Hey,
So recently I have made the decision of living on my own with my boyfriend after being in an extremely toxic situation with my family. I have been struggling to find a job and am finding it harder to be able to financially support myself without working, I have honestly joked before about the idea of becoming a dancer with my boyfriend but he and I both knew there was truth to it. After researching I have become inspired and extremely interested in it. I am not ashamed of my body in any way and think it's a beautiful, sexy, confident thing to express yourself through the nature of seduction. I take it as it is, performing like acting and selling yourself (not body) and being able to free your mind, I know it's not all play and is very hard work. I'm also very shy and believe it would be a great way to boost up my confidence and grow thick skin, having to go up to people constantly would break the shell I'm in. I also have the support of my boyfriend fully and know I'm not doing anything illegal and it's just work like any other job.
From all of this information, do you think I'm right for this line of work?
I also have a ton of questions to ask, I'm sorry if it's a lot I just want to make sure I'm doing things correctly
I will be auditioning for two bikini clubs, what should I wear for this type of club as opposed to a topless/nude?
-Will I have to still bring clothes over it to strip to my bra and underwear or just wear the lingerie without needing anything over it
-If hired, do they keep my personal information on a background check and are you allowed to pick a stage name ?
- How exactly does the lapdance work? Or VIP and how do you go about asking someone if they want a dance and the time frame, and the way they pay you and tip you during those lap dances
- Do you pay the cover fee at the end of the night to one person or at the beginning/ middle?
Any other newbie tips would be greatly appreciated for a shy person
Thank you!



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I'm so excited to get into this field and inspire others and make them feel confident doing this as you do
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