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    So, I was googling I don't remember and it went off on a weird loop and I ended up on this forum:

    http://manwhore.org/forum/content/be...ing-inner-game

    Some fascinating shit on how men hustle women into getting laid.
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    I don't think I want to even read what any of that says..... I might punch the next man I see in the face if I do. lol Yeah...... that kind of day for me.
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    Thanks for the link but I'm not gonna read it. I don't need another reason to "hate" men. I feel like I'm preaching to the choir but the majority of men think you want them just because they got a dick.
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    Oh no I'm pretty sure this is a PUA (pick up artist) forum. In fact, The Game might be a better read - still so upsetting I couldn't get through it, but better.

    Also, I actually read my old Social Psych textbook on my off-time for applicable work tips because the pseudo-science of pickup artist psychology is just... painful.


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    What? Patrick Bateman is an example for all men? Not really sure that those who are in the field of psychology would enjoy the term being used here...
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    Quote Originally Posted by luvnrockets View Post
    What? Patrick Bateman is an example for all men? Not really sure that those who are in the field of psychology would enjoy the term being used here...
    My apologies, for lack of a better word. I will change it to "look into straight male asshattery."
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    Yeah, I'm with Marina, after this week, if I read/hear something else about the fuckery which is 20th century male I'm going sign up for moving to Mars. #menareonmyshitlistrightnow




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    It is actually not that horrible. The tactics include things like be respectful, ask about her day and keep convos away from sex. Also, don't send dick pics. I think that's fair trade off to try and get some tail. It's kind of like how we use Ho Tactics to get money. By reading this you can even mess with the crafty ones. But I also get why you would not want to delve further onto male sex strategies.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    Thanks for the link but I'm not gonna read it. I don't need another reason to "hate" men.
    ^What she said. I'm so done with men and the disrespectful bullshit that they put us good women through.
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    I don't know if I can stomach reading it. I already have enough reasons to hate men. Reading any of that will remind me why men will only ever see me on cam.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hyori View Post
    It's kind of like how we use Ho Tactics to get money. By reading this you can even mess with the crafty ones.
    Hyori your spot on! Its all just a Game, the more you know the better you play. The better you play the more often you win!

    As for hating men for this..........Um I already knew they were looking for fast, sexy pussy so no shockers there.

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    Or how about, "The more you know, The better you Ho"

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    "(By the way HUGE tip, when you can tell a girl that she fucked up then tell her WHY she fucked up, or how.. they get SUPER hot and bothered. Guys do NOT know how to do it. But when a girl's being taught an actual genuine lesson by a dude she needs his cock at that point, no questions asked.)"
    "So anyways I want to hear your guys' stories of taking a girl's bad behavior and leveraging it into sexual compliance. And all you poor beta bastards out there, this is the way the real shit works. GIrls LOVE stuff like this. Eat it up. Literally. Get used to it."



    OMG!! This part was ...! If guys are reading this stuff from this guy coach, it's no wonder they say the things that they do on cam. Smh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    "(By the way HUGE tip, when you can tell a girl that she fucked up then tell her WHY she fucked up, or how.. they get SUPER hot and bothered. Guys do NOT know how to do it. But when a girl's being taught an actual genuine lesson by a dude she needs his cock at that point, no questions asked.)"
    "So anyways I want to hear your guys' stories of taking a girl's bad behavior and leveraging it into sexual compliance. And all you poor beta bastards out there, this is the way the real shit works. GIrls LOVE stuff like this. Eat it up. Literally. Get used to it."



    OMG!! This part was ...! If guys are reading this stuff from this guy coach, it's no wonder they say the things that they do on cam. Smh.
    You know that actually works really well on guys too. You tell them why they are fucked up eg. I tell cheap bastards who are complaining about my price that successful men don't come to cam sites to bargain about porn, they are too busy doing something about their brokeasses. Then the other guys in the room are like, "words of wisdom, babe" and they take me pvt. Or the guy I just dissed, thanks me, and doesn't get angry at all and asks if I'll do a gold show. LOL.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hyori View Post
    It is actually not that horrible. The tactics include things like be respectful, ask about her day and keep convos away from sex. Also, don't send dick pics. I think that's fair trade off to try and get some tail. It's kind of like how we use Ho Tactics to get money. By reading this you can even mess with the crafty ones. But I also get why you would not want to delve further onto male sex strategies.
    You can get advice like "be nice and ask her about her day" absolutely anywhere though. The issue is that they throw in so much toxic shit like pushing past LMR (last minute resistance) aka "no doesn't mean no". They view "sexual strategy" as amoral, so lying, manipulating, and pushing boundaries are all perfectly ok to them. Their strategy works on women who are young and inexperienced, have low self esteem, or have been abused because a lot of the things they advocate ARE abuse. They're all about rough sex and treating women like walking fleshlights. It's disgusting and pathetic.

    I see guys like this on cam sites all the time. They always start off trying to neg me ("You look bored/tired" "You really carry your weight well" "I can tell your tits are real, they sag too much to be fake") and they *never* accept my boundaries. You know the guys who just won't accept that you don't escort/use big toys/fist/whatever? They keep pushing and pushing to get what they want and never accept a "no." That's this shit.



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    Quote Originally Posted by scarlettbelle View Post
    You can get advice like "be nice and ask her about her day" absolutely anywhere though. The issue is that they throw in so much toxic shit like pushing past LMR (last minute resistance) aka "no doesn't mean no". They view "sexual strategy" as amoral, so lying, manipulating, and pushing boundaries are all perfectly ok to them. Their strategy works on women who are young and inexperienced, have low self esteem, or have been abused because a lot of the things they advocate ARE abuse. They're all about rough sex and treating women like walking fleshlights. It's disgusting and pathetic.

    I see guys like this on cam sites all the time. They always start off trying to neg me ("You look bored/tired" "You really carry your weight well" "I can tell your tits are real, they sag too much to be fake") and they *never* accept my boundaries. You know the guys who just won't accept that you don't escort/use big toys/fist/whatever? They keep pushing and pushing to get what they want and never accept a "no." That's this shit.
    Exactly, and those guys are the ones we need to identify and get rid of them ASAP out of our rooms or at least amuse ourselves with how stupid they are and mess with them. It is good for the naiive and young girls to wise up on the shit that these asshats will try.

    As an Aspie girl, it took me such a long time to identify asshats like this but with straightforward 'guides' I am able to hear the language that they use and not take it personally or get manipulated. I hope it helps some girls. I think it's good that we are aware of it, kind of like sexual education for children so they can defend themselves from predators.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DeepThoughts View Post
    Or how about, "The more you know, The better you Ho"
    Amen to that.

    If there is a 'player handbook' out there I am definitely going to read it.

    When I read "The Game" I took notes all the way though it. LOL!

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    If you're going to read it, keep your sanity close by and be prepared to do some deep breathing. Some of it is pretty innocuous "learn how to send a flirty text that makes you sound like a douche instead of a 'pussy'" type of stuff. Some of it qualifies as mild to moderate mental abuse. Some of it is the ramblings of would-be date rapists (or maybe actual date rapists) who see absolutely nothing wrong with the practice. The majority of the philosophy boils down to "'no' means 'try harder, using any means necessary'."

    I think we're kind of lucky that we see so much PUA shit on the job, so many of us would find their tactics laughable or a good reason for perma-banning (in life). I saw one thing where a guy was trying to get a woman he met on the internet to drive 30+ minutes to meet him (and have sex). She said that she couldn't come because she had to work a 12 hour shift starting at 5am. The suggested line to use on her was something like "I don't care, girl, I want to keep you up all night anyway." If that didn't work, he was supposed to ask if she's sure she's not a lesbian. Anyone that ever suggested that I service his cock rather than sleep before a long, early work day would be very, very lucky if all I did was never speak to him again. Sadly, a lot of women do not have a cam girl's low tolerance for BS, and this one continued to flirt with the guy. SMH!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magical_Hoohah View Post
    She said that she couldn't come because she had to work a 12 hour shift starting at 5am. The suggested line to use on her was something like "I don't care, girl, I want to keep you up all night anyway." If that didn't work, he was supposed to ask if she's sure she's not a lesbian.
    That's similar to when a guy is trying to hook up with me, and when I tell him I'm not interested, he says "What...you don't like White guys???" *rolls eyes* Nice try, douche. They think they're so slick with that shit. Trying to accuse me of discriminating in order to guilt trip me into turning my "NO" into a "YES"...that pitiful tactic is NOT gonna work on me. Talk about people using the race card. Lol. Guys have done this with me at the karaoke bar I go to.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    That's similar to when a guy is trying to hook up with me, and when I tell him I'm not interested, he says "What...you don't like White guys???" *rolls eyes* Nice try, douche. They think they're so slick with that shit. Trying to accuse me of discriminating in order to guilt trip me into turning my "NO" into a "YES"...that pitiful tactic is NOT gonna work on me. Talk about people using the race card. Lol. Guys have done this with me at the karaoke bar I go to.
    In my mind's eyes.....when they ask you "What...you don't like White guys???" I can totally hear you replying, "No, I like white guys but I have no problem discriminating against assholes."
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    And that's where they go wrong!.. I want their Money.. not their dick!.. as do most women haha

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    Thanks for the link but I'm not gonna read it. I don't need another reason to "hate" men. I feel like I'm preaching to the choir but the majority of men think you want them just because they got a dick.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hyori View Post
    As an Aspie girl, it took me such a long time to identify asshats like this but with straightforward 'guides' I am able to hear the language that they use and not take it personally or get manipulated. I hope it helps some girls. I think it's good that we are aware of it, kind of like sexual education for children so they can defend themselves from predators.
    Can I just say, Hyori, I'm in awe of seeing a fellow Aspie kicking ass and taking names, and not letting your neutorype hold you back. It helps me get back in touch with the hopes and ambitions I had before floundering undiagnosed for years. Rock on!


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    There are still wonderful, kind, honourable and loving men out there. They do exist. I kiss my husband everyday and make sure he knows how much I appreciate him. 16 years today. ��
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    Quote Originally Posted by hyori View Post
    There are still wonderful, kind, honourable and loving men out there. They do exist. I kiss my husband everyday and make sure he knows how much I appreciate him. 16 years today. ��
    Your comment about good men still being out there reminded me of a Postsecret I saw today that made me smile.


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    this forum.......i just can't...really? whip a girl into shape? how to play her over text so i can get some pussy? smh

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    You walk up to some girls, or you're just chatting with them nonchalantly, then say, "Yeah I heard big nipples are a sign of bad breeding".

    Watch as the titties come out. They explain/rationalize/parade their boobs around, even if they have big nipples. And everyone looks at you like you're God. Because you are

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