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    Default Negative Nancies , Why keep camming?

    If you are making little to no money day after day, month after month, and constantly complaining and frustrated about traffic, your sales, then WHY DO YOU CONTINUE TO CAM? I truly am interested in knowing the various reason why people who are constantly in a state of stress over this, not making enough to survive on and generally unhappy with being a camgirl, continue to do it.



    Edit: I removed the "no dollar ballers" from the title. When I wrote it I wasn't meaning to insult anyone by the income they make but I see how what I find humour in is hurtful to others and I apologize. My point is for those who complain about no traffic, no earnings day after day, not venting occasionally.
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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Ballers

    As positive as this post comes across... Why are you CHOOSING to read the camming sucks thread? Why attack "negativity" with a negative non rant? Some girls need an outlet and they have it here so you making the choice to focus on a particular thread doesn't make sense to me.


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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Ballers

    Quote Originally Posted by SummerBlaze View Post
    If you are making little to no money day after day, and constantly complaining about traffic, complain about your sales, complain, complain, complain then WHY DO YOU CONTINUE TO CAM?
    Because I don't give up that easily. II refuse to tuck my tail between my legs and slink away just because I'm having a shitty day camming. I come to the forum to gain perspective on WHY my camming sucks, not to complain about it.

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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Ballers

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    This forum is for the good ,the bad and the Ugly side of camming .I have great days ,and I have shitty days .Sometimes it's nice to vent somewhere .This forum is a support system for some of us.Shit I stay in the camming sucks thread , but I also live in the camming rocks .Let these ladies vent and stop reading the negative threads.
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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Ballers

    On one hand I agree with you but on the other hand I see nothing wrong with venting your frustrations to fellow people in the business. When I had a "vanilla" job I could go grab drinks with co-workers and rant if I had a rough day or I could call my mom and chat about it. I can't really do that with this job. Mom just doesn't want to hear about my naked escapades on the internet for some reason!!!

    NOW, I do have a problem with the girls who seem bitter about this job. There is one girl I'm thinking of right now that I have watched before. This girl literally sits on cam in her chat room and BITCHES about how camming has just taken over her life and how horrible it is and how before she discovered camming she actually had a life. That is the kind of negativity I can't stand so I'm with you there! If you hate it and you don't want to do it then it's time to start looking for a better option!

    I personally LOVE my job and I got into it because I love the idea of being in the adult industry. Sometimes it's discouraging when I don't make what I want to make so I talk about it. I'm usually talking because the ladies here offer great advice and if I had never discovered stripper web I might have gotten discouraged way too quickly and given up on something I REALLY wanted to do! I also believe in talking about my successes though.

    So yes, I'm all for more positive posts and less whining but sometimes it's just necessary to vent about the really shitty night you had at work.
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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Ballers

    Ok so slow has a different meaning for everyone. For me making less than $75/hr is slow and for others making $50/hr is banking. See how that's different? We all have responsibilities and our monthly expenses differ so please take that into account. Calling our fellow cam girls no dollar ballers is extremely fucking rude (excuse my language) and quite negative. A lot of girls work extremely hard so take the time to really read through the threads and realize how positive and informative SW can be.
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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Ballers

    I'm honestly rather appalled by this post and thoroughly speechless.




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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Baller, Why keep camming?

    Really? I think your looking into it too much.

    We work in an industry where we can't normally vent if it's slow, or about an asshole customer. That's why I'm perfectly okay with girls venting or being negative nancies. It's a great thing that we have this site to vent about our troubles. I don't really brag how well I'm doing, because I'm content about it. Also calling girls no dollar ballers is fucking shitty.





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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Baller, Why keep camming?

    You just said in another thread you don't know who the top earners are here... And now you say you don't see top earners complaining. So, how do you know top earners aren't complaining if you don't know who said top earners are?

    I don't think one should look at the complaints to determine how a site is doing or not. People tend to complain more and don't say as much when things are going great. However, this is a community for camgirls to vent and let off steam, as well as share advice and whatever else. If people can't complain here among other camgirls who know what it's like, who should they vent their frustrations to?
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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Baller, Why keep camming?

    I have no way of knowing what a person makes and I am also not judging them on now much they make since its all subjective one person can be happy with one amount while another is happy with a different amount. No Dollar ballers is just describing how many who complain day after day come across, since they themselves say they make no money. I am not saying anything about venting, my question is to those who complain EVERYDAY, claim to make NO MONEY EVERYDAY why they keep camming.

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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Baller, Why keep camming?

    My other thread is not saying I don't know who top earners are I was saying I think there is value in a dedicated thread where only verified top earners can respond.

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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Baller, Why keep camming?

    You said you can't tell who successful cam girls are so you don't know which advise you should be taking.

    Here's some advice for you.... from a "top earner" so it will matter to you.... You're not starting off on the right foot around here. An attitude like yours isn't going to get you far amongst your peers nor is it going to get top earners to tell you how to be successful.
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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Baller, Why keep camming?

    "I am in no way saying we should all be identified by our income and that someone who doesn't make much can't give good advice ever, but I do think it would be a great asset to this site to have a thread dedicated to Asking/Answering questions from top earners only."

    Is what I clearly said in that thread.

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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Baller, Why keep camming?

    This is going to come across as bitchy and I rarely do bitchy but if you think such a thread is going to be so valuable then why don't you just start it?
    Quote Originally Posted by Procrasturbator View Post
    And keep at it. Get up, put on your make up, and sign on. With every second you're online comes the possibility of your next big spender. A customer could show up who will spend enough to make up for all the bad days and then some. You just have to be around for him and working multiple sites increases the chances of him finding you.


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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Baller, Why keep camming?

    That didn't come across as bitchy at all! I never get a bitchy vibe from your posts

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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Baller, Why keep camming?

    Why do you care if these girls aren't making money? Maybe the keep trying because they have kids to feed, debt to pay, unable to work a vanilla job do to a disability. I believe everything little adds up. So if someone made $20 after working several hours on a dead traffic night. Good for them! They stayed on and tried their best. Encourage them to keep at it and don't stop. You never know when that bigger spender is going to come, drop a shit ton of money, and boost the fuck out of your placement.





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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Baller, Why keep camming?

    Attitude and hustling is everything when it comes to selling yourself on a cam site. However, posting condescending, mean, name-calling posts on a forum meant to support fellow cam models is not very smart. You do realize that being a truly good hustler is also about networking with your peers regardless if they are not up to your standards. Even if you are a top row model you still have your bad days as well especially if you are a token site model.

    Just remember when you are not earning like you are now who are you going to have around you to help boost your morale up again? Certainly, none of us. Congratulations on pissing off the largest forum of cam models and sex workers.
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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Baller, Why keep camming?

    You said the problem is you can't tell who successful cam girls are.

    Either way, doesn't matter. My advice is still the same.
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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Baller, Why keep camming?

    This whole positive-negative thing is really starting to get really annoying. Jeeez why is it always a problem for some to vent? If we can't vent here where else are we suppose to vent???????


    Question how exactly are you suppose to make money if there's technical issues?????????


    Did you actually take the time to read the other post from the girls who post in Camming Sucks? Some of us don't only post in Camming Sucks....we also post in Camming Rocks, $1000 + challenge, and other threads.


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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Baller, Why keep camming?

    I had a dreadful January and February, made in 2 months about the same that another lady would have been happy to make in an hour (oops, being negative again there). Yes I came here a few times to complain/vent, but mainly I wanted to see if it was "just me" or if it was the site or the time of year or something of my doing that I could fix. Just having somewhere to vent was a huge help just by the fact I got it out of me and the ladies who know what the job is about could help/commisserate.

    I hung on in there because this is my job and my business. You can't just pack up and leave your self-employment just because you've had a slow period. That's not the way to deal with it. To be successful you need to be thinking about how you can improve and gain more customers and make enough to save for the next slow period. You need to be looking further than the end of the month - which is easier said than done when in a tough spot. That's why venting here can be such a huge help.

    Another reason you may only ever see the same people moaning is that they may not come here to share when they have a good day.


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    Default Re: Negative Nancies , Why keep camming?

    BTW, I use "no dollar baller" on the freeloaders in my room...so much better suited to those fuckers.
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    Default Re: Negative Nancies , Why keep camming?

    OP - you said it yourself on the BBW thread: "You have to remember people only tend to share negative rather than positive.". Amen.

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    Default Re: Negative Nancies , Why keep camming?

    Sometimes I think theres more truth in the camming sucks thread than many other places on this forum. Because it's not based on hope. It's the raw truth according to each member who chooses to post there. So basically what I'm trying to say is life is not black & white and the grey areas is where many of us make our money. Her slow day or hour can be your big baller moment. The fetish that she or he turn's their nose up at, can make you bank. Just stay in your lane and don't measure your success by what other people do. If you can manage that, then you are already winning. And please please DO NOT enter a forum with post that seem to want to divide a well established community. @SummerBlaze it just comes off that way even if that's not your intentions. As you are probably realizing by now we will go all in on you.

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