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    Just wanted to give an update and say thank you for every ones great advice I did not let him move in and we broke up Friday night because he woke me up again raising hell because I fell asleep on the couch so I left and broke it off. Matter of fact some of the things that Kim said played out before I even broke it off with him...lol


    I also kept everything that everybody said in the back of my head telling myself what would happen if I did let him move in and that gave me the push to get out of it...thank you again)))


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    Well done love. I cannot tell you how relieved this makes me feel was seriously rooting for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SimoneGray View Post
    Well done love. I cannot tell you how relieved this makes me feel was seriously rooting for you.

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    Awwwwww.....thank you

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    I also feel a huge relief knowing that I can put all my effort into camming and my other job to get out of debt. I am planning on staying single so I can get out of debt and accomplish some other goals

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    Yes!! Fuck yeah, pebbles, you're awesome! Now I must know, which of my predictions came true?
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    I am so Happy for you, Pebbles..thanks for the update!


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    Quote Originally Posted by KimKlass View Post
    Yes!! Fuck yeah, pebbles, you're awesome! Now I must know, which of my predictions came true?
    I am so curious as well, if you are ok to share

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    Quote Originally Posted by KimKlass View Post
    Yes!! Fuck yeah, pebbles, you're awesome! Now I must know, which of my predictions came true?
    It was what you said about him eventually calling me a whore in post #24. One night when he didn't get sex he called me a cam whore and said that I was wanting to cam but couldn't give him sex. He later apologized for it but still. He kept saying that I would be camming and would be tired and sore and wouldn't want to have sex with him. We were at the mall another time and he wanted to go in spencer's so I was looking at the knee highs. He asked "who are you going to wear those for, d**n sure won't be me. What are you wanting them for, to wear on cam?" He just kept saying crazy crap like that everyday.

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    Idk, I thought that I was doing the right thing by telling him that I wanted to cam by myself if it meant I would do better so I could get out of debt but it just made him worse and turned him into a worse monster than he was!

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    Quote Originally Posted by pebbles45112000 View Post
    It was what you said about him eventually calling me a whore in post #24. One night when he didn't get sex he called me a cam whore and said that I was wanting to cam but couldn't give him sex. He later apologized for it but still. He kept saying that I would be camming and would be tired and sore and wouldn't want to have sex with him. We were at the mall another time and he wanted to go in spencer's so I was looking at the knee highs. He asked "who are you going to wear those for, d**n sure won't be me. What are you wanting them for, to wear on cam?" He just kept saying crazy crap like that everyday.
    Lol what a predictable fucking douchebag.
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    Quote Originally Posted by pebbles45112000 View Post
    Idk, I thought that I was doing the right thing by telling him that I wanted to cam by myself if it meant I would do better so I could get out of debt but it just made him worse and turned him into a worse monster than he was!
    Nope, he was already that monster. His mask just slipped. You should totally read that book I mentioned on another comment. Offer is still open to lend it to you if you have a Kindle/Kindle app
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    Sending millions of virtual high fives to you pebbles!





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    Quote Originally Posted by pebbles45112000 View Post
    It was what you said about him eventually calling me a whore in post #24. One night when he didn't get sex he called me a cam whore and said that I was wanting to cam but couldn't give him sex. He later apologized for it but still.
    Such people apologize not because of feeling bad about what they've done but to cover up their asses and so you don't bring their wrongdoing up ever again. Words of apology cost them nothing so sure they will apologize and see forgiveness as a free pass to continue being abusive.
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    Go Pebbles! Lots of cheers and admiration for you from here. Do read the book Kim recommends, it could help you grow a conscious bullshit detector to go with your natural instincts (which are already excellent).

    So very well done for ditching that piece of bad news.


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    Yay! This has brightened my day. I'm so happy for you Pebbles. Xx

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    Pebbles, I'm so glad for you! I think you made a really good choice, and your life will be better for it. I hope you take a moment to celebrate and reward yourself for doing something hard, but ultimately very beneficial.

    I'm not sure about all the other ladies here, but I know it's great for me to hear it as well. I've only been reading the boards for a little over 2 years. Even in that short time, I've seen so many instances where SW ladies gave amazing advice and basically begged their peers to get out of unhealthy situations - crazy living arrangements, abusive/borderline-abusive relationships, toxic family situations, etc. In many cases, the OP either disappears or never mentions it again. That's why Sam commented the way she did - it just keeps happening the same way. The ladies here are such a genuinely caring bunch, and someone always bumps those threads to ask for updates and if the OP is ok. I think it's hard for the whole community that we put in so much emotional investment but don't usually "win" these situations.

    So thank you for taking care of yourself, but also thank you for showing us that sometimes we are able to help someone!
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    You go girl. Stay strong.

    He will try to at least 2 or 3 times more before he gives up.

    He also will stalk you & hate on you when in free chat, so if you can block your state on the sites you cam on.

    He also will go post links & pics all over your social media accounts & your daughters with hate & name calling. Then you will see his true colors & bitterness towards females, he will never be happy in life. His only mission is to make others as miserable as he is.

    Stay strong & move forward.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pebbles45112000 View Post
    It was what you said about him eventually calling me a whore in post #24. One night when he didn't get sex he called me a cam whore and said that I was wanting to cam but couldn't give him sex. He later apologized for it but still. He kept saying that I would be camming and would be tired and sore and wouldn't want to have sex with him. We were at the mall another time and he wanted to go in spencer's so I was looking at the knee highs. He asked "who are you going to wear those for, d**n sure won't be me. What are you wanting them for, to wear on cam?" He just kept saying crazy crap like that everyday.
    Yep, I predicted this in post #4. Good for you for getting away from him!

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