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    Default Can a 30 year old escort still make money?

    So I'm 34. I definitely don't look it. I pass for 26 or so. I'm starting to feel insecure about my age. There are so many young escorts out there and I wonder if I'm too old to continue down this career.
    Do clients really care about age, or more about how you treat them?
    I'd like to do this as long as possible and also want to know at what point are you too old to escort?
    Any over 30 year olds have some insight or advice?

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    Default Re: Can a 30 year old escort still make money?

    There are many dancers, masseuses and escorts who are over 30 and very successful and what they do. Some of them tell customers their real age, others say they're in their late twenties. Customers don't really care, as long as you look good and treat them well.

    Of course, some customers prefer 18-21 years old companions but an older escort would tend to attract a more refined and upscale clientele. They would prefer a companion with more life experience and conversation than a beautiful provider who is close to their daughter's age. And then, there's also young guys who are into older women.

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    That's refreshing to know. I've been at this game on and off for the past 10 years. I'm just suddenly feeling effected by it.
    I also get upset about escort review sites. Clients can be way too critical and one bad review can send your career into a dead halt.
    It's so unfair.

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    That's refreshing to know. I've been at this game on and off for the past 10 years. I'm just suddenly feeling effected by it.
    I also get upset about escort review sites. Clients can be way too critical and one bad review can send your career into a dead halt.
    It's so unfair.

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    Oops. I'm new to this, sorry for posting twice. ����

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    Escorts can absolutely be older and make money. I think escorting is actually one area of sex work where there are more older women. There are men who specifically avoid younger escorts because they make them feel too old/dirty, or they don't have anything in common to talk about. The guys you generally won't attract are the younger clients who want someone closer to their age, and younger guys are usually annoying anyway.

    At 26, I've had older clients who won't see me again because I was "too young for them" (not sure why they booked me in the first place though - it's not like my age isn't listed on EVERY one of my ads lol), and I've also had guys relieved that I'm older than the 18-20 year olds around who they think are too young and inexperienced. There's always a demographic. I work and travel with a woman who is approaching her mid-40s and we share a lot of clients who like different things in each of us.
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    Default Re: Can a 30 year old escort still make money?

    That's really REALLY good to know. I notice that my older clients very much enjoy the actual time we spend together and it not so much about the activity. Well of course they enjoy the activity, but the quality is more appreciated. I prefer that.
    There's always someone for everyone.
    I guess I'm just getting grief from my agency about my age. Perhaps it's time to go indie.

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    Yes, absolutely.
    Many of the obstacles you once imagined are not even there.



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    I'm pretty sure older escorts actually do better, up to about age 50 or so. 'Mature' is always one of the top five categories selected on Eros while 'College Girls' is lucky to break into the top twenty. Kinda grumpy about it and wish guys wouldn't discount the maturity I do have because I'm 23. =/

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    Default Re: Can a 30 year old escort still make money?

    I agree with the above comments.
    I feel like your agency isnt good for your confidence if thats how they are already making you feel.

    MANY 40-60 year olds are cranking.
    Hell I actually know a 63 year old who is busy and has kept her rate the same as she is aged.

    Good on her

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    Default Re: Can a 30 year old escort still make money?

    Wow!!! That's amazing! Great for her.
    You ladies are wonderful. Thank you all so much for the positive feedback. It's kind of hard to find a supportive environment in this industry.
    Much love!!!!

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    Default Re: Can a 30 year old escort still make money?

    Just to add..
    The industry is always shrouded in secrecy and lies.
    "middle men" such as agengies (etc etc) who essentially ride on the back of the provider will ALWAYS give you a fear that you are not good enough in one way or another because it keeps you under control and "never too confident"

    I remember being told at 20 years old with a 22 inch waist by an male agency owner that he doesnt like "Big Girls" but would "employ me anyway"
    He has since had a break down and left the industry after hemorraging money for 12 months and going bankrupt.
    I am now out on my own, fat ass and all (lol)

    Break out on your own ,slowly and in a well-researched way.

    Find your place and make the industry your own, dont look outwards to the white noise of everyone else as it is always veiled with their own underlying currents as motivation.

    Build your clients up and cut whoever makes you feel bad out of the circle.


    Good luck! xoxo

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    Default Re: Can a 30 year old escort still make money?

    My preference is escorts in their 30's, sometimes reaching up into the 40's if they have a fitness focus. I don't avoid the twenty somethings, as every woman brings something special and unique. I hate to even group by age. I've met twenty something that bring something uniquely beyond their age and I've met older woman that somehow bring something youthful. There has been through all of history a youth obsession and there is some of that, but I'd see no reason you can't keep earning what you want. Your experience, time management skills, booking skills, interpersonal skills, screening skills, etc., should all help you. I know some 30 somethings that I have a hard time booking with, their schedule when they come to town is such that it's hard to get the schedules to align. Don't be bashful trying to figure out how to make more and do less, everyone, in every business should be figuring that out all the time. Xstacy made a comment that had to do with older escorts being able to attract a more refined and upscale clientele, I can attest that pitch works on me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Sunset View Post
    Escorts can absolutely be older and make money. I think escorting is actually one area of sex work where there are more older women. There are men who specifically avoid younger escorts because they make them feel too old/dirty, or they don't have anything in common to talk about. The guys you generally won't attract are the younger clients who want someone closer to their age, and younger guys are usually annoying anyway.

    At 26, I've had older clients who won't see me again because I was "too young for them" (not sure why they booked me in the first place though - it's not like my age isn't listed on EVERY one of my ads lol), and I've also had guys relieved that I'm older than the 18-20 year olds around who they think are too young and inexperienced. There's always a demographic. I work and travel with a woman who is approaching her mid-40s and we share a lot of clients who like different things in each of us.
    Agree with Aurora 100%. Escorting is not like dancing when it comes to age. As a 19 year old dancer I banked, but I've known clients who absolutely refuse to see anyone under 20. I was 24 when I started and guys definitely remarked about me being "a bit young." People tend to put me at more like 22, and like Aurora I've had guys cancel because I looked too young.

    I think the experience of seeing an escort is supposed to be more authentic to them, more of a companion experience than just oogling a pretty girl, so they want someone who is more their age. You will find that guys don't really last that long and always need a break period if they're going to go again, so there is a lot of talking, even if it's not a long appointments. I also think older women tend to have an easier time developing a relationship with regulars and have a more stable client base. There's also the whole, a man taking a pretty 19 year old to a restaurant, everyone is going to assume she's an escort or a SB. A man taking a pretty 30 year old to a restaurant, everyone is going to assume he's just lucky.

    And honestly, the only non-negotiable screening process I had was, no one under 25. If you don't attract the youngins, be glad. But I don't agree with that completely, I think a lot of young guys like the idea of being with an older woman.

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    34 is still young. You have nothing to worry about.
    "Dancing tables, making deals with devils like a drunk beauty queen"

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    Default Re: Can a 30 year old escort still make money?

    In the States a lot of clients are more comfortable with a woman closer to 30 than a very young looking girl. There's been several high profile busts of clients mainly because they procured the services of an underage girl, which turned their charges from misdemeanor to felony. (Some of these men are high profile pro sports figures.)

    So looking more mature can help you. I would say the very young ladies are popular but when it comes to more serious clients, "definitely NOT underage" is a prime point to them.

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    I have a friend who is 35 and escorts and she makes BANK. she is like you, looks much younger like she's in her 20s, but has the maturity and skills of someone her age so guys get the whole package. I'm sure most men can appreciate a young looking woman in her 30's.

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    I am working with 2 ladies..One is in her early 50's, and the other is 70. Both make no less than a grand a day. If I didnt see it with my own eyes I wouldn't have believed it.. Thanks to them, and their training, so am I!
    They have both been escorting for over 20 years, have their head together, and make it seem effortless.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sophianz View Post
    Just to add..
    The industry is always shrouded in secrecy and lies.
    "middle men" such as agengies (etc etc) who essentially ride on the back of the provider will ALWAYS give you a fear that you are not good enough in one way or another because it keeps you under control and "never too confident"

    I remember being told at 20 years old with a 22 inch waist by an male agency owner that he doesnt like "Big Girls" but would "employ me anyway"
    He has since had a break down and left the industry after hemorraging money for 12 months and going bankrupt.
    I am now out on my own, fat ass and all (lol)

    Break out on your own ,slowly and in a well-researched way.

    Find your place and make the industry your own, dont look outwards to the white noise of everyone else as it is always veiled with their own underlying currents as motivation.

    Build your clients up and cut whoever makes you feel bad out of the circle.


    Good luck! xoxo
    Just wow - if shitbags like the one you are describing could be drummed out of the industry, things would be much better

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    Oh they are...slowly.
    Down in NZ we pretty much snuff out alot of the bullshit because we are decriminalized.

    The girls just move on and they are a pimp without girls lol

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    The other issue is- a lot of middle aged men feel really uncomfortable when they are around young women the same age as their daughters. Any normal guy feels icked out when things "remind him of his daughter." Many of these guys would prefer a lady 30 + because 1) they can relate to each other and 2) hobby time is playtime, not a time to be confronted with reminders of his personal life or worse yet, his precious daughter(s.)

    TL ; DR- not all men are into "barely legal"

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    I've been trashed about my age BY ANOTHER WOMAN if you can believe that. There is a 27 something on this one board in So. Cal. who bashes me for being 40. The clients don't seem to mind. I, also, noticed that as I look older, the clients are nicer and more refined. When I looked 20, most of them acted like immature assholes. I would get a lot of guys in their 20s and early 30s who would want everything for nothing. All they cared about was how much sex they could get and for how cheap. It got old, no pun intended. Now, I deal with a better class of guys.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    I am working with 2 ladies..One is in her early 50's, and the other is 70. Both make no less than a grand a day. If I didnt see it with my own eyes I wouldn't have believed it.. Thanks to them, and their training, so am I!
    They have both been escorting for over 20 years, have their head together, and make it seem effortless.
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    Yep, I didn't hobby young, I have noticed from my mid-thirties until my mid forties now that the physical is much less relevant and I hope for more intellect, personality, and conversation in each session. Not personal info, just a personality thats enjoyable for an hour. Also, as a client, I've gotten more relaxed and comfortable and can just let a session develop more organically at whatever the provider's pace.

    Quote Originally Posted by sexymadness View Post
    I've been trashed about my age BY ANOTHER WOMAN if you can believe that. There is a 27 something on this one board in So. Cal. who bashes me for being 40. The clients don't seem to mind. I, also, noticed that as I look older, the clients are nicer and more refined. When I looked 20, most of them acted like immature assholes. I would get a lot of guys in their 20s and early 30s who would want everything for nothing. All they cared about was how much sex they could get and for how cheap. It got old, no pun intended. Now, I deal with a better class of guys.

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    You are still a baby at 30, lol. Actually, when I started escorting again, I wasn't sure what to expect. I do just fine, and I'm well into my 40's. I look young, I'm tiny too, so I'm not sure if that helps with my youthful look, I think it does. I'm 5'2" and weigh 100 lbs. I do just fine, and you will too!

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