
Originally Posted by
KimKlass
I had a feeling this would get worse the more you typed! Something you should pay particular attention to is the thing where he'd wake you up in the middle of the night and raise hell. This is such a common abuse tactic it's not even remotely funny. It's emotional terrorism. He didn't care if you had to work the next day, or if you were tired. He CHOSE, not to have an adult discussion at a normal hour, but instead to wait until you were peacefully asleep to attack you. This is NOT a characteristic of someone you want to move into your house and your bed. He may have stopped doing it for now so you don't dump him. But don't worry; he'll resume that shit as soon as he moves in.
Another issue; he gets mad when you can't see him because you're working. What is camming? WORK. Sex work. How do you think THAT will play out with him? I hope I don't need to illustrate this.
"You spend too much time camming. You don't have a problem fucking yourself for all those guys all night, so why can't you fuck me now?"
"I'm tired of you spending all that time with other guys, that's why you don't fuck me enough. You're a whore. Can I have $20? Why not? I let you have internet sex with all these guys, so I should get something to make up for it."
Yet another issue; you don't fucking owe him sex every single night. You don't OWE him SEX AT ALL. You OWE NO ONE SEX, EVER. Expecting you to fuck him every single day is irrational, selfish, and controlling. Particularly when his response to this is a literal toddler-style tantrum.
And oh, honey, moving him in will not mean you're not alone. You will still be alone in many ways, except that you will have an irate man-child in your face 24/7. Aside from that, being alone is MUCH better than being with someone like this.
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