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    Default Well I am 34, laid off from a tv career 4 years ago. quit call centre work to cam.

    I always dreaded getting old. Especially getting old looking and no longer fitting in. Being the parent. But does being 8 years older than someone make me a cougar???? George Clooney is like 16 years older than his woman! Everyone loves it. But if a girl is older she is a cougar. It's not fair. Here is a link to what happened. It sucked and I feel like complete shit. This is my first post here sorry Came here to bitch about guys on the cam but this happened instead!




    I guess this is also a thread hoping other girls here watch Y&R? I am sorry but that show is pretty much the reason I went to full time camming. SO WHO IS WATCHING THIS STUPID AUSTIN STORYLINE???

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    ack talk about a regretful first post. camming is pulling me in different directions. I am anxious everyone is talking behind my back in real life putting me down for camming while pretending to believe my cover lobs that are obviously lies agh. I don't feel bad about what I do but I hate everyone putting me down and looking down at me. So awkward at Easter I am dreading it.

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    Default Re: Well I am 34, laid off from a tv career 4 years ago. quit call centre work to cam

    here is the definition from Urban Dictionary.

    Cougar:
    An older woman who frequents clubs in order to score with a much younger man. The cougar can be anyone from an overly surgically altered wind tunnel victim, to an absolute sad and bloated old horn-meister, to a real hottie or milf. Cougars are gaining in popularity -- particularly the true hotties -- as young men find not only a sexual high, but many times a chick with her shit together.

    I only saw one question in your post so I will answer that. Your not a cougar. 34 is not old. You have only been an adult for 13 years which means you just past the childhood stage of being an adult and your now entering the teenage phase of being an adult. Relax and enjoy it. The average life expectancy of a Canadian women is 84 years old! That means you have half a century of tomorrows to live.

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    I draw a distinction ... a cougar is a middle aged 'hot' woman who actively pursues younger men, whereas a MILF is a middle aged 'hot' women whom younger men pursue ( along with older men ) !!!

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    First of all, you're NOT old. 34 is still young. I say this alllll the time because I am trying to slowly break down this obsession with youth in this culture.

    Second of all, women are like wine. They get BETTER with age. Young girls are awkward, clumsy, and barely know themselves if at all. They are still trying to get comfortable growing into their body. Older women are generally more confident and have alot more sex appeal because they truly know themselves, they know what they want, they are more comfortable with their bodies, etc. Also, the older you get, the less fucks you have to give.

    It truly irks me how many posts I come across with girls lamenting "OMG I'm 30-something years old. I am so OLD!" What does this say about our culture???

    Do you think Kim Cattrall gives 2 fucks about her age? Nope. She's fabulous no matter how many years she has graced this planet. And she still has to use a fly swatter to swat away all the guys trying to fuck her all the time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarletKitten View Post
    Young girls are awkward, clumsy, and barely know themselves if at all.
    I dunno... Some of us are pretty awesome!

    OP. live your life and have fun. You're still young and fabulous. And when you get to be in your 50's, you'll be 50 and fabulous. Who cares what number is before the fabulous? Its just a state of mind, after all!

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss_sub View Post
    George Clooney is like 16 years older than his woman! Everyone loves it. But if a girl is older she is a cougar. It's not fair.
    Because he's George Clooney! In the real world, the stigma with men getting with younger chicks is way way worse than the stigma of older women getting with way younger men. When a 20 year old female is with a 45 year old guy most people think he's some dirty old pervert and she's a gold-digger. Women with younger guys DO NOT get that type of stigma.

    And 34 isn't old, wtf? I didn't think anyone thought that was old.

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    Default Re: Well I am 34, laid off from a tv career 4 years ago. quit call centre work to cam

    34 isn't old.

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    Turns out age doesn't matter in this industry. 34 is not old. That dude is obviously a man child. Man children throw temper tantrums when they don't get what they want. You turning him down hurt his feelings, so he now has to hurt yours. Block his number if you can. Move on. He wouldn't be reacting the way he did if he properly new how to deal with his feelings


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    The one thing I love about the camming industry is that aging doesn't mean a damn thing.....all it does is move you into another genre/niche.

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    Default Re: Well I am 34, laid off from a tv career 4 years ago. quit call centre work to cam

    I turn 46 tomorrow & I rock in life and on cam. Men chase me like crazy, landing more hot 30 yr olds now than I did when I was 30.

    mm You get what you put out in the world, that kind of negativity is bananas to me. Camming is awesome & empowering to me. You see it as a step down, I see it as the most awesome job in the world.

    We get to work from home, work when we want or as little as we want. You just merely need to change your mind set. Soap Operas are on the way out. I used to date a male soap star, he had to move on & do other things too. You are doing honest work and can support your child. Work it the right way with camming, clips and having your own site. Possibility to pull in $100,000 or more a year, which is way more than soap opera money.

    You are caught up in the LA youth obsessed show biz world, which isn't reality. Reality is most of the top girls money making girls on SM are of all ages. How can you let a few haters get you down? Trust the men behind the scenes in LA aren't as youth obsessed as you think they are either. LOL You would be surprised who all is on the other side of those cam shows. Your job is to work them & get the most money out of them. Instead of them working you, driving down your self esteem and getting you for cheap.

    Terms like milf, cougar, mature all bring in the right kind of custies that will spend $$$. Who gives a fuck about the terms and their meanings as long as when I get to put many big checks in my bank account each week. Use them to your advantage, instead of hating on yourself. Men are a dime a dozen. Block that guys number, he is using it and you to tell others you are obsessed with him. Simply block and move on in your life. Never would give a man that much power over my life to post a blog or tweet over him like that.

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    ^I think I get where ScarletKitten is coming from (about barely knowing yourself when you're younger). You'll often hear people say things like "If only I had known then what I know now." I used to wonder what the hell that meant, but now I truly understand. It doesn't mean that I'm old though. LOL. I'm oldER, but I'm not old. I am 32 years old. I think you really do get wiser with age, because you experience more...the good and the bad.

    Eliminate the people from your life who are putting you down, and determined to see you fail. Especially when they aren't the ones paying your bills. You live to make YOU happy. Not to please everyone else. Screw what they think...especially when they're not the ones paying your bills. *Hug*
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    Ah....46, Sam. You're a youngster! I love your post though. I'm 53 and still rocking it :o)
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    Sam can I move in with you or higher you to motivate me everyday? Your so incredible to me. I mean your words never fail to move and inspire me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BombshellBelle View Post
    I dunno... Some of us are pretty awesome!
    Yah.... so think about how much MORE AWESOME you will be as you age!
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    Quote Originally Posted by SarahTime View Post
    Yah.... so think about how much MORE AWESOME you will be as you age!
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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    The one thing I love about the camming industry is that aging doesn't mean a damn thing.....all it does is move you into another genre/niche.
    This is what I love about camming. Camming didn't find me until I was almost 36 and now I am 38. Sometimes it is difficult for me to keep my composure over how hot some of them are. I find the more I cam the better the money and the men get.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RebeccaT View Post
    Ah....46, Sam. You're a youngster! I love your post though. I'm 53 and still rocking it :o)
    Yeah you are!! damn you're hot!!!
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    I read your original post and that boy is a petulant child. Ain't no reason to put up with that shit. You do, however, seem very perturbed by the negative comments. In this business you MUST develop a thick skin. What has been said above is now your new mantra.

    You are able to pay your rent by PURE SEX APPEAL. Do not let get every negative comment get to you, he's TRYING to garner the reaction you're having. If he didn't want to live with his face between your legs, he wouldn't have hit on you in the first place!


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    Default Re: Well I am 34, laid off from a tv career 4 years ago. quit call centre work to cam

    At 36 I'm struggling with the same feelings. I wore a shirt the other day that showed a bit of tummy(only a few inches) and my husband looked at me and said"honey those are for teenagers".

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    I don't think this is an age issue but more of a self-esteem issue. I didn't even bother to click the link because I don't buy into that petty shit of what society tries to feed you. Change the channel. You have the power to feel good about yourself right where you are regardless of your age or whatever it is. You define you.

    I LOVE getting older. You don't tolerate or accommodate bullshit because #youdeservethebest. You don't feel the need to please anybody. It's pretty much 'This is who I am... in all my splendor, it is as good as it's gonna get so take it or lump it' attitude.



    BTW, George Clooney ain't shit. Womanizers turn my milk sour, LOL!
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    Quote Originally Posted by BombshellBelle View Post
    I dunno... Some of us are pretty awesome!
    Of course! Lots of young women got it going on too! I didn't mean to say all young women are awkward, etc. Hell, I'm young....but I get better with each passing year.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr
    Womanizers turn my milk sour, LOL!
    This. No matter how sexy I may think a guy is, the moment I hear him bragging about shit, I become annoyed and turned off. Especially the ones who brag "I GETS IT IN!!!" *rolls eyes*
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    OP, try not to look at going into camming as a negative. You'll have more flexibility, get paid daily, not worry about driving/gas/bad weather/traffic. 34 isn't old. I make more at 30 in sex work than I did at 20. Yes, I'm not thrilled to be thirty, but I'm hot and get guessed younger. Most I've made camming was 1200 in one day at 29. And no, that guy didn't think I was old. There are women on SM past retirement age-in the US, anyway who make great money. With your seemingly sensitive attitude, just remember that trolls say what they say to everyone. Just variations on age/weight/price/looks/etc.. They don't spend money, just think of them as the guys who are puking outside of bars they've been kicked out of while you walk in to make money. That made sense in my head.
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    Guuuuuuuurl, sexiness wears thin after a while. Sex with the ones that brag are usually not that great anyway. They don't give a fuck about who you are as a person. A man is gonna have to offer me more than just the organ between his legs for me to put out but I digress.
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    This. No matter how sexy I may think a guy is, the moment I hear him bragging about shit, I become annoyed and turned off. Especially the ones who brag "I GETS IT IN!!!" *rolls eyes*
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