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    i really need to call the club and ask for my job back , and if that doesn't work i'll drive further, but i guess i just want to see if they'll take me back. i have nothing to lose by trying! but i'm confused as to how i should do it..i was fired 4 months ago for some bullshit i didn't even do but other than that i was a perfect employee for over 3 years at that place. i'm thinking of calling down and talking to one of the DJs who has an in with the management and see what he thinks i should do or if will hire me back..or should i walk in? its just a long ways away and the management is in and out of that place all the time. but do i call up and say " hey, i was wondering if there's any chance i could get my job back"?? idk how to word it without it sounding stupid!

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    I'd give it a shot, it doesn't sound stupid to say that..but maybe 1st call that DJ & ask what he thinks? As you say, if you drive down there, it may be for nothing if there's no set time for mgrs to be there. Or is there like a weekend time, maybe close to closing that they'd be there for sure?
    I think dancers quit & come back a lot, if not a fair amount of times. I did too.
    Good luck, I don't see any reason why they wouldn't, but they can be weird too. Sorry I'm not a lot of help here.


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    I was fired too for the first time over the dumbest thing. Pretty much one of the main bouncers/acting manager had a thing for me and I kept turning him down so he fires me over "undertipping" (when the only other girl who's been fired that I know of was fired for threatening a bartender to stab her in the boob). I did call the club the next day to talk to a manager about the situation and he encouraged me to come in and talk to the manager who was on shift and the owner so I could resolve the situation but I just said good riddance and never went back. I would think if you were fired for something dumb like I was you could always call and talk to them about what happened and explain your side of the story if you need to. Unless you did something crazy like tell the bartender you're going to "stab her in the tit" there's a chance they'll let you come back. It may help to talk to them face to face but I would hate to drive far and have them turn you away. Just give them a call and see.. maybe ask to speak with whichever manager you were closest with who you know liked you and talk to them about it?

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    Definitely try. I've seen lots of girls get fired then re hired at multiple clubs I've worked at.

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    I'd call and talk to the manager that you had the best rapport with. Let them know you are interested in working there again and see what they suggest.

    I see girls getting fired and rehired all the time although it depends on what they let you go for in the first place.

    I'd also have a back up in case they happen to say no to re hiring you.

    Hope it goes in your favor.
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    i'm just sooo nervous haha, i keep wanting to call and then chicken out ..need to set a date and stick with it!

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    You'll be fine, hon. We're all rooting for you.


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    "Hey I worked there several months ago, but I was thinking about dancing there again. Any chance you'd have me again?" wink wink smile
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    They might not even remember you at all. I quit without even telling anyone and just didn't show up for a whole month I was scheduled, after one of the managers called me out for getting drunk and freaking out in the VIP. I thought for sure they would have talked about it or something. I called two months later and said, "Hey, can I have my job back?" The manager said, "Who are you again? I don't remember anyone by that stage name. Sure, just come in whenever you want." Literally nobody remembers it - none of the managers, not the owner. They don't even remember who I am, even the guy who hired me. xD

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    There is no fired in stripping, there is only extended time-outs for strippers who got out of hand. After 4 months I'd be surprised that anyone would remember that you were "fired." Just pretend like you've been traveling the world or something. I'm sure you'll be offered at least 1-2 shifts when you call.

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    thanks you guys, seriously made me feel way better..you're right, i'm sure after this long they will have probably forgotten the whole thing

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    There's only one club in Philadelphia that I liked and I was basically fired over BS too and I've been shy about calling even though I actually really liked it there...reading all this makes me really tempted!

    Good luck Simone!
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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    thanks you guys, seriously made me feel way better..you're right, i'm sure after this long they will have probably forgotten the whole thing
    We Wuvz You!^

    Quote Originally Posted by lynn2009 View Post
    There's only one club in Philadelphia that I liked and I was basically fired over BS too and I've been shy about calling even though I actually really liked it there...reading all this makes me really tempted!
    Good luck Simone!
    Go for it Lynn!^ Good Luck


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    Quote Originally Posted by zoezoebelle View Post
    "Hey, can I have my job back?" The manager said, "Who are you again? I don't remember anyone by that stage name. Sure, just come in whenever you want." Literally nobody remembers it - none of the managers, not the owner. They don't even remember who I am, even the guy who hired me. xD
    I got fired (and banned) from a club because I commented on their facebook page (using my old account and not my dancer page). What did I comment? They were making semi false ads about their VIP and I commented with the actual info as if I was a "dissatisfied customer". They fired me over a stupid facebook page!!!!

    I tried to come back, but even though some managers and the owner were ok with me the guy who fired me had so much influence in the hiring that they didn't take me back.





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    If it's a long ways away, call before going in to make sure a manager with hiring authority will actually be there when you get there, and show up all dolled up, ready to work. Much harder to turn down a hottie right in front of you than a voice over the phone!

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    Please keep us posted, Simone!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Jay12 View Post
    I got fired (and banned) from a club because I commented on their facebook page (using my old account and not my dancer page). What did I comment? They were making semi false ads about their VIP and I commented with the actual info as if I was a "dissatisfied customer". They fired me over a stupid facebook page!!!!

    I tried to come back, but even though some managers and the owner were ok with me the guy who fired me had so much influence in the hiring that they didn't take me back.
    THAT was shitty^!


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