. I tell guys I'm not engaged I just wear it because I like it and until I get a bigger one. Most guys don't even notice as my fingers are small and mine turns around.

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    Could you just put it on your other hand?

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    When I first got engaged, I took off my ring when I went to work, but it always made me feel a little awkward/uncomfortable - my now-husband didn't mind at all, but I did.

    Now, I wear my ring all the time, and I don't think it's hurt my money - I've only had a handful of people notice it, and it goes over VERY well with the couples. The guys that have noticed have either a) not cared or b) not been interested in anything other than OTC/extras anyway.

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    I wouldn't wear the ring for two reasons. First, you want to seem attainable to your customers because you are selling a fantasy. The men are lusting for you and they don't need to see that you're going home to another man while they pay you just to grind on them; which may cause a decrease in your earnings. Illusion of attainability=profit.

    Second, you may lose the ring and that would be a nightmare for you, especially on busy nights where some girls lose guard on what they're wearing. There has been times I have lost non-valuable fashion jewelry at the club. Keep the ring at home where it's safe.

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    I never wore mine, but sometimes I would put it on a necklace around my neck.





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    When I was engaged I never wore my ring. I was mainly afraid of it getting lost of stolen. I wouldn't suggest it because of those reasons and also because (like the other girls said) it can ruin a sale. There are some guys who might now mind or who might even be turned on by it, but your best bet is to start will a clean slate.

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    I'm a top earner ad have worn mine for 14 years and it's almost 3 carats.

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    Most the guys that spend big money are married btw. that's probably never why I had a problem as I don't attract blue collar guys.

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    Damaged, lost, stolen. I always was asked about it. I also like to keep a distance between my persona and my RL, I also believe in stones and crystals picking up energy so I don't want that transference.
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