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    Default Re: Negative Nancies , Why keep camming?

    If people really have an issue with venting then why come here? Lol Sounds shitty doesn't it? Let people deal with how they deal with their tough days. I've have had ups and downs in camming and if I don't post it somewhere I"m likely to grab an ear of a customer and bitch. Problem with that is it just means I've given them an angle to either attempt to play games or they'll try the " let me see if I can get her to do cam for cheaper".

    SW is supposed to be a place where all industry workers can talk about their triumphs and their set backs.

    Now have I thought of quitting? This week that's all I could think about since I'm having issues keeping a customer base that wants to fuck me in person and will no longer spend because I refuse to do just that.

    I'm having to stop , re think things and start over and over again trying to find a way to get a new flow of members. I still tell new ladies interested to give it a shot because since they're new there coming in with that abundance of energy.

    I burn out quickly now which could be the result of doing free chat for hours on "the free chat free for all" sites.

    In either case I don't know why another model would sit and point fingers and pick at others having a rough go of things. If you're doing so well then keep on doing well , why do you even have time to pick at others?

    There are other forums that I noticed would pick and laugh at models which was the very reason why I never even signed up there. Here at SW? Not cool.

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    Default Re: Negative Nancies , Why keep camming?

    Haven't you heard that it's not good to keep things bottled up inside? You sure as hell can't vent while on cam to the guys watching you. If you vented to the guys in your public chat, they'll get turned off, and probably accuse you of being an ungrateful, whiny bitch who's PMS-ing. Cuz you know...clearly, a woman who's upset about something MUST be PMS-ing. *eye roll*

    It's best to vent on a place like this where you're among fellow cam girls who can relate.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    Haven't you heard that it's not good to keep things bottled up inside? You sure as hell can't vent while on cam to the guys watching you. If you vented to the guys in your public chat, they'll get turned off, and probably accuse you of being an ungrateful, whiny bitch who's PMS-ing. Cuz you know...clearly, a woman who's upset about something MUST be PMS-ing. *eye roll*

    It's best to vent on a place like this where you're among fellow cam girls who can relate.
    You are so right! I guess I am just wondering for the girls who claim to be not making any money and everyday is slow online, WHAT is the reason that keeps them camming.

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    Default Re: Negative Nancies , Why keep camming?

    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    There are other forums that I noticed would pick and laugh at models which was the very reason why I never even signed up there. Here at SW? Not cool.
    THIS. I quit posting on a forum where the guys were always doing that shit, and got away with it. I love StripperWeb because we don't tolerate that bullshit.
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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Baller, Why keep camming?

    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    Why do you care if these girls aren't making money? Maybe the keep trying because they have kids to feed, debt to pay, unable to work a vanilla job do to a disability. I believe everything little adds up. So if someone made $20 after working several hours on a dead traffic night. Good for them! They stayed on and tried their best. Encourage them to keep at it and don't stop. You never know when that bigger spender is going to come, drop a shit ton of money, and boost the fuck out of your placement.
    Thank you! You are the first person to actually give answer to my question

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    Default Re: Negative Nancies , Why keep camming?

    Quote Originally Posted by SummerBlaze View Post
    You are so right! I guess I am just wondering for the girls who claim to be not making any money and everyday is slow online, WHAT is the reason that keeps them camming.
    Obviously they make something worth it to them or they would quit.

    Min wage job at $7.25/hr working 40 hours a week is $290 before taxes weekly. If they make more than that camming and can stay home and not have to deal with a boss and all the other shit, why not?

    And better yet, why do you care?
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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Baller, Why keep camming?

    Quote Originally Posted by SummerBlaze View Post
    Thank you! You are the first person to actually give answer to my question
    If you want people to give you a straight answer, ask a straight question.

    Something like, "why do you keep camming if you don't make very much money" without all the extra opinions. If all you want is an actual answer, make it clear. Instead it sounded like you are creating an opportunity to complain about people complaining.

    Also, you said in another thread you've been at this 6 months. Come back in 6 years or more and let us know how you feel then. I'm sure you will have a few complaints.
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    Default Re: Negative Nancies & No Dollar Baller, Why keep camming?

    Quote Originally Posted by SarahTime View Post
    If you want people to give you a straight answer, ask a straight question.

    Something like, "why do you keep camming if you don't make very much money" without all the extra opinions. If all you want is an actual answer, make it clear. Instead it sounded like you are creating an opportunity to complain about people complaining.

    Also, you said in another thread you've been at this 6 months. Come back in 6 years or more and let us know how you feel then.
    Excellent suggestion, thank you

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    Quote Originally Posted by SummerBlaze View Post
    You are so right! I guess I am just wondering for the girls who claim to be not making any money and everyday is slow online, WHAT is the reason that keeps them camming.
    Hope.
    Bills.
    Children to support.
    Rent/mortgage.
    More hope.
    Enjoying being in the Adult Industry.
    Enjoying being self employed.
    Enjoying running their own business.
    Even more hope.
    It's better than working minimum wage in a dead end job to line the pockets of a creepy/rich/bloated/bullying/whatevs boss or CEO.
    You can work from home.
    You can work from your bed.
    You can choose your own hours/schedule.
    A shitload more hope.
    Your employment doesn't depend on the looks you inherited.
    Your employment doesn't depend on the look you chose.
    Your employment doesn't depend on your ability to sleep 8 hours and get up at 6am, 5 days a week.
    Your employment doesn't depend on how able bodied/minded you are.
    Your employment doesn't depend on your illness or health.
    Savings.
    Hope.


    Slow for them might be a best day for you.


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    Default Re: Negative Nancies , Why keep camming?

    Why would one even need to ask? Camming seems like easy money, you don't need experience, make your own hours, it is convenient, there is the potential of big money and hell yes, it beats any minimum wage job by a galaxy. They keep trying because they want to be a top earner. That isn't obvious? Wow.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CatBBW View Post
    Hope.
    Bills.
    Children to support.
    Rent/mortgage.
    More hope.
    Enjoying being in the Adult Industry.
    Enjoying being self employed.
    Enjoying running their own business.
    Even more hope.
    It's better than working minimum wage in a dead end job to line the pockets of a creepy/rich/bloated/bullying/whatevs boss or CEO.
    You can work from home.
    You can work from your bed.
    You can choose your own hours/schedule.
    A shitload more hope.
    Your employment doesn't depend on the looks you inherited.
    Your employment doesn't depend on the look you chose.
    Your employment doesn't depend on your ability to sleep 8 hours and get up at 6am, 5 days a week.
    Your employment doesn't depend on how able bodied/minded you are.
    Your employment doesn't depend on your illness or health.
    Savings.
    Hope.


    Slow for them might be a best day for you.
    Love your answer and thank you! I never even considered "hope" that it will get better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SummerBlaze View Post
    Love your answer and thank you! I never even considered "hope" that it will get better.
    Sometimes it's the only thing you have when the money runs out.

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    The answer is obvious. SURVIVAL

    Can we be done with this thread now, please?





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    Default Re: Negative Nancies , Why keep camming?

    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    Can we be done with this thread now, please?
    yeah, the OP asked for this thread to be closed as she truly didn't intend to cause offense.

    for what it's worth I've asked the same question myself once or twice, not about chicas who like to vent every now and then (sw is like our staff room, so a bit of bitching is to be expected, just like in any other field or industry) but about a small handful of chicas who are perma-burned out and make it clear that they loathe the work.

    That said, for those performers the answer as to why they keep camming is simple: money and/or alack of more attractive options. I feel empathy for those peers and I'd argue they need support rather than a 'OMG why do you keep doing this?' vibe (which can be misconstrued as mocking even if not intended as such)

    I get while some of y'all reacted to this thread, it does feel like chicas are being judged. Still, at least that judgment is inaccurate. every time I log into sw to do a verification I see a ton of sw'ers at the top of the page. Every. single. time. I also see a lot of familiar names in the c4s category toplists Beyond that, many chicas who started out at lower income levels go on to experience wicked success; I don't know anyone who's income has stayed perfectly level for the entire duration of their camming career. Some of the chicas who are struggling today will find their footing and eventually bank, all I can say is props to those peers for not giving up.

    This community is a collection of cammers who occupy every level of the earnings scales, I think we're a better community because of that.


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