I’ve gotten many lap dances at many clubs in the past, but at my “home” club I never get dances, do the VIP thing, or anything else like that. I go about once a week and when I'm there, I like to just relax and drink. Drinks for dancers at this club are cheaper than my drinks and my drinks are cheaper than at a regular bar so I don't really mind buying drinks for anyone that wants to sit with me and chat for a while. Over the course of a night, I spend time with several dancers; they come by and hang out in between selling dances, doing VIP, sitting with regulars, etc. This includes one I consider my ATF. Even though I don't spend as much time (or money) with her as I do some of the other dancers, I consider her a friend; she doesn't ever ask me for money/tips and we go on regular (non-paid) dates OTC.
Everyone there knows I don’t get dances and nobody asks. However, after knowing one another for a little over a year (with no dances) last week my ATF and I got drunk together and I asked her to give me a dance, as a one-time only thing. I must say, she did her job well - I got two and they were the hottest dances I’ve ever gotten. We didn’t do anything we hadn’t already done just sitting together out on the floor, but it was much more sensual. I can only assume she enjoyed it as well because I left shortly thereafter and she texted me until 3am trying to get me to come back just to hang out. I saw her the next day and neither one of us mentioned it at all.
The thing is, now I’m interested in doing it again, but I haven’t really spent much money on her in the past and I’m worried that starting to do so now will change her opinion of me. If you had a customer that you also see outside of the club, what would you think if he all of a sudden started spending more money on you ITC? How would it affect your opinion of him?



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