Me and my boy friend had been talking about camming as a couple for a month or longer. Well he had a stroke last Sunday and was in the hospital for a couple of days. He s out now but he is not able to work because the stroke messed up his eye site. He can still see but he just sees double and has to wear a patch until his eyes straighten back out. Now he has to find another place to live because he was working on a farm and they furnished his house and utilities as part of the job. After asking in another thread about camming as a couple I've decided not to do it. I've got a lot of credit card debt and bills that I am trying to pay off and I need all the income I can get. I told him today that I want to cam by myself without him and he asked if he could watch. I am not really sure what I think about that or if I would be comfortable with him watching?
I am just not sure if I am even ready for him to move in with me either cause we have only dated for 3 months and we fight all the time. A lot of our fighting has been from not spending enough time together even tho we see each other every day but just late at night because of me working so much and me having to share a car with my daughter( another thing I am trying to save up money for is her a car). We fight about other things tho too. Anytime we try to spend the whole day together, which is not many, we fight the whole time almost. The thought of him moving in freaks me out because I can barely pay the bills with me and my 2 kids (22 & 20). It would be nice and him here to keep me company and help with dishes, cooking cleaning, etc tho. Then on the other hand I really can't afford another person to support. Plus he doesn't own a vehicle so that means I would have to take him back and forth to therapy possibly and if his eye site ever did get straightened out he wouldnt have a car to go back and forth to work. I've been used by a lot of guys that move in and mooch off me and I am sick of. He is talking like he may try for disability. I feel guilty that he had a stroke but I really don't know what to do;-(
Any of y'all ever let your bf's or husbands sit in the corner and watch? Or would you rather do it with no one watching? What would y'all do in this situation?



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