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    This is the most insane thing I've heard so far. I had a contact that added me through skype, I might note found me through the skype directory (not another cam site). I videoed to verify I'm real for like 2 secs to wave and say hello. I do have skyprivate through skype. Now the tricky part, he has a joint cc with his significant other and doesn't want any charges on his account. So has offered to snail mail me cash in Euros. I explained I would have to speak to my partner (we do couple shows too), but is this really out there.... does any one accept cash for shows? Just seems very, very out there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RosieRedAss View Post
    This is the most insane thing I've heard so far. I had a contact that added me through skype, I might note found me through the skype directory (not another cam site). I videoed to verify I'm real for like 2 secs to wave and say hello. I do have skyprivate through skype. Now the tricky part, he has a joint cc with his significant other and doesn't want any charges on his account. So has offered to snail mail me cash in Euros. I explained I would have to speak to my partner (we do couple shows too), but is this really out there.... does any one accept cash for shows? Just seems very, very out there.
    Your not allowed to accept any other payments then skyprivate payments.9 out 10 times the guys that say that are scammers in my experience.Do yourself a favor and only accept payments through the sites ur working for.These men are liars and scammers.

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    That's what I would think, it just hit me as odd, now do you know if there's a way that I can block my skype so only skyprivate users can request to join.... maybe that's more of my issue. I find it difficult where I'm still very new to get any clients. I would like to have just those ones on there.

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    Explain to him that there are no options like he asking for at this time and when he is able to pay with the methods you offer you will be happy to cam with him then. It's ridiculous that he would ask for something like this. Next thing you know he will claim he mailed you money when he didn't, or you will caught breaking site rules and so on; that's just opening a whole new can of worms. Not worth it.

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    Why so many other men do this..... buy a visa giftcard..... just insane, okay at least I was thinking clearly.... Thank you both ladies!! Thank God for Stripper Web.... now if I could just be busy that would be amazing...

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    The first red flag was him asking for a preview. Skype is full of scammers like this who will happily waste your time, dangling promises of money in front of your nose. If someone asks for a preview or isn't able to pay through my site they get blocked. It just isn't worth the headache.

    There are plenty of guys out there who are more than willing to pay through legitimate sites. You'll start to get a sixth sense for these things - it gets easier to sniff out the scammers and time wasters as you go. It's a good idea to have a few screening questions for new contacts on skype (asking them which site they know you from, confirming that they know your rates and are able to use your site etc) to help you avoid wasting your time.


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    You just fell for a TRICK!.. you videod with him even for 2 secs and now he cant PAY YOU?.. yea that sounds completely legit right there.. just pass him up and move on to the next guy.. 12 yrs of cam experience right here .. NEVER give previews to these guys.. they are paying bargain basement rates for cam shows on Skype.. They don't need a stinkin preview!

    Quote Originally Posted by RosieRedAss View Post
    This is the most insane thing I've heard so far. I had a contact that added me through skype, I might note found me through the skype directory (not another cam site). I videoed to verify I'm real for like 2 secs to wave and say hello. I do have skyprivate through skype. Now the tricky part, he has a joint cc with his significant other and doesn't want any charges on his account. So has offered to snail mail me cash in Euros. I explained I would have to speak to my partner (we do couple shows too), but is this really out there.... does any one accept cash for shows? Just seems very, very out there.

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    Scam artist!
    Even if not, you do not have to pander to these guys, your time is money. Give them the links to where you make money easily and directly. if they can't use them move on, it's not your problem, and there will ALWAYS be another customer along soon
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    So you gave him your address so he can mail you cash? No need to answer, i'm just amusing myself over here.

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    @ busygirl, I don't see where she mentioned accepting cash or giving her address? Just that she would ask her partner first and her running it by SW.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RosieRedAss View Post
    Now the tricky part, he has a joint cc with his significant other and doesn't want any charges on his account. So has offered to snail mail me cash in Euros. I explained I would have to speak to my partner (we do couple shows too), but is this really out there.... does any one accept cash for shows? Just seems very, very out there.
    Am i reading this wrong Prussia? I know she didn't do it, i was just spelling it out how it would happen to bring light to the absurdity of the situation. Wasn't a real question, i thought i was clear about being sarcastic. I'm sure others got my message.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Busygirl View Post
    Am i reading this wrong Prussia? I know she didn't do it, i was just spelling it out how it would happen to bring light to the absurdity of the situation. Wasn't a real question, i thought i was clear about being sarcastic. I'm sure others got my message.
    I was totally right there with you. I was thinking. " so he wants your address- at the very least he gets a P.O. Box of an approximate location."

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    Default Re: I couldn't find any answers :(

    Never make the mistake of giving these guys your address. I don't care how "cool" or "nice" they seem, or how much money they've spent on you. If you MUST have them mail you something, use a P.O. Box.

    I do, however, remember hearing something about how someone mailed some girl a spider once. Not sure if that's true or not, but EW!

    Then there was the cam girl who had posted about how some strange guy was following her boyfriend to her P.O. Box (her bf was picking up her mail for her), and when her bf stopped his car to get out, El Creepo drove off.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post

    Then there was the cam girl who had posted about how some strange guy was following her boyfriend to her P.O. Box (her bf was picking up her mail for her), and when her bf stopped his car to get out, El Creepo drove off.
    This is why I don't even bother with a P.O. Box. I use a mail redirector/forwarder in Oregon to forward all mail to me in Canada.

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    Can you share a link for that Hyori or pm me. I always wanted one, but was afraid of getting scammed or not getting mail in a reasonable time.

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    Default Re: I couldn't find any answers :(

    We do have a po box, but I'm in Canada, but my profile says otherwise, and Canada is Geo-blocked.... I'm just really frustrated, I'm only on Skype for Skyprivate, I thought maybe I could get more customers from there, we mistakingly signed up to Streamate through Internet Modeling and get next to no money. Today I did my first private all week and made 11 bucks... I worked it too. It's been dead during the day, when my kids are in school, I wanted to do this and try and make a go of it. But the most I've made in a week so far is $89, if I could do that every week it would be great. But I'd rather have the same amount of time put in but make 3 times as much on SkyPrivate. I'm rambling because I'm frustrated..... I've been reading stripper web like crazy trying to figure out what I should be doing, what I'm doing wrong.... right.... or otherwise. I'm a bigger girl, but I'm tall too.... I'm going to do some evenings this week and see if that's any better. Just feeling really depressed... I don't want to have to work flipping burgers, I'm 37 and live in a shitty place to get a good job. I want to be busy. When he's here too we off something really different, that would appeal to the more kinky population.... ugh..... Help!!!

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    Nope nope nope. Accepting cash for a show?! Just NOPE!

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    WE wouldn't have anyway, thank you everyone so much for all your input!!! TGIF!!!!

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    If the customers can't follow the site rules for payments, I just say no. $40 for a 10 minute show isn't worth potentially losing thousands.

    There are also implications about him mailing cash to you. He could use it as blackmail in a few different ways, or also potentially put your personal information out on the web.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RosieRedAss View Post
    We do have a po box, but I'm in Canada, but my profile says otherwise, and Canada is Geo-blocked.... I'm just really frustrated, I'm only on Skype for Skyprivate, I thought maybe I could get more customers from there, we mistakingly signed up to Streamate through Internet Modeling and get next to no money. Today I did my first private all week and made 11 bucks... I worked it too. It's been dead during the day, when my kids are in school, I wanted to do this and try and make a go of it. But the most I've made in a week so far is $89, if I could do that every week it would be great. But I'd rather have the same amount of time put in but make 3 times as much on SkyPrivate. I'm rambling because I'm frustrated..... I've been reading stripper web like crazy trying to figure out what I should be doing, what I'm doing wrong.... right.... or otherwise. I'm a bigger girl, but I'm tall too.... I'm going to do some evenings this week and see if that's any better. Just feeling really depressed... I don't want to have to work flipping burgers, I'm 37 and live in a shitty place to get a good job. I want to be busy. When he's here too we off something really different, that would appeal to the more kinky population.... ugh..... Help!!!
    Girl, you need more eggs in more baskets. And you need to get out of that IM contract! Are you signed up on any other camsites or clip sites? Start hustling hard on some other sites so that you can work there during the waiting period from leaving IM. I'm sorry they got you bb. But you can do this!! SM isn't the only site with money. And you can always add on phone sex and clips.


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    I can't even begin to tell you how many "skype search" people add me when I know damn well they got my name from cmd or another site like mfc, sm, etc and just stalked my username down. and play stupid "what's a camshow?" "Oh bb I own strip clubs!". "Do u take amazon or paypal? Check?" I'm like nooo ope block. Don't even entertain those "honest mistakes" .

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