Hey everyone,
First and foremost, thanks so much for all the tips/advice/helpful info you post on here. It has proven to be an invaluable resource and has helped me get hired at my first club! So props to ya'll for being awesome!
A little bit of my background story ... I have been working at SC as a waitress for a while and thought about starting to dance when I decided that I will be moving to Europe this summer and I needed to save up as much money as possible. My friend is also moving and wants to save up, so we will be starting to dance together!
The club I currently work at is a bit too close to home for me and some of the staff/customers know more about me than I would want them to know as a dancer. The last couple of weeks I have started to (kind of haha) clean up my diet, ordered some shoes, got eye lash extensions, started tanning and ordered an outfit online. I plan on keeping the waitressing job just in case things don't work out but if everything goes as planned, I'll be leaving that job as soon as I start making money.
Anyways, my friend and I have visited a couple of clubs in our area to do some research. We realized that we would both be more comfortable working in a more divey/working class environment, similar to the place I currently work at, rather than a more upscale place. We went to one rural strip club and instantly fell in love. The place was packed, everyone was friendly and we were offered the jobs right on the spot. The fees aren't too high and there's the opportunity to be on schedule and get shift pay. One of the dancers approached us and we had an interesting convo about the club. She told us some of the positives, some of the negative things and was generally really helpful. She also casually mentioned that some dancers do extras and if that's your thing, there's the possibility of doing them there. She said it in a very nonchalant kind of way and didn't seem critical or supportive of the idea. I was a little frazzled at this point and didn't know how to ask exactly what she meant.
I appreciate her honesty but now I'm just wondering what exactly that means and if she had any ulterior motives. Maybe she was just trying to see what our reaction to that would be? Trying to scare us off?
What do you guys think that means? Hand jobs and BJs? Sex?
I live in an area where contact is already fairly high. At my club nude dances/boob/ass touching was the norm and heavy grinding was fairly common. I've read the reviews for this new club and customers have also said that they get "high mileage" there.
I have read the conversations on here about extras club and understand that it is possible to make money as a clean dancer. Other than the extras, I would be very comfortable in the environment and confident that my friend and I would do OK. Do you guys think this would be too intimidating of an environment to start off in?



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