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    Just as the title says, this happens to me a lot. For example, I worked a late night shift last night and a fella popped in who seemed very polite. We were flirting and he asked if I offered phone to which I said 'Yes only in exclusive' to which he readily agreed upon. He said I had a beautiful smile and would I continue smile when we went exclusive. Of course I said yes. When we did, he cleared my room and up and just left. It really pissed me off. I mean, why bother to go through that if you just want to clear someone's room?

    I'm really struggling and as I understand it on SM once your room is cleared out you have to build up your placement once more. When it happens over and over again, it gets really frustrating. Hour after hour it adds up=no money. I was almost in tears. And of course these are always such common names that when I asked support to block them they tell me, usually days later it can't be done. I do write the name down in case he/she shows back up so I can ban them but chances are it won't be under the same name. It has occurred to me it may be another model or some guy who has it in for me or both. I know I may sound paranoid but it is so upsetting to not to be able to do anything about it. I feel helpless and I hate that.

    I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions to help? Thank you.
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    I have been thinking about this. It seems that I am swooped off to private just to clear my room. I can't even start a show the last few weeks on Streamate. I had this happen about 4 times in a row the other night and just logged off because after that no one came into my room.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Scarlet Letter View Post
    Just as the title says, this happens to me a lot. For example, I worked a late night shift last night and a fella popped in who seemed very polite. We were flirting and he asked if I offered phone to which I said 'Yes only in exclusive' to which he readily agreed upon. He said I had a beautiful smile and would I continue smile when we went exclusive. Of course I said yes. When we did, he cleared my room and up and just left. It really pissed me off. I mean, why bother to go through that if you just want to clear someone's room?

    I'm really struggling and as I understand it on SM once your room is cleared out you have to build up your placement once more. When it happens over and over again, it gets really frustrating. I was almost in tears. And of course these are always such common names that when I asked support to block them they tell me, usually days later it can't be done. I do write the name down in case he/she shows back up so I can ban them but chances are it won't be under the same name. It has occurred to me it may be another model or some guy who has it in for me or both. I know I may sound paranoid but it is so upsetting to not to be able to do anything about it. I feel helpless and I hate that.

    I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions to help? Thank you.
    Most likely that is a studio owner or jealous model. They are trying to get your guys into other girls rooms. You don't have to worry about them messing up your placement. Placement drops take a few days, not instantaneously by emptying your room. Try to remember who they are and ban their asses and keep bugging support to get them banned. You will succeed!
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    Good thought there Hyori... I have had this happen lately so much it seems so intentional. They will stay usually under 1-2 mins. Some even take me private then leave within just a couple seconds. They won't even say anything to me either letting me know if they can't see me or hear me.

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    I don't always remember, but I do try when I get taken priv/excl to open the notes on the guy. So if he leaves quickly I can make a note on him. Even if they change their name, notes remain.


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    I'm sorry that happened to you. If you feel it's another model or some guy who has it in for you then it's probably is. No one can speak you out of your own experience. I've been very fortunate to rarely if ever experienced that.

    Whenever someone takes you exclusive, you can always click on the ban icon to bring up the screen and slowly talk, tease pass 30 seconds. If they leave before that, click yes on the ban, find the name under your block list, check block from chat and messages. Save changes
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    Ugh. This has happened to me a bunch of times lately, and they leave right before the 30 seconds is up.

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    Keep smiling when it happens. It happened to me twice last night. It could have been a tech issue but something in my gut says it was a competitor. Just keep smiling and talking. I split cam so there's always someone to talk to. Clear my room here and I got 10 more somewhere else. Don't let it show that it's bothering you. Just come back into free chat and say something like "Did you horny pervs miss me? I see you stuck around for this good pussy" Even if the room is empty Mindfuck those haters. That shit makes me better.

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    I write their names down on a post it and stick it to my monitor. If they come back, BAN. Same for all the 45 sec peepers.





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    I used to think these guys were doing it on purpose, but another perspective might be that they just simply cannot stay connected once they try to go into exclusive/private. Also if they are not talking they very well may be on a mobile device which makes it difficult to type. Additionally if they are holding their phone side ways, the chat disappears completely so the video can fill the screen, at that point they can't see anything you type or respond.

    It's happening to me non stop too. I'm just assuming at this point it's a mobile issue. Check out what we've been talking about in the Streamate thread regarding mobile users.
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    Thanks for your responses, I did read in the SM thread on mobile devices for what it's worth but this has been happening for awhile. The fella I spoke about as an example had no problem typing which leads me to believe it was deliberate and was not using a mobile device. Maybe he saw my prices and I was too steep for him. I don't know. What I do know it's happening too much to be just a wild coincidence. I've caught and banned suspected model accounts as well. Usually if they are unable to stay some fellas will try again. I wish I knew who was doing it, damn. It's the not knowing of who, how, or why that is driving me crazy.
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    It's very frustrating when this happens, i often have situations like this & i feel they do it on purpose just to clear our rooms, whoever 'they' are. I suspect too the competition, maybe there are some guys who cant stay connected but 90% of these people doing it ARE the competition i feel. It's just a nasty tactic to ruin somebody's business.

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    I guess it depends if you're in classic mode or party chat. Sometimes guys will go pvt/exl and technical issues are what kicks them out. I personally don't do anything in pvt/exl until after 31 seconds have passed (this includes standing) so I always figure I'd rather someone clear my room and pay me $3.14 for a quick peek than me sitting there entertaining a ton of guys for free. I don't get too many people clearing my room especially not deliberately. If they clear your room and you're in classic chat I'm sure they didn't do it on purpose. Most guys migrate back eventually anyway.




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    This is one of the things I used to hate about Streamate. Members being able to take you private whenever they want, without you having any say in the matter. That, plus how hard Streamate makes it for models to block members from chat. Trolls must think that shit is awesome. When I cammed on there, I was always getting trolls who'd post something real quick, and then run away before there was time to block them. And then there was the guy who had the routine of entering my room, taking me private for one second and ending it...all before I had time to click on his name to block him. He had done it to me several times, and never ONCE uttered a word to me while in my chat. He probably found the whole thing amusing...knowing that he could have that kind of control over my chatroom.

    OP, who knows? Sometimes it could be a jealous female doing that to you. It could be some bitter man (who hates his job) who can't stand it that women could make money at this. It could be some no-life loser who has nothing better to do than fuck with people's money.

    By the way, I'm only referring to the ones doing it intentionally. Not the accidental ones.
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    How do customers even KNOW it clears your room of guests?? I would never tell them that! Do they just see it when they go exclusive? This happens to me all the time I just assume it's a tech issue

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAdriana View Post
    How do customers even KNOW it clears your room of guests?? I would never tell them that! Do they just see it when they go exclusive? This happens to me all the time I just assume it's a tech issue
    Because when you are hanging out in a girls room and she gets taken to exclusive you get boot. It's not like premium, where she goes and does a show, and the chat is still there with the option to join. Sometimes I have customers pissed that they got booted from my chat when I was taken to exclusive and I have to explain its the site and everyone gets booted.

    It could also be people not understanding there is a delay where the model has to accept exclusive. Them being really impatient because their boner is screaming at them, will cause them to leave when they only had to wait 7 seconds for boobs.

    And it could be someone not realizing what your rates are. They had second thoughts or if they were on their phone or tablet accidentally accepted.

    I wish it didn't clear out your chat, but would block the option of joining like premium.





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    I wish we could charge for silent peepers...that would stop a lot of that shit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kortneykay View Post
    I guess it depends if you're in classic mode or party chat. Sometimes guys will go pvt/exl and technical issues are what kicks them out. I personally don't do anything in pvt/exl until after 31 seconds have passed (this includes standing) so I always figure I'd rather someone clear my room and pay me $3.14 for a quick peek than me sitting there entertaining a ton of guys for free. I don't get too many people clearing my room especially not deliberately. If they clear your room and you're in classic chat I'm sure they didn't do it on purpose. Most guys migrate back eventually anyway.
    Also, I had reliable people report of a glitch where your video is fine in free chat but freezes or takes a lifetime to load when you go Pvt or Exclusive. Could be the issue in some cases.

    I don't pay much attention when someone flushes my chat because the people who are interested in a show with you will fav you and come back and the ones who drift off to other rooms are probably just window-shopping anyway. If someone does it on a regular basis, though, I'll just put their name down and report. Whoever is messing with my money is messing with the site's money so they will take action.
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    I don't know if someone said this or not....I haven't had time to read the whole thread, but here's what i used to do!! Ask the customer how long of a private they want. Then make a gold show out of it. Set their buy in what the price per minute would have been totaled. This way nobody else joins....and your guaranteed the money! This is how i used to get out of c2c too.....lol...

    Unfortunately this only works if you have GS enabled....

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    ^^Oh, yeah, I used to do that. I totally forgot about it. thanks for the remind. It worked so great, and occasionally someone would join the show mid stream. Win-win!
    I had one of those guys last night who I know purposely cam prvt. to clear my room..it was as my gs was ending, and he popped in, and tried to turn on his cam. He wouldn't even return my 'hello', so I knew what was coming....
    As suggested in this tread, I had his profile pulled up, and hand on the block button, cause sure enough,he logged off after 29 seconds.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleSexBunny View Post
    I don't know if someone said this or not....I haven't had time to read the whole thread, but here's what i used to do!! Ask the customer how long of a private they want. Then make a gold show out of it. Set their buy in what the price per minute would have been totaled. This way nobody else joins....and your guaranteed the money! This is how i used to get out of c2c too.....lol...

    Unfortunately this only works if you have GS enabled....
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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleSexBunny View Post
    I don't know if someone said this or not....I haven't had time to read the whole thread, but here's what i used to do!! Ask the customer how long of a private they want. Then make a gold show out of it. Set their buy in what the price per minute would have been totaled. This way nobody else joins....and your guaranteed the money! This is how i used to get out of c2c too.....lol...

    Unfortunately this only works if you have GS enabled....
    Only thing about that is if you get disconnected you aren't paid at all! I used to do this to offer a discount until I got disconnected right at the end of the show... never did it again.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SarahTime View Post
    Only thing about that is if you get disconnected you aren't paid at all! I used to do this to offer a discount until I got disconnected right at the end of the show... never did it again.

    yeah....that comes with doing any type of gold show though.

    I got disconnected last night actually. 70 dollars down the drain....

    I still do my goldshows though..... I always will. I actually haven't had a show disconnect in a whileeeee. I'm thankful for that.

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    I used to get the same problem on Naked. A guy would take me private and then clear out my room. I started turning the private feature off and waiting until someone asked to go private. So yes sometimes it's a studio pimp other times it's really just a selfish asshole that wants all of your attention but simply refuses to pay accordingly.

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    There's a member on MFC and finally I was able to lifetime block him. Not sure what that asshole's problem is but I never get why these types sit on cam sites in the first place with their bitterness.

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