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    Hello, I work in a western Europe country where it is perfectly legal to work as an escort. I was hoping to tour the US where as we all know it is illegal, except in the nevada brothels which is not what I am looking to do. I wish to work as an independent. I have been lurking on this site and been reading screening tips, and I am still a bit confused as to how to avoid LE, and ensure my safety? One of the members on here has been extremely helpful and generous, however I do not want to keep inundating her with questions, morever I think it would be helpful to benefit from other members experiences and expertise. If I could kindly please clarify my confusion on what tools to use to find out how long an email has been active i.e. when it was created, who owns it, if the email is shared with other people. 2 I noticed on verify him.com that there is tool that can spy on the actions of visitors on your contact forms, do any of you ladies implement this? If yes which software program is good for reliably finding out the IP address messages are sent from, the IP address visiting your site and filling out contact forms etc. 3. Ladies who check ID's of your clients upon arrival at your incall or outcall location In the US after 9/11 for ID do your clients use their state ID or the Real ID from department for homeland security? How do you detect a false ID card? 4. I have heard of police setting up false businesses or duplicating legitimate businesses, how do you find out a company has been operating for over 3years + and make sure it is a legitimate. Are there any websites for checking public records for businesses, maybe the IRS, better business bureau or some sort of government body? 5. How to check phone records and not just google i.e. phone directory and how the long the phone number has existed, who owns it etc 6. I watched some escort sting tapes online and a series in particular i think Fargo escort stings is pretty basic, low hanging fruit that almost beggars unbelief especially clip 5 lol they guy was actually spelling it out!!. When you are in a room with client just in case he gets through the your screening or the police are using a civilian (I heard this happens in some states, so they guy can even go as far as having sex and get it upheld in court.) My main, big confusion how do you let clients know if you are a newbie so have no online references, you can not mention any services online, not allowed to mention on the phone and definately not in person. So how is a client going to know you do not offer say greek and only GFE? Like the guy in the fargo tape kept asking what do i get, oh I have been ripped off before etc, etc? I heard there is a special lingo??? I read Arden Moon's book (I will be interested on your individual views about the book as well) and I think her method of groping clients to find out if they shy away meaning they may be hiding something or unusually nervous, could actually get you arrested in some states?! What is the money etiquette do you just mention on your site like some providers donation should be placed in an unsealed envelope on the table, do you check this before the service when the client has gotten comfortable i.e. stripped or wait after the service to check and risk getting ripped off, what is your take on this??? How to find out the guy is not wearing a wire or you are on candid camera lol of the unamusing variety

    Thanks a lot and if I have mentioned anything sensitive ( not used to how things work in your country.) please just PM me . I would be grateful for any tips, useful links, sites, experiences etc. If any members have experiences of stings as well and wish to share plus what to avoid in various situations, finally names of states that allow cops to sleep with you then arrest you. I would be very grateful.

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    Too big a text block to read babe. Maybe pick your top 2 questions. Read threads by Audrey k, aurora. Sunset.

    Lots of info

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    Sorry folks, I did not realise my earlier post must have been difficult to read through. If I can get any assistance I would be most grateful. Thanks

    !. If I could kindly please clarify my confusion on what tools to use to find out how long an email has been active i.e. when it was created, who owns it, if the email is shared with other people.


    2. I noticed on verify him.com that there is tool that can spy on the actions of visitors on your contact forms, do any of you ladies implement this? If yes which software program is good for reliably finding out the IP address messages are sent from, the IP address visiting your site and filling out contact forms etc.

    3. Ladies who check ID's of your clients upon arrival at your incall or outcall location In the US after 9/11 for ID do your clients use their state ID or the Real ID from department for homeland security? How do you detect a false ID card?


    4. I have heard of police setting up false businesses or duplicating legitimate businesses, how do you find out a company has been operating for over 3years + and make sure it is a legitimate. Are there any websites for checking public records for businesses, maybe the IRS, better business bureau or some sort of government body?


    5. How to check phone records and not just google i.e. phone directory and how the long the phone number has existed, who owns it etc


    My main, big confusion how do you let clients know if you are a newbie so you have no online references they can read to see exactly whats on offer, you can not mention any services online, not allowed to mention on the phone and definately not in person. So how is a client going to know you do not offer say greek and only GFE? Like the guy in the fargo tape kept asking what do i get, oh I have been ripped off before etc, etc? I heard there is a special lingo???


    Finally what states do you need to be wary of? As in police officers are allowed to actually carryout a sexual service or hire civilian and arrest you after everything?


    Thanks a lot and if I have mentioned anything sensitive ( not used to how things work in your country.) please just PM me . I would be grateful for any tips, useful links, sites, experiences etc. If any members have experiences of stings as well and wish to share plus what to avoid in various situations, finally names of states that allow cops to sleep with you then arrest you. I would be very grateful.

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    Im not from the states but my understanding is the police can have sex with you and then arrest you afterwards.

    To check if a business is legitimate, I would be checking for reviews, facebook page, phoning to see if anyone answers with some general query. Also checking to see if its registered under the main organisation for say chiropractors. If they say im a chiro, then check the chiro association to see if they have heard of them.

    If in doubt, just turn them down. Always.

    There is a site I like http://www.howtobecomeanescort.net/start-escorting

    Would you rather strip or cam? Both of those are legal. Im thinking its a whole other ball game escorting on a tourist visa. Your earning money and doing it illegally.

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    Quote Originally Posted by amberlly View Post
    Would you rather strip or cam? Both of those are legal. Im thinking its a whole other ball game escorting on a tourist visa. Your earning money and doing it illegally.
    Working at all on a tourist visa is illegal and could get you deported. Getting busted as an escort while on a tourist visa would really land you in hot water though.

    Simone - really do your research on the cities you want to tour. If there has been any recent or if there's regular LE activity, avoid it. Keep an eye on the news and local hobby boards and don't be afraid to cancel a city visit if busts start happening.

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