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    Now that camming is my sole income (as opposed to something I did for fun and a little bit of extra cash on the side once or twice a week), I am on cam a lot more, and the freeloaders are really getting on my nerves. The thing is, these are people I've been chatting with for months and months, even longer. When I was camming for extra cash, it was also for fun and, and so I would chat with everyone, didn't matter if they'd tip or not. Now that camming is my only source of income, I am MONEY HUNGRY, and I don't have time for those freeloaders. But I don't want to be a super bitch and just start ignoring them out of the blue. I'm not that kind of girl.

    I need to find the balance here.

    Taking a few days off has really helped me this week, as it was much needed.

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    First things first. Stop giving attention to people who aren't valuing your time by tipping you or taking you to shows. Yes be nice to new faces, explain that this is your job. I don't ever use the word camming when I'm online. It's my job, so I call it work. If someone tries dirty talking for free, tell them you'll gladly indulge in private or tip. You have to be firm. If not, sadly you won't make it. I don't mean to sound harsh, but it's the truth.
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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    First things first. Stop giving attention to people who aren't valuing your time by tipping you or taking you to shows. Yes be nice to new faces, explain that this is your job. I don't ever use the word camming when I'm online. It's my job, so I call it work. If so done tries dirty talking for free, tell them you'll gladly indulge in private or tip. You have to be firm. If not, sadly you won't make it. I don't mean to sound harsh, but it's the truth.
    It's not about making it or not, frankly. I do just fine at my "job". I make $1000.00 a week when people don't annoy the fuck out of me.

    Going forward, I will be polite to everyone, as I always am, but will give less attention to the freeloaders who have been taking my attention for a long ass time and have never tipped a dime.

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    u just need to develop ur BSer and freeloader spidy-senses. ur going to burn urslef out if u just keep talking to all them all the time (it sounds like u may be there or getting there) and possibility give them free dirty talk and them off for free. its an aspect in fining tuning ur hustle IMO. when u feel like theyre just trying to get dirty talk or think its talk_to_women_in_undies_for_free.com i stop talking to them they will leave on their own after awhile but if they stop talking to me because i stopped talking to them and just i kick them out. most will leave on their own and some will come back in and keep sitting in my free chat not saying anything still. depending on my mood and whats going on in my room i will just keep kicking them out for the LOLz or ban them . some will come back in and asked about it depending if theyre cool about it i will explain my stance or ban if they got nasty . i like to think im fair but firm .

    also just fyi guys who say give me a min or ill brb and get quiet or loge off are not always freeloaders some come back and take u into paid as soon as they get back in or there will be a long stance of nothing from them then BOOM pvt .
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    I never said anything about not makin money or stating your not taking it seriously. I use certain word association so dudes get the picture that camming is a job and not me getting naked on the internets for fun. I've noticed it chases more freeloaders away and helps me narrow them down.


    Just because you are doing it full time now doesn't mean that you doing it for extra cash didn't count as your job. It was one of your jobs then, and it still is now. I don't want you to quit because you can't take these dudes freeloading or something. I've seen it before many times.

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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    I never said anything about not makin money or stating your not taking it seriously. I use certain word association so dudes get the picture that camming is a job and not me getting naked on the internets for fun. I've noticed it chases more freeloaders away and helps me narrow them down.


    Just because you are doing it full time now doesn't mean that you doing it for extra cash didn't count as your job. It was one of your jobs then, and it still is now. I don't want you to quit because you can't take these dudes freeloading or something. I've seen it before many times.

    Sorry if I offended you in anyway, that wasn't my intentions.
    No need to apologize, I'm the one in the cranky mood this week.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ashalicious View Post
    No need to apologize, I'm the one in the cranky mood this week.
    Join the club. Yeah, just minimize the attention given to non-paying members. Mute basics, or non-spenders. I know some ladies are super amazing and convert them into sales, but I usually lack the patience for that. Regularly spam your room with what to tip for flashes/privates on, etc..
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetJulia View Post
    Join the club. Yeah, just minimize the attention given to non-paying members. Mute basics, or non-spenders. I know some ladies are super amazing and convert them into sales, but I usually lack the patience for that. Regularly spam your room with what to tip for flashes/privates on, etc..
    do you find that helps or hurts and the ones that leave dont like it because they dont have any tokens so they leave? i know on cb and mfc they dont like to feel pressured and hustled to tip so ive always been really weary to try that.

    OP i realized from reading Julias post that u work token sites and my first post was more pvt based site oriented. are you on CB or MFC ? the hustle on token sites is very different but if ur noticing the same faces in ur room for months and have never tipped i think its time u start banning them IMO
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    Right now I do indie, but when I must, I venture towards SM. I'm not sure where the OP cams, but token sites-guys seem to just want to hang out. I like private based so much more, the energy needed for token sites......well, I'll be thirty next month, I can use that excuse
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetJulia View Post
    Join the club. Yeah, just minimize the attention given to non-paying members. Mute basics, or non-spenders. I know some ladies are super amazing and convert them into sales, but I usually lack the patience for that. Regularly spam your room with what to tip for flashes/privates on, etc..
    Ignore them. You can ALWAYS ignore them all equally. Nothing says you have to pay attention to them. Dont speak, Don't even read what they say. If they want your attention they will have to pay or tip. If you are on MFC or CB I'm sorry... convo and putting up with the chatters is kinda part of the hustle or so I found. But you can always change the subject to something not sexual. If you are on SM or livejaz ignoring should be a lot easier

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    I am on cam4 mostly and have just started camming on cb. Was thinking of trying SM when things get slow, but haven't needed to yet.

    Most of my hustle IS hanging out on cam and chatting...

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAdriana View Post
    Ignore them. You can ALWAYS ignore them all equally. Nothing says you have to pay attention to them. Dont speak, Don't even read what they say. If they want your attention they will have to pay or tip. If you are on MFC or CB I'm sorry... convo and putting up with the chatters is kinda part of the hustle or so I found. But you can always change the subject to something not sexual. If you are on SM or livejaz ignoring should be a lot easier
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ashalicious View Post
    I am on cam4 mostly and have just started camming on cb. Was thinking of trying SM when things get slow, but haven't needed to yet.

    Most of my hustle IS hanging out on cam and chatting...
    CB was awful for me so I feel your freeloader pain!! I have a note saved with usernames and put the dates they come in so I can keep track of how often they visit versus how often they actually spend. If they visit once a month or more and don't tip: they get blocked or at least kicked or ignored until they get the point. Some of them never get the point so I ban them. If they are needy and demanding your attention like sending the same message over and over: block. You don't want their 2 bucks anyway because it's not worth it. I know you don't wanna become a bitch, that's what I did and it worked for me thank god. What also worked was walking away or positioning the camera in an awkward view that doesn't show anything and they all leave pretty fast. They are paying for your attention/conversation - not to JUST see your lady bits or at least they SHOULD... the be freakin bastards

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    Www.exposedwebcams.com <--- it is because of goddamn fucking websites like that you get the stupid, moronic freeloading shitheads in your room.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hyori View Post
    Www.exposedwebcams.com <--- it is because of goddamn fucking websites like that you get the stupid, moronic freeloading shitheads in your room.
    OMG that video made me CRINGE.

    I need to get out of this cranky place by Monday so I can get back to camming and continue making money. Positive thoughts. Positive thoughts. Positive thoughts. Positive thoughts.

    Maybe I should go treat myself to a new sexy outfit or stockings to wear on cam or something.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hyori View Post
    Www.exposedwebcams.com <--- it is because of goddamn fucking websites like that you get the stupid, moronic freeloading shitheads in your room.
    Wow, just... wow! That's a SM white label or affiliate of some kind, no?

    It's interesting how they have a bunch of recent, fake comments confirming that everything is porn-tastic and totally free. How can one tell for absolutely certain that they are fake comments? Every last one is impeccable - good word choice, proper grammar, use of punctuation and capitalization, no weird abbreviations - and signed off with a generic American name. Eleven of them in a row! I can't imagine going *anywhere* on the internet and finding 11 real, well written comments in a row (except maybe here, now that I think about it). And there's basically no chance that cam customers would all sign off so neatly. No foreign names, no BigDick69, no random number/letter combinations? Riiiiight...

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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    First things first. Stop giving attention to people who aren't valuing your time by tipping you or taking you to shows. Yes be nice to new faces, explain that this is your job. I don't ever use the word camming when I'm online. It's my job, so I call it work. If someone tries dirty talking for free, tell them you'll gladly indulge in private or tip. You have to be firm. If not, sadly you won't make it. I don't mean to sound harsh, but it's the truth.
    Golden advice! I'm so guilty of this and I have no excuse for it being years into camming. I must be the most dense bb in the universe. (Face palm about to cry.) I used to think, 'well how would I like others to treat me?' and the I just realized wait a minute I wouldn't demand attention or make requests without monetary compensation for the person I'm supposed to be enjoying. I wouldn't be so entitled, why the hell should I let them? I used to laugh it off and even joke like it's no big deal. It is a big fucking deal. If I'm not acting like this is serious business why should I expect them to spend on me? For them this is fun and games, for me this is a job. After all they're getting free attention because I'm being a 'nice gal'. This 'nice gal' stuff ain't paying my internet. I needed to read this even if this wasn't directed at me, it was directed at me if you catch my drift. I'm so going to stop it. Geez this should be interesting. I used to have some backup income but now that that's died off I'm faced with a harsh reality. Camming is my only source of income. Internet out here even for a craptastic 2 MB upload (the best they offer) is $120 a month and a huge expense for me right now. I need to get serious about my business or get out.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hyori View Post
    Www.exposedwebcams.com <--- it is because of goddamn fucking websites like that you get the stupid, moronic freeloading shitheads in your room.
    WOW. Honestly, the fake comments make me laugh so hard. I had a guy yesterday in my room who said "I Don't come here to pay, I come here to socialize" and when I asked how that was working out for him, he called me a jerk and a bully. LOL Makes me think he was from a site like this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Scarlet Letter View Post
    Golden advice! I'm so guilty of this and I have no excuse for it being years into camming. I must be the most dense bb in the universe. (Face palm about to cry.) I used to think, 'well how would I like others to treat me?' and the I just realized wait a minute I wouldn't demand attention or make requests without monetary compensation for the person I'm supposed to be enjoying. I wouldn't be so entitled, why the hell should I let them? I used to laugh it off and even joke it off like it's no big deal. It is a big fucking deal. If I'm not acting like this is serious business why should I expect them to spend on me? For them this is fun and games, for me this is a job. After all they're getting free attention because I'm being a 'nice gal'. This 'nice gal' stuff ain't paying my internet. I needed to read this even if this wasn't directed at me, it was directed at me if you catch my drift. I'm so going to stop it. Geez this should be interesting. I used to have some backup income but now that that's died off I'm faced with a harsh reality. Camming is my only source of income. Internet out here even for a craptastic 2 MB upload (the best they offer) is $120 a month and a huge expense for me right now. I need to get serious about my business or get out.
    I have backup income for now but I'm going to be in your shoes in a few months if I don't change too! Part of my problem is that being firm would seem to go against my sweet camgirl image. I don't really know how to reconcile that. But I can probably say "I'm sorry sweetie, this is my job!" without looking like a bitch, right? But for now my best evening has been when I had a couple of intelligent, funny guys in my room and I talked to them being myself until they both took me private later on. I want to attract the customers who like my personality as well, and I don't like to be overly sexual in free chat.

    I'm daydreaming about putting in my topic "Tip for a response!" and I completely ignore everyone until they give me some money, haha.

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    Part of my problem is that being firm would seem to go against my sweet camgirl image. I don't really know how to reconcile that. But I can probably say "I'm sorry sweetie, this is my job!" without looking like a bitch, right?
    My hustle is the sweet, cute, "girl next door", bubbly, giggly thing. I struggled a bit with telling them that I'm strictly pay-to-play, but at the end of the day, my time is worth money. I do a lot of "this is my job, honey! a girl's gotta make some money!" but mostly when people ask for tits or ass or twirl, I just say "2 gold for requests" and repeat ad nauseam. Now, I am on SM mostly (MFC has been shit for me lately, so giving it some time off), and I find that the guys who want to spend on me know pretty quickly. I don't talk endlessly to guys. Everyone gets 2 free questions (no dirty talk, I respond to those questions with "I can't tell you all my secrets or I'll have nothing to share with you in private") and after that I mainly ignore them. Don't think of it as being mean, think of it as asserting your worth.

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    I got really annoyed today and banned 10 guys in a row because they were being such fucking morons. Right after that, the privates and exclusives started up again. LOL.
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