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    Default How do you dancers feel about "Ladies Night"

    One small club near me had a change of management. They gave the club a new face lift and have been advertising ladies night. I recently went with a couple school friends to check it out because we were curious. Drinks were free and no cover.

    Only one of the eight or so dancers there approached us. We purchased dances from her and I made sure to educate my friends in SC etiquette beforehand. Overall we were very well behaved and tipped our entertainer wonderfully because no one else was giving us attention. I even approached a couple girls I was attracted to, but I was given a cold shoulder and I'm waiting for a regular of mine. Whatever, we took our new stripperfriend to VIP, ate some food, drank, and got more dances.

    I noticed around the club, we were definitely the only ladies there when we left VIP. So is ladies night a complete waste of time for you? What are your experience? Is ladies night sometime take your wife to a SC day?

    I know from posts I've read that women can be a lot more grabby. But are there any other factors?





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    Default Re: How do you dancers feel about "Ladies Night"

    Female customers often get dances from me, I'm not afraid to approach and I have a straight girl hustle down- particularly if there is a guy with the group. I give them the same rule outline at the beginning and it's rare that those rules are challenged.

    Our ladies night is free entry only but we are sandwiched between to of the sleaziest nightclubs in the area so weekends always have a female crowd, but, they don't spend the way men do. Depending on the custie they can sometimes be a distraction too.

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    Default Re: How do you dancers feel about "Ladies Night"

    I don't like dancing for women or couples, so I tend to avoid them. I am good at what I do, and don't try to be all things to all people. Generally, if there was a "Ladies Night" at my club, I'd just schedule myself off for that shift.

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    Default Re: How do you dancers feel about "Ladies Night"

    We don't have a ladies night at my club but last Friday sure felt like a ladies night out. We had all never seen SO MANY women in the club! I don't think they were really getting any dances but they were tipping all the entertainers on stage. But it got quite annoying when some of them were getting so drunk and dancing for men in the club, which was hurting our business.
    Like Tourdefranzia said, I think if my club had an official ladies night I would just avoid working on that night.

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    Default Re: How do you dancers feel about "Ladies Night"

    I was usually the couples champ With the exception of two, most were very nice and easier to sell dances to than just guys. I always loved when girls turned down women and I'd just get a shitload of money from the rejected party. Some dancers just prefer not to dance for women couples, caused by bad experiences. It's unfair to group all members of a gender/race/shoe size together, but it happens. Sexual preference wasn't really a factor. I'm bi, but wasn't attracted to all the female customers. I also wasn't attracted to unattractive male customers. I just tried to provide a good service to any customer who behaved like a human being, wasn't cheap, showered in the last month, etc..
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Default Re: How do you dancers feel about "Ladies Night"

    Whenever I've danced for female customers they've been so into it so it's kind of fun. But, they usually only get regular dances and aren't going to spend a lot on VIPs or anything. I'll approach females for dances only if there aren't a lot of other options or guys have said no to me, but they're not my first choice on who to hustle. I haven't had issues with extra-grabby girls but I know a lot of other girls have. The other night my friend said a female customer grabbed her tit super hard out of nowhere (she wasn't dancing for her) and got pissed when she yelled at her to get off. I can definitely see why other dancers don't even bother approaching female customers. They usually think they can do whatever they want to us because they're not men.

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    Default Re: How do you dancers feel about "Ladies Night"

    I was actually going to post a similar thread today, after an experience while on my recent trip. One of the clubs I went to had a what I would consider a large number of female customers, at least 8. All of them were there with guys. The amount of interaction the dancers had with them surprised me after what I had read on here about females not being the most desirable customers for many dancers. All of what I saw was done by dancers on the stage. Two of the female customers had their breasts exposed by the dancers, which certainly seemed odd. All of them got more raunchy dances than what their male partners got, with at least medium levels of two way contact. Girls who did not reach out and touch got their hands guided by the dancers. I will say I saw it "rain" quite a few times when this happened. Guys got very low contact/air dances from the stage, and certainly no encouragement to touch. After I left I thought about what I had read here, and things I had seen at other clubs and came to conclusion that I must have missed the stop sign before entering the Twilight Zone.

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    Default Re: How do you dancers feel about "Ladies Night"

    I've never worked a ladies night before but, despite overall terrible experience with dancing for female customers, I'd try it a couple of times if a club I worked in did it.

    I occasionally go to clubs as a customer and always come in with at least enough money to buy drinks, two or three dances for myself and/or the guy with me if a girl catches our attention, and tip every girl on shift an absolute minimum of $5. I specifically go in with the plan to leave with empty pockets in an hour or so because anything longer ruins my fun. The few nights I tried going to the club with the intent to stay longer and buy VIP, I end up leaving with my money because of other customers. Male customers hitting on me makes me want to get away from them, but I can't find a girl to take to VIP once guys start flirting with me. Let's face it, even if female customers are spending a bit, most of us want them gone once they become a distraction for male customers.

    Maybe there are other women like me out there who will be more liberal with their wallets on ladies nights? Even if it doesn't bring in spending women, it would probably attract more male customers chasing women who can become potential targets for money making. I have no idea, but I'd be down for trying to see.
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    Default Re: How do you dancers feel about "Ladies Night"

    If my club did this, I'd avoid it like the plague. I've had a few awesome female customers but most are complete assholes.

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    Default Re: How do you dancers feel about "Ladies Night"

    ^^ Me too. I don't dance for women and IMO it's a GENTLEMEN'S club. GTFO.

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    Default Re: How do you dancers feel about "Ladies Night"

    Quote Originally Posted by SweetJulia View Post
    I was usually the couples champ With the exception of two, most were very nice and easier to sell dances to than just guys. I always loved when girls turned down women and I'd just get a shitload of money from the rejected party. Some dancers just prefer not to dance for women couples, caused by bad experiences. It's unfair to group all members of a gender/race/shoe size together, but it happens. Sexual preference wasn't really a factor. I'm bi, but wasn't attracted to all the female customers. I also wasn't attracted to unattractive male customers. I just tried to provide a good service to any customer who behaved like a human being, wasn't cheap, showered in the last month, etc..
    This.

    I don't normally get dances because my main thing is to see them dancers on stage, and tip them through the night. When I'm not in the mood for dances, and I get ask for a dance, I simply tip the dancer the amount of money a dance would cost and tell her I'll see her again later on on stage (in which I'll proceed to tip once more).


    Quote Originally Posted by Flickdreams View Post
    but, they don't spend the way men do.
    Well, think about it; many women (read, the ones that go on their own not dragged by a boyfriend/husband) who go to strip clubs prefer the entertainment the club provides (stage show) than being hustled into being dry humped for ten (or more) minutes. Also, they may spend their money on multiple dancers equally rather than having an ATF so it would appear at first that they don't "spend the way men do". Personally, when I go to strip clubs as a customer I split my attention into multiple dancers.
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    Default Re: How do you dancers feel about "Ladies Night"

    ^ Yes all valid reasons why women don't spend but I don't really put too much thought into why they don't spend much, i just take it into consideration when I'm choosing who to hustle.
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    Female customers are like pork chops for me: Not my first choice on the menu but if that's all that's there I'll take it. Money is money.
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    Default Re: How do you dancers feel about "Ladies Night"

    My first thought was "ugh".

    But that's really not fair, the right women in the club are more profitable than the guys by far, so I guess it's subjective.
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