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    So I was messaged by someone who say they know me in vanilla work and wanted to book appt. They gave enough info that even though I did not know them I knew they were real or real enough. My wish list gave my porn name and when they looked at my website, clicked on that they made the connection. So in addition to this and a former customer harassing me on one site I am considering a name change. Ughh. I just had a really nice website made, domain bought, marketing going well, etc.
    Hubby and my webmaster say not to bother changing name. A few others say yes, to do it. The one who is harassing me has written a review on big website so I would prefer to have those removed so that he won't be able to follow me by my reviews/ads?
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    Keep my name the same and take the risk?
    Make a subtle change to my name so customers and potential customer will be able to make a connection but definitely change my wish list name.
    Change name/website completely?
    I have already made a new ID on a few ad sites but have not done anything with it.

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    I hope you were blurring your face? Assuming so, I feel really bad and hope he leaves you alone. Ignore him, avoid him, and hope the waste of space finds someone else to make uncomfortable.
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Default Re: Found By a Local and Harassed by a Former Client

    Yes, face is always blurred but knew my porn name and I forgot it was on my wish list (my mistake) .

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    Before you go the expense of changing everything - could you just block him? Change your wish list and ignore, ignore, ignore.

    See how it goes for a couple of weeks?

    This is probably a pattern of his and if you don''t bite, I suspect he will move on to his next target. And if not, you can change things up. Thinking a small change in name will still let him know its you.

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