No offense taken, but
I knew I'd get at least one person asking why I'm even getting into camming since I'm asking a basic question like this. Gotta ask if I want to learn. Not everyone is born for the adult industry but I believe anyone can adapt. I'm not trying to get rich here, but my hours just got cut again at the day job and I need to make ends meet.
If I'm being honest, life drama wasn't the real reason I stopped camming last time.
It was the excuse I gave myself because I didn't know that I had limits and I really disrespected my boundaries online trying to please everyone. Big part of that was because I don't know what I'm doing yet and I was too desperate to fit that 'cam girl' ideal. I was born beautiful but I'm not a feminine woman and I'm into even less feminine women ;P So I'm here trying to learn how to embrace (or invent) my feminine, dick-loving side for the sake of financial freedom. Whether it's a total act or not, I think that's basically why most ladies do this work, right?
And Sam, thank you so much, that was such helpful and reassuring advice! Since I don't really have the option to just "be myself" I'm looking at this as a fun acting opportunity and it does take the nerves away a bit to consider that I can become really anyone I want. It's a fantasy to the customers, why not a fantasy for me too? You've given me some good things to think about. Thank you to the other ladies giving their great advice too! Everything helps.

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