So like the title says, my boyfriend has a bad temper and isnegative a lot of the time. It's driving me nuts and sucking the life out of me, I grew up in an unhappy home so to me this is just unexceptable. But I'm living in it. We just signed a 5 yr rental lease on a home and 2 of his 3 Boys live with us, so me leaving the relationship won't only effect us. The lease is also pretty expensive so how will we figure out what's fair if I go? He can't afford the lifestyle we've built together n the last 5 yrs alone. But then again we aren't married. we actually just signed this lease about 4 months ago so it makes matters even worse.I'm no longer attracted to him mostly because of his temper and bad attitude but I'm just so stuck. We have accumulated a lot together and there would b a major guilt trip if/when we break up. Part of this is my fault. I was very much so for the move and long term lease, so now I'm kicking myself. Urghhh dk what to do im pretty unhappy and find myself fantasizing about being alone. Anywho vent over. Anyone dealt with this? I'm not married but sure feels it with how difficult it would be for me to leave Since we split everything 50/50



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