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    Default How to meet local girls?

    I'm sure this has been asked before and if it has please direct me to the proper thread.

    i really want a "co-worker" if that makes sense lol I really want a cam girl bestfriend that I can vibe with
    and is local so we can make content and work together at times. And you know the occasional 420 let's go out to bars and have fun lol I just think it would be so cool to have a lady friend like that. Sometimes the industry is overwhelming and I barely have anyone to talk too about it so to have a friend who can relate and also make money with me is like a dream come true. I just don't wanna post on craigslist or something creepy lol any suggestions? PS I plan on getting verified on SW soon xoxo-Bailey @playfullilgirl

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    Default Re: How to meet local girls?

    There's a "camgirl connections" thread in Verified. It's probably not too safe to ask in an open forum. In the past when I met friends to cam with it went like this: first two times I met girls on personal forums and introduced them to camming. One is still doing it and we're still friends, the 2nd stopped when we stopped camming together. It doesn't always end well. Another I noticed on an old cam site I used and I emailed her. Turned out we didn't live too far from each other and she traveled to see me. We cammed and partied together when I moved closer and we're still friends. Follow camgirls on twitter in your area and see if they're open to meeting. I'd try to get a sense if they were the kind of people you'd like to work with/ hang out with before asking. Make sure they're legit or ask in Verified to be safe.

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    I actually tried Craigslist. I put up an ad as a clips model looking for another model to work with for clips and customs. All I got was photographers who wanted to open a clips store of their own. "I have professional equipment" lol The best part was, they were guys who were paying me for real modeling jobs through MM....so of course I didn't reply! Sadly I have about $1,000 in customs I need to find a girl for. Guess I'll try verified too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Addison Lynne View Post
    I actually tried Craigslist. I put up an ad as a clips model looking for another model to work with for clips and customs. All I got was photographers who wanted to open a clips store of their own. "I have professional equipment".
    AKA Dude with a camera. I had one guy try to tell me he has a VHS camcorder that's still in pretty good shape.


    You can also try networking with other cammodels on Twitter. I have a met a couple camgirls on there.





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    ^I had used MM (and before that, OneModelPlace) a long time ago, and stopped doing photo shoots after experiencing one too many photographers making me uncomfortable and/or trying to fuck me. There are some wonderful, professional photographers out there, and there are "guys with cameras" who are looking to get their dicks licked...sadly, they give the real photographers a bad name.

    OMG, be careful with Craigslist. I don't even think I'd recommend using CL for finding a fellow cam girl. I think you're on the right track using a cam girl forum, though doing this in the verified section is smarter and safer. Also, I like audritwo's suggestion of using Twitter. There are tons of cam girls on Twitter. Make sure that you and the other cam girl are both following each other, so that you can both direct message each other on there. You can use direct messages to get a little more personal, so you're not having random Twitter men all up in your conversation, blurting stuff out like "I'll do a show with you, bb!" LOL.
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    Default Re: How to meet local girls?

    How does one get verified? I am on here every day but often don't say much.

    I'd be into finding another girl to cam with, and I live in a big city so I am sure there are other cam girls close by who would be into the same.

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    I am in the same position as well, but I think it takes a while to get verified on here. I'm looking forward to reading more! I have been really wanting a female friend that I can actually trust, where we can hangout, smoke 420, go dancing, and just connect in a healthy and fun way.

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    Default Re: How to meet local girls?

    There should probably be a Get Verified sticky or something?

    Why are you not Verified?

    Getting Verified

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    Default Re: How to meet local girls?

    Craigslist is good for finding car parts and herpes, that's it. I'd tweet and find girls locally, even found a few local-ish ones on here.Please, FFS, no cl!
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    SweetJulia so true!


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    So true. My local CL every other person that posts mentions they have herpes. And that is just the ones that disclose that information.

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    Default Re: How to meet local girls?

    Just as a precaution, if you're planning on meeting and filming videos with ANYONE make sure you BOTH provide RECENT STD testing results. Just protect yourself in every way possible. Only meet with other established models, and never meet in a private place.

    It seems like common sense, but you never know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    ^I had used MM (and before that, OneModelPlace) a long time ago, and stopped doing photo shoots after experiencing one too many photographers making me uncomfortable and/or trying to fuck me. There are some wonderful, professional photographers out there, and there are "guys with cameras" who are looking to get their dicks licked...sadly, they give the real photographers a bad name.
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    OMG I hate GYC's....but I have made some nice money off of them! ;-)

    The one was actually a guy I had filmed a real commercial for. I know he's legit...it just pisses me off that he has no talent or idea of his own, but wants to make money off of us girls. Why the hell do any of these guys think we need their help? The very idea that these guys messaged me pissed me off.

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    When I was new to my area and looking for friends, I created an OKC profile. I was honest on there about my job in case anything got serious. I met several local camgirls and made some really good friends. Since I'm queer, I turned off straight people option. Which helped with less dude messages. I made sure to put basic photos up where I wasn't wearing makeup





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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    There are some wonderful, professional photographers out there, and there are "guys with cameras" who are looking to get their dicks licked...sadly, they give the real photographers a bad name.
    ^ That needs to be a disclaimer on every meetup site and the like.

    "Craigslist is good for finding car parts and herpes, that's it."

    ^Should be at the top of Craigslist forever lol.

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    Default Re: How to meet local girls?

    I've always wanted friends in the area that are in our industry and I actually ran into a cammodel a few weeks ago while out shopping. We hit it off that same night and she's my official "connect", lol. She's on SM but works for a local studio. One time she hand picked all the bbs that are in the local studio and I was sooo shocked. A LOT of top girls were actually working for this local studio and I had no idea.


    My semi-cambb horror story...

    About 6 months ago I started talking to a cam BB that lived in my area at the time. I too put up an ad on CL and she contacted me and said she was a cammodel as well and wanted friends in the industry. With all the guys scheming and pic stealing I wanted to get a feel for her before meeting up so I did a bit of a background check. It turns out she was an escort as well. This was totally fine with me because I had a few questions for her. When I asked about it she got SUPER defensive.

    She said that someone "stole" her pics, blah blah, blah. It was her, she just didn't want to admit it. I figured if someone can't be honest with me, why even try and be friends? The reality was I believe she had a child but didn't want to shoot herself in the foot over a custody battle so she denied being an escort. I would've been all for hanging out with her but she went besserk when I asked about it and even tried calling me a fake. I was like woahhh bb, I just asked because she had ads and link backs on TER, ECSY(SP), etc which matched her cam persona. I mean, you know those poses that some low-end escorts make, lol. THOSE poses. I understand trying to protect your children when you're in the industry but if it's clear that you are an escort from someone just googling you, you might want to revamp your marketing.

    As for "photographers"...

    I remember I met one of those GYC before in DC when I was in college. He was foreign and wanted BBW pics for his collection and offered me $300 to take some photos both nude and in different outfits from the neck down (I don't do full nudes w/ face). He booked this swanky upscale hotel and we met in the lobby.

    We get into the room, everything is cool, safe so we start doing the shoot. All of a sudden about 10 min in I notice a red blinking light out of the corner of my eye. I had purchased one of those FLIP cams that came out that year and this fucker had one and tried to hide the fact that he was recording me.

    I quickly grabbed the camcorder and went through it. I told him we agreed that he did NOT have permission to record me, just to take pics and when I went through it this geezer had about 6 other unsuspecting BBW posing, fucking a few of them, etc. I deleted my scene, got my money, and got the hell out of there. I scolded him good and hard, too. He was very apologetic but I think he was scared of me.




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    Default Re: How to meet local girls?

    I wonder if there is anyone local to me... I've tried searching the site I use but I know many girls that only cam, not escort, give a fake area





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    GWC are hilarious. I recently had one trying to get me do a FREE photo shoot for our portfolios. I have a portfolio with plenty of great beautiful photos. Also had no idea what kind of shoot he wanted and wanted me to come up with it so he can claim the work as his own. This guy obviously was just starting out and had no real talent. His depth of field was complety off. Framing flat out sucked. And lighting was dull as hell.

    I wouldn't usually poke fun at someone who was trying to learn photography. But he had the nerve to tell me he is a professional.


    GWC, stay far far away from. They usually do try to record photo sessions, and using photos and "modeling" as an excuse to have sex with girls for money. If anyone doesn't mind escorting on the side, make these dudes pay for actual escort rates.
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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    When I was new to my area and looking for friends, I created an OKC profile. I was honest on there about my job in case anything got serious. I met several local camgirls and made some really good friends. Since I'm queer, I turned off straight people option. Which helped with less dude messages. I made sure to put basic photos up where I wasn't wearing makeup
    That's a cool idea. It hadn't occured to me to use OKC to make friends, but why the hell wouldn't it work!

    This reminded me of a terribly useful blog post about sanity-saving OKC and dating tips for sex workers:

    http://fornicatrix.com/2014/09/16/a-...de-to-okcupid/


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    I know that 'GWC' stands for 'guy with camera'. What does 'GYC' mean, or was that a mistake?
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    ^I think I copied someone else's typo and figured GUY YIELDING CAMERA. lmao.




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    Lol Autocorrect. I was on my ipad.





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    LOL! I was confused by GYC, but it also took me several posts to realize that OKC was not some local Oklahoma City meetup club.
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