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    Sad Homeless cam girl :(

    I've been secretly camming and living out of my grandmothers old house for about a month. No one has been living there for 10 years. I wasn't able to stay with my parents so I decided to cam there for a bit. I've just got kicked out tonight, my grandmother came in and told me to leave. I wasn't naked or camming when she came in thankfully. Problem is that I'm only 18 and just started camming in late February. I only have one SM payoneer load for $600 right now. I have to wait for the other payoneer loads to come through but I've only made $1900 in camming for 3 weeks in total. I won't have the rest of the money until the end of the month waiting for direct deposit. How can I get an efficiency without credit or long term work history? What should I tell a landlord I do for work? Please help. I only have $600 on me right now

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    I posted a similar thread, but my situation was a little different. My dad found out I stripped and kicked me out. I had a little more savings though. I would recommend you try dancing. I've done both cam and dance and the money is far better dancing. If you go on airbnb.com you can rent a place for a couple weeks or months and if you strip around 5 days a week at least, you should be coming out ahead financially. If the idea of stripping is too much for you, you could start with a topless or bikini club. I don't know if you have a car or not, but you should make enough in a shift to cover a taxi there and back if you don't, and if you aren't for some reason try working doubles. Or if stripping is still too scary for you, you could perhaps get by just by camming, but it would be a lot tighter financially, especially when saving to get a place. When I used to cam I found that camming on a couple sites at once (MFC, streammates, chaturbate) and having one open in each tab earned me more sometimes.


    As for getting your own place. Start off with a rental on airbnb or hotel and try to earn more each day than you spend in order to save. Then once you have a few thousand start looking for a place. One option is to be honest with people, they can't legally discriminate based on occupation. I know girls who have gotten places saying they are a stripper. However this may be harder because some people will discriminate even though its not legal. There is a website called careerexcuse.com some girl on here replied to my thread with. You can try too. Basically you pay them $100 and they will verify you worked at some company, give you a phone number, website whatever you need. Also there are websites you can create fake pay stubs on if the building asks for paystubs as proof of income.

    I got my place now I'm subletting because the girl was going away for a few months and was desperate for someone so I offered to pay her in full in advance since I had savings. Originally I said I did data entry and they wanted me to show pay stubs and proof of employment. But I got around it by paying in full in advance to the girl. So you could try that too.

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    I'm sortive in a similar boat myself & I'm currently in a cheaper motel situation for now while posting dozens of "fudged" CL ads looking for a room to rent temporarily. I have a few that say I'm either a traveling nurse, a student, or a writer to which I'm very vague about my job situation when it comes up. I'd say for whatever area you're in try going on Orbitz.com & hotwire.com to look for a cheaper motel room for now. I have no friends or family out here to help me so it's scary but I know in the end I'll be ok as long as I'm working every night. Also too when booking the rooms onlline thru those sites only do it for a few at a time so you don't end up spending everything on the motel itself. That's what I do atm & it's stressful yes but I've got a warm bed & a warm shower for now. Just know that it is only temporary Good luck!
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    Default Re: Homeless cam girl :(

    Can you ask a friend if you can crash on the couch? I'd try to hold on to the most of that $600.

    Good luck, situations like this are always horrible to deal with...

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    Default Re: Homeless cam girl :(

    $600 is not much, but you can make more if you have internet access. Maybe you can locate a cheap hotel, get a bus there, and make enough that month to move into an apartment the next month? Can I ask why you cannot stay with your parents? Couchsurfing.com is a way to also locate people who might help if you tell them you're traveling in the area and need a couch.

    If there is a camping ground near you, you could maybe stay there and find a regular job? Hugs for you girlie!
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    I wish you good-luck. This advise is based on my personal feelings about cleanliness and privacy. If you have a friend with an extra room that they are not using, in a safe place, with a low noise level, ask them first. If not, I would prefer to find a cheap motel or hotel in a safe neighborhood. This way you won't be disturbed and you have privacy for your cam. The end of the month is 2 weeks and 3 days away from now, so if the hotel/motel costs $70/night, you would spend $1,190. Some motels/extended stays have packages at a discounted rate. I drove by one the other day with a sign reading $200/week....but of course because of its location it attracted bad attention (i.e. hookers/pimps/drug dealers/guys loitering) which poses a safety risk, so be careful of where you choose to stay if you go this route.

    About an efficiency..... If you are in the U.S. landlords want to be assured that you can afford living there for a certain period of time, so they may ask for bank statements if you cannot provide proof of income. Ask if they will accept month-to-month. You are not required to identify your line of work. If you decide to tell them, in an open conversation...never mention that you are an adult worker. You are self-employed and you provide modeling services. That is it, do not add more to that. Some landlords will ask for a higher deposit or a higher rent or both for lack of credit history, and some will deny you right off the bat...so all you have to do is ask if they run credit checks....and if they say yes... ask what they are looking for. Unless you are applying to live in a ritzy, high-end luxury apartment where they use credit to weed out "unwanted tenants", they don't care about your credit rating. They want to know if you have any evictions or foreclosures (to verify that you can afford living there).

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    Hey OP, I hope you are doing well. Just know that you will and can make it through this. I too have been homeless. I didn't want my parents to know/help me out so I focused on hustling and saving. I literally stayed in a few homeless shelters and did whatever I could to make money. I would ask a friend to use their basement for phone work, and I even used a grant from school once to secure an apartment. Being homeless taught me to be humble, work hard, and to make sure I relied on myself and to never go back. It sucks but you're young and you can pull yourself out of this situation, learn from your mistake, and create the life you want. Good luck and keep your head up. Struggling is good for the soul if you can make it out a much stronger individual.




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    Default Re: Homeless cam girl :(

    i found a room on craigslist, i just moved in today. All the landlord needed was proof of employment and id. It's a pretty big room. Wifi included... so i can cam

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    Default Re: Homeless cam girl :(

    Does the person u rent fron know you will be camming from the room? Im in a similar situation. Thanks

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    No, I told him I do web design. I payed him and moved my stuff in last night. No other questions were asked. I really doubt he would care if I cam or not. He shared some roommate stories of his old roommates here. They occasionally have parties here, and a lot of them brought their bf or gf there, I doubt they would mind a cam girl lol

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    Get a lock on your door.





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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    Get a lock on your door.
    This.

    He's a dude from Craigslist. Don't just get a lock--get a security dead bolt, a flip hinge, and a baseball bat/taser/pepper spray/some form of weapon to defend yourself. He might be a totally cool guy, but safe and sorry are two different things and desperation has personally made me overlook red flags in the past when renting.

    Glad you found a place hun.


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    Thanks for the advice ladies. I'll definitely get a lock installed asap.

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    Glad you found a place babes but indeeed get a lock & a weapon. Guys on cL are scary!
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    Also ask if you can use a long ass ethernet cord. Wifi sucks. Packets drop and for a solid stream, you want a solid connection.





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    Keep what you really do private. He might seem cool about it, might even be cool about it. He also might try and fuck you because of it too.

    Dont tell any of the roommates. Surprised there isnt a lock on the door for when you are in the room & when you leave. Lots of room mates, parties, crazy stories, girls bringing men back for sex, means lots of people who can harm you or rob you. Do not talk about how much money you make or keep cash there.

    Happy you are not homeless but work hard so you can improve your situation from here. Get a part time job at a real job kind of place to show work history. Show up early and be their best employee, but dont let it take up all your time or energy from camming.

    Remember room mates hooking up or having boyfriends or girlfriends is way different in most peoples eyes than from being a whore on cam. This is a weird world, when I was an escort, had a friend of a friend call me all kinds of names & judgement. Yet, she went out got shit faced drunk every night & brought home a different guy each time. I thought she was stupid for giving it away every night.

    Be careful. Be guarded. You are young, many men and these days women use your inexperience to take advantage of you. Trust no one. Smile, agree, keep discussions and all communications short and walk away. Except NO alcoholic drinks from anyone. Anyone who wants to give you a drink is doing it for a reason, it might be drugged. You are still a minor and it is illegal for them to give you alcohol, same with weed or any other drug. Keep your own bottled water & other drinks in your room.

    Continue to look for a studio apartment. No credit history & no job history means you will have to put up a higher deposit. So save up for that, plan it out.

    MOST of all Remember he is a MAN, they are always looking for an way to have sex with females. Unless he is gay as can be, do NOT trust.

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    All of what Sam said, definitely. I'm glad you're housed for the time being and can work, but take every precaution you can to protect yourself and your privacy so you can leave sooner rather than later. I just looked at Craigslist for my fairly small locale for a temporary sublet myself and I ran across no less than 6 different ads that were posted in the last week by men specifying they only wanted FEMALE tenants who needed "help getting back on their feet" and that they had to be "open-minded". Ridiculously low or even FREE rent. There's some real scumbags out there. Be careful, OP.

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    There are security bars you can use that don't have to be installed, so nobody walks in while you're camming. Here's one I saw at Amazon.

    http://www.amazon.com/U-S-Patrol-JB5.../dp/B001TNMHYY

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    You could rent a place and pay day by day, that is what I almost did when transitioning broken ties.

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    ^^^Where can we find places that rent day by day? Thanks

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    Hope you are doing ok kittie? airbnb and ownersdirect are good for finding places to stay for short periods of time in US - if that's where you are x

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