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    Default How to handle an 'old identity' coming up while on cam?

    So it hasn't happened yet and -maybe- it won't, but I'd rather be prepared than get caught off guard in the moment. I've decided to revamp my entire angle since I'm coming back from a hiatus - new look, new stage name, the whole shebang. What happens if someone who knew me under my old alias comes in and starts pointing it out? "Hey, didn't you used to be...?"

    My only worry is breaking the illusion - I use a fake 'real name' like many girls here and tweak personal details for the sake of privacy. I'm sure there's tons of ladies who have changed up their online presence and had it called to attention so my question is, is it a 'caught in the lie' situation or do the customers just expect it all to be fake anyway? I'm not marketing myself as a porn star; a big part of my style is being genuine and unstaged.. so it seems like it'd be awkward at the very least. Advices please! X)

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    Default Re: How to handle an 'old identity' coming up while on cam?

    if you work on the same site and you had a big following so maybeeee that could happens. Online 1000 girls all the time, ofc i dont want to brake your illusion but, you are not only the one, and only...
    I would highly recomend people dont do tattoes, you are so regoniseble after that. Your body can be like a conva you can change hair, make different makeup and be someone else on other site or even the same site.

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    I did the same thing about a year ago and short and simple ended up being the best route, like, "I love to mix it up" or "Just time for a change." If they said they missed my former "me" I said I'd always be their *insert model name* which also worked.

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    It can really fuck up a sexy mentality flow if you question your own stream.

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    LMAO You don't owe anyone any explanation.

    This is supposed to be fun, experimenting, changing it all up, roll playing is apart of the JOB! If they can't roll with it then that is on them.

    I am a female & I can change my mind anytime I want with no explanation. Question is "Why do you think you owe them an explanation?" Are you not comfortable with yourself to try new things out?

    Lady Gaga does it all the time, she does it for free publicity, for the sheer creativity of it, for the fun, for passion of fashion. My custies NEVER know what they are going to get when they come into my room, I wear wigs, different looks as fits my mood. At first a few tried to give me crap about it, didn't let them. Camming, porn is a huge creative outlet for me, I won't let a few people complaints take it away from me. If anything it has upped my income.

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    This happened to me only once so far so I think it's unlikely. You are a human being, you are allowed to grow and change and experiment with who you are and who you want to be, it doesn't have to be permanent. I allow myself to have fun with how I look and always switch it up. You never know what you could pull off and end up loving until you try it. Change is good.
    If they don't like your changes then they should go dig out 1 of their DVDs and rewatch the same video for decades. I'd never let a person on the internet tell me how I should look. Especially if they aren't paying

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    Just because some guy post a question or comment in your room doesn't mean you have to answer them

    Like Sam said you don't need to explain anything to these guys if they want to visit your room, be polite and respectful and spend money great if they bring up things you do not want to talk about then don't talk about it.
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    Omg minniesoporno that last reply just blew my mind. X) All the replies have been so great and that just drove it right home. I do have a lot of insecurities I'm working on overcoming and a huge problem I have in real life is feeling the compulsive need to explain myself to others. Guess you could say I have an inferiority complex - I'm actually hoping camming will help me get over that, haha! I've read so many positive things it's done for other girls' confidence and whatnot.

    I just posted a thread about how I got thrown off tonight by a guy insisting I answer to him about my sexual orientation. He was in my free chat, asking me this personal stuff, and I was sweating trying to answer because I was nervous being on cam and just trying too hard to connect with the room and reply to everything everyone was saying. And holy shit, fuck him because I could have pretended I didn't even see his post couldn't I?! XD I am taking this lesson to heart all the way - it's my room, I don't have to do/say/answer anything I don't wanna.

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    The #1 thing I've learned in my short time camming so far is "don't give it away in free chat", haha. As soon as a guy gives you that hint of what hits his buttons, don't give him anything else - switch into whatever is your way of getting them to go private (even just "Mmm, I'd love to tell you all about it, you know what to do" sometimes is all that's needed). If he doesn't bite? *Shrug* Next! :p

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    I just ignore questions i don't want to answer and fill the space with something else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by torikuntz View Post
    He was in my free chat, asking me this personal stuff, and I was sweating trying to answer because I was nervous being on cam and just trying too hard to connect with the room and reply to everything everyone was saying
    It's easy–the answer to any question is, "I'd love to tell you all about it in private or exclusive." Color panties? "I forgot, let's find out in private!" Where from? "I only give that info in private; anyone could be listening here!" What is that weird thing you have listed in your topic? "I offer fetish education in exclusive!" Do it with a smile; rinse and repeat. It works more than you would think!

    I learned the hard way that guys get off on any.and.all.attention in free chat when a good reg went bad (or broke) and just started lurking. I was pretty sure I'd gotten all the money I could from him but I thought maybe he had one more session in him so I was still trying to lure him in when he told me that he got hard when I typed to him privately.

    In my mind, free chat is for them to check my feed quality, ascertain that I am real and not a video, and ask about the show they have in mind. Fuck teasing, fuck getting them hard, fuck even too many questions about what I do. Think about it–the guys who do paid shows (mostly) skip all that and hit the button. Anything else is just free wank fodder. JUST SAY NO!
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    It can really fuck up a sexy mentality flow if you question your own stream.

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