It was about half an hour until closing. It had been a shit night and I had lost the last of my fucks about an hour previously. The club was dead except for a group of about 5 dudes that had just wandered in. I went to chat with them. The first guy I talked to would neither look me in the eye or engage in conversations. "How are you tonight?" "Ok." "Having fun?" "I dunno" "Is this your first time here?" Silence.
I got fed up. "You can talk to me, you know. I don't bite. Usually. I usually, almost never bite." Nothing. So I turned to his friend and loudly said, "How are YOU tonight? Are you scared to talk to girls like your friend over there?" He said no, we chatted for about two minutes, I left to go up on stage.
The first guy, who wouldn't look at me, went to my stage, tipped me, and then took me back for a few dances. Then his friend took me back. And if we hadn't closed at that point I think I would have gotten even more out of them.
This isn't the first time something like this has happened to me, and I've started thinking. I've read about pick-up-artists using "negging" on girls to lower their self esteem in order to get them to sleep with them. Does this work on guys as well? Does anyone here use this strategy on guys to gain their interest? I imagine it only works with younger, more insecure men, but I'm excited to keep trying this one out in the club...



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