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    So here I am again venting about my club & their idiotic staff. So tonight was great for me BUT I'm seriously convinced that my mngr is up to no good by her actions tonight! Here's the deal: I end up selling a room at the very end of the night to a custy & we were about 15 mins in when my mngr comes running into the vip room flipping on ALL the lights shouting for us to leave & for me to get in the office. I'm quickly dressing & meanwhile my poor customer is left standing there berating me w/ questions like "Aren't I supposed to have more time?" yada yada. I then say hold on let me see what's going on. I'm the last girl of the night & my mngr starts accusing me of laying down on top of my custy during the dance. She asked if I wanted to see the camera footage & I said yes bc I knew that I hadn't violated ANY club rules back there & I didn NOT lie on top of him. As I'm watching it's clear that I wasn't doing anything wrong however you couldn't really see what was going on bc most of me was cut out . I then told them "Look, I haven't done anything wrong blah blah" & then they start on me about terminating my contract since I haven't been giving them 3 days a week. I've told them a zillion times that I get there when I can & that right now I don't have a car right now yada yada & so she then tells me she's going to talk to another dancer that lives near me in the same town about me riding back home with her every night if I paid her. She says she's trying to help me but I call BS! I'm thinking in my head that this is total bullshit & that I'm an independant contractor and that I should be allowed to work whenever the hell I want NOT ON THEIR CLOCK! Ugh so anyways I prob did the best out of anyone else there tonight & they somehow STILL find someway to badger me & borderline mentally abuse me. You'd think that they'd want to keep one of their most aggressive hustlers so the club would make money. What should I do at this point? I make good money there due to their rooms BUT I'm beyond sick of the manager's condesending attitude towards me! She even went as far as to tell me that I wasn't a serious enough hustler & that she's a better buisness woman than I am.. WTF is that crap?!?
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    Yikes. She sounds really unprofessional and im getting maybe a little hint of jealousy. I hate to say it, but it sounds like she might have it out for you. I don't think it's all in your head. I can't offer any insight as to why a club would harass one of its biggest hustlers over stupid shit, but the only thing I could think of is maybe they're trying to fire you or make you quit. I'm sorry, either way what a crappy environment to work in.

    I hope that customer comes back and that situation doesn't leave too bad a taste in his mouth

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    Yea she's like to to everyone that works for her apparently from what I've heard over the last year of working there. I think she even shorted me about $40-$50 from my room after payout last night, but I have no proof bc I didn't have my calculator handy at the time. I def agree w/ her being unprofessional bc the club doesn't have a lot of clients in as it is & here she is stopping the vip 15 mins in & basically kicking the guy out for NO reason at all. Pffft! The club already has awful reviews online due to it being an overpriced air dance club. I've thought about the possibility about her maybe trying to get rid of me by constantly bitching at me & badgering me about a schedule. I remember a few girls that use to work there & they never gave 3 shifts a week but had regulars that came in & spent a ton of $$$ on them only and she never said anything to them. She's always saying she's not interested in keeping my contract going if I'm not going to put in 3 days blah blah BUT in the same sentence she'll say you can do whatever you want you're an independent contractor. So nothing she really says makes any fucking sense. I don't get it, I pull soo much more than most of the other girls working there & she's gonna treat me like that, that's such company suicide.
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    Wow I swear my boss is like this too... ive managed to work there over 6 months and from thee beginning shees tried me all kinda ways tried to break me down. Im the top earner there , always have been and Thank god im on her good side now. I still feel no one should be mentally abused.. you don't have to stay there

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    Thanks I know i don't have to but considering the area that I'm located in at the moment I need to bc it's the only one that offers expensive rooms which I sell frequently.
    Why do these mngrs do this to top earners???
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    So I have an awful update regarding my club that pretty much sent me over the edge tonight. That cunt of a mngr overcharged me for a dance that I didn't do & when I said that the dance count was wrong & that I only did 2 she yelled at me saying we'll watch the tape blah blah & then went on to say that I come in there doing what I want whenever & I act like I'm a 10 from Vegas ( I couldn't . I've never wanted to fucking slap someone so hard for openly disrespecting me so much before! I'm sooo done with that place! None of us should EVER have to deal with such mental abuse from a manager. I'm on to greener pastures for now. I seriously think she has been trying to run me off for awhile now.
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    Damn she sound very unprofessional. Maybe you can report her to the owner. Are there other managers? Maybe you can work shifts she's not there.

    I would have been like hell yeah bitch I know I'm a 10. and what does that make her? With her bad attitude she's probably a 5 or a 6. If I was you before I quit I'd tell that biotch to suck it. You pay fees that go toward her salary so the way I see it she technically she works for you.

    Luckily managers have never disrespected me but the staff has as I sure as hell report their a$$ because If they expect me to pay their fees then I expect some common courtesy and respect and if they can't do that then they can ignore me but they do not have rights be be disrespectful for no reason.

    I seriously cannot understand why some of these clubs do not allow dancers to set their own schedule and their own prices. Then wonder why they get sued for treating girls like employees when they're not.
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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Damn she sound very unprofessional. Maybe you can report her to the owner. Are there other managers? Maybe you can work shifts she's not there.

    I would have been like hell yeah bitch I know I'm a 10. and what does that make her? With her bad attitude she's probably a 5 or a 6. If I was you before I quit I'd tell that biotch to suck it. You pay fees that go toward her salary so the way I see it she technically she works for you.

    Luckily managers have never disrespected me but the staff has as I sure as hell report their a$$ because If they expect me to pay their fees then I expect some common courtesy and respect and if they can't do that then they can ignore me but they do not have rights be be disrespectful for no reason.

    I seriously cannot understand why some of these clubs do not allow dancers to set their own schedule and their own prices. Then wonder why they get sued for treating girls like employees when they're not.

    Thanks girl*hugs* ya unfortunatley she is the only mngr & is there 5 nights a week rain or shine. I've never had a mngr treat me nearly as shitty as she's been lately. I'd totally report her but there's no one to report her to. Trust me I'd loooove to (evil laugh) bc we have very pretty & mostly nice girls working there that follow the rules & show up & most of all get the pricey rooms on those dead nights. She doesn't keep staff very long due to her unprofessional attitude towards them. She yells at the dj if he plays anything other than the same 15 or so songs every night, it's like she wants everyone to be a fucking robot. I hate that woman! I did well there & don't really want to have to move on for awhile but my mental sanity IS more important than money at this rate.
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    Oh my god- what a CUNT! This story SCREAMS of jealousy. It's so blatantly obvious that she envies you and wants to make your life hell. What a stupid bitch.

    Run far away from that place.

    This incident is seriously making me doubt that female managers are a good idea. The bitch-rage jealousy and control-freak narcissism that some of these bitches possess, holy fuck. Makes me prefer a male manager over that cunt, any night of the week!
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    well, this plus the cut throat bitches, yeah...sounds like a lousy club. i'm assuming both posts are for the one place?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarletKitten View Post
    Oh my god- what a CUNT! This story SCREAMS of jealousy. It's so blatantly obvious that she envies you and wants to make your life hell. What a stupid bitch.

    Run far away from that place.

    This incident is seriously making me doubt that female managers are a good idea. The bitch-rage jealousy and control-freak narcissism that some of these bitches possess, holy fuck. Makes me prefer a male manager over that cunt, any night of the week!
    Yes she is in fact everything you just described!!!! I've NEVER had a male mngr be that awful to me in the 13 yrs I've been dancing. She def "gaslights" as they say. She like to blame the emptiness of the club on all of us when she is the one that won't advertise or change it up. She's constantly picking me apart lately about everything it seems, from saying I won't make money without my blonde wig to saying oh it's you're own fault you don't make money bc you don't get here on time. I always do better when I arrive around 11 (prepared to pay the extra stage fee) bc that's when there are custys actually coming in , not at flippin 7 or 8 pm! Ugh she makes me soooo angry. I can't believe that she's started putting me down for extra dances when I know good & well I didn't do them but yet i still had to pay for it. I did say that they needed the $$ more than I did LoL since they have no idea how to run a club. The only reason I have stuck it out this long is bc I do well there whereas when I commuted to a bigger city, I made nothing really & it wasn't worth my time. I've since just tried to keep her at arms length & just stay away form her for the most part but it's hard bc she likes to walk over to you if you're sitting around alone & start either questioning or saying "controlling narcissitic" shit to me.
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    never understood why bitches got to be haters!

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