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    Im a lipstick lesbian (21 yrs) and I have been to strip clubs like 4 times and I always wonder, do dancers feel uncomfortable dancing to lesbians? I make sure to tip them well, but idk if they find it annoying. like do they think "oh greeat, here comes the dyke"? haha. I dont look gay, but I think they can sense I enjoy their presence a lil more than I should. Anyways, how do you feel about lesbians and if the answer comes with your sexual orientation, the better.

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    We don't mind dancing for the ladies, but please respect our boundaries! It always seems that women are more grabby than male customers.

    As far as sexual orientation, no one cares if you're straight, gay, bi, whatever. Just have a good time!

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    Honestly, I would rather dance for an actual lesbian/bisexual than a straight girl who's just there to try to "be cool" with her guy friends or something. As long as you're respectful, I doubt anyone would care. But if, by your own admission, they can't tell at first glance that you're a lesbian, they'll probably be wary. The usual "trying to be cool" girls generally either push way too many boundaries because they're trying to "look cool" or they think "it's fine because we're both girls," OR they're exhaustingly timid or blatantly jealous and catty. That's probably where the weird vibes are coming from - because most dancers have only dealt with those kinds of female customers and don't know what to expect from you - not because they're uncomfortable dancing for a lesbian.
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    I am not attracted to women at all but looked at dancing as entertaining and I didn't care if they were polite, paid me and didn't try anything. I had the same policy with men.

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    I personally love dancing for lesbians! I tend to cut them slack that I wouldn't give to men, too. For example, my club has VIP rooms and regular lap dances -- a lot of times, if a guy can't afford VIP, I'll ditch him. But I always treat my female customers like they're a queen, no matter what dance they can afford. I'm always happy to entertain them even if they only want to tip a little on stage.

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    Your money is as green as anyone else's. The female customers most of us would like to toss into a crocodile infested pool are the "barsexuals" or jealous dryer sheets. Most lesbians have nothing to prove.
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    I love dancing for bi or lesbian women. Especially the ones who are respectful and know how to have a good time.
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    I don't give female customers lap dances. It's just not my thing, and a woman who buys a dance from me isn't getting a very good show. I'm more than happy to entertain any gender stage side, though.

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    I'm currently an escort, not a stripper (yet, anyway), but I think the same value applies? I don't think I'm a ton of help as I wildly prefer the ladies in my personal life, but I get super excited over female clients.

    On the flip side of that, even though I'd never again sleep with a man outside of work, I usually get good tips and most of my clients come back at least once or twice, so I assume I do well enough.

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    I like dancing for female customers, as long as they actually enjoy my company and don't try to start any shit with me. Some females have been a pain in the ass in the club. But I've been having mostly good experiences with female customers lately. I'm not sure if any of them were bi or lesbian, though. I think the 40-something woman I danced for could have been bi, but she was married and her husband was there. I don't think I've ever had a lesbian customer, though. I would totally give a lesbian a lap dance if the opportunity presented itself.
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    i was a dancer and i am a lesbian ... or bi but more so lesbian... i have danced for women with men or alone no problmes ......and i do go as a custy eather alone or with my gf or bf......always made me excited to dance for a hot female ..... they always smell better and tip better....

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    When I danced I didn't mind lesbians. I am an escort now and I love lesbians! They don't come around often but I wish they would

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    In my experience you can tell which ones mind it and which ones don't if you walk to the stage to tip them, they either act like they are enjoying dancing for your money, or they act like they just want you money as fast as possible and move on.
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