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    This might be more of a vent than anything else... i sell panties - I do a really good job, meet in person (in a public place), don't cut corners, provide pictures and videos, the whole nine yards - and in the two years I've been doing this, I have only three regular customers. Most men tell me how much they love what I do, how hot I am, blah blah blah, but never buy from me again! It's frustrating, along with how many flakes are out there. Men who will commit to meeting and then not show up or cancel at the last minute. (I now only meet on my schedule and at a location that's convenient for me, but it still sucks).

    Do you have any advice for gaining more regular customers? Or ways of sussing out flakes?

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    sorry but that is just the nature of fetish - many guys just get off on talking to you about it - for free - and wasting your time - the only advice I have is to require a deposit on a prepay card to reserve the meeting -

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    Yeah, not my thing, but I'd think 'collectors' would rather have panties from lots of different women vs lots from one woman. I've always wondered how they were displayed - in a sample case under glass, like a museum butterfly collection? Or maybe hanging from a chandelier ala Hugh Hefner? LOL
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    I had a RL client who was a plumber -he got his from customers homes -

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nikki_Fox View Post
    I had a RL client who was a plumber -he got his from customers homes -
    I would hate to have my favourite thongs disappear after a plumber's visit.

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    I had a client contact me all excited to buy because he had been stealing them from the laundry of his apartment building. 1) Ew? 2) Why the hell would you admit that?
    "You know spies, buncha bitchy little girls."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taylorgrrl View Post
    I had a client contact me all excited to buy because he had been stealing them from the laundry of his apartment building. 1) Ew? 2) Why the hell would you admit that?
    I personally caught my apartment complex's druggie handyman jerking off in the laundry room during the time he was stalking me....(sometimes the only thing saving you from theft and rape is other people being around and/or a loaded handgun.)

    I've also noticed some creepy customers get off on confiding in adult industry workers b/c 1) they think we get off on things like that 2) they figure we won't tell anyone b/c "they know how it is" for us (marginalized culture) and 3) it makes them hornier. This is why guys used to crank call women to jerk off on the phone (now they do that online).....

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    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    1) they think we get off on things like that 2) they figure we won't tell anyone b/c "they know how it is" for us (marginalized culture) and 3) it makes them hornier.
    I noticed this A Lot when I was dancing. "You're a stripper, so I know you'll appreciate [proceed to describe sex act I would never do even if I was on fire and that was the only way to put it out all while getting visibly more turned on]". Once I started escorting, this kind of thing went way down. I think it's because most of my clients want to be perceived as nice, normal guys I'll want to see again. Fine by me!
    "You know spies, buncha bitchy little girls."

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    Default Re: How to get more regular customers?

    I tried fetish but dealt with way too much bullshit. If you think you deal with bullshit escorting just wait until you do fetish. It's all fantasy for most guys anyways, that is why it is so hard to get good clients doing fetish work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GirlDelux View Post
    I tried fetish but dealt with way too much bullshit. If you think you deal with bullshit escorting just wait until you do fetish. It's all fantasy for most guys anyways, that is why it is so hard to get good clients doing fetish work.
    I believe it. Fetish guys always grossed me out, probably b/c of my conservative religious upbringing.

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    I don't find them gross (mostly), it's more that I am not nearly as interested in their fetish as they are. So I get bored when I get bored my patience runs thin. I'm glad they got off on the smell and feel of my panties. I don't, so I really, really don't care to talk about.
    "You know spies, buncha bitchy little girls."

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    send them to my niteflirt account - for 1.69 a minute will talk about panties all night

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    Default Re: How to get more regular customers?

    hey tralalala,

    I agree with Nikki. You should always require a deposit for meeting in person such as 200 dollars per meeting. Please do not allow these men to waste your time

    Quote Originally Posted by tralalala View Post
    This might be more of a vent than anything else... i sell panties - I do a really good job, meet in person (in a public place), don't cut corners, provide pictures and videos, the whole nine yards - and in the two years I've been doing this, I have only three regular customers. Most men tell me how much they love what I do, how hot I am, blah blah blah, but never buy from me again! It's frustrating, along with how many flakes are out there. Men who will commit to meeting and then not show up or cancel at the last minute. (I now only meet on my schedule and at a location that's convenient for me, but it still sucks).

    Do you have any advice for gaining more regular customers? Or ways of sussing out flakes?

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