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    Duh customer found me in real life and I went on a date with him

    So went out with this guy who I thought was pretty cool, we had been exchanging texts for a few weeks before deciding to go out on a date. The date was fun and he seemed to be a great guy, but as he was walking me to my car he says, "I know you're a cam model and I'm totally cool with that." So I asked what made him think I was a cam model (I'm gonna play dumb.for as long as possible). To which he tells me his username and that he knows it's me. (Omg, it's foot guy). At this point I just got in my car and left. Scary!

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    Default Re: customer found me in real life and I went on a date with him

    Wow, did you ask him if he looked you up or if it was totally by chance?
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    Default Re: customer found me in real life and I went on a date with him

    Lol I don't even wanna know

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    Default Re: customer found me in real life and I went on a date with him

    Wow that is totally fucked up.

    "Keep your friends close & your enemy closer."

    It is probably really weird talking to him after that, but if I were you I'd try to figure out where/how he got your info. Did you use the same pics on cam and personal stuff? Is your info posted somewhere? What is going on? You really should see how he found out. Like is it mad detective work or is it out there for all to see??

    Please keep safe either way.

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    Default Re: customer found me in real life and I went on a date with him

    I was on a dating site for a while ( a profile I hadn't used in over a year) and got a "hey, I THOUGHT I saw you on webcam the other night, hi!" like yeah, you just eliminated the small chance I would ever contact you.

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    That's not something I would want a guy to disclose to me on the first date. If a guy came right out and told me I was camming I would personally lose his number because I would know he just wants an easy lay. That is scary!

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    Default Re: customer found me in real life and I went on a date with him

    How did you two meet ? Online Dating Site/Social Networking ?

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    Default Re: customer found me in real life and I went on a date with him

    That was a total set up. Of course he knew he saw you on cam. Most of those men want to date you anyways and now he's dating you for free? Nope.

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    That really was a set up for a free date from the sounds of it! And extremely creepy too...

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    Default Re: customer found me in real life and I went on a date with him

    if I were you I'd try to figure out where/how he got your info. Did you use the same pics on cam and personal stuff? Is your info posted somewhere? What is going on? You really should see how he found out. Like is it mad detective work or is it out there for all to see??
    I'm not saying that this was the specific reason in the OP's case, but facial recognition search technology continues to get better and better, along with becoming more and more available outside the LE / corporate world. If there are pics / videos of your adult entertainer persona online ( webcam host promo pics, customer uploads, tube sites etc. ), and there are also pics / videos of your real self online ( school yearbooks, social media postings, dating sites, etc. ), it's becoming easier and easier for anybody with access to facial recognition search software to connect the two as being the same person.

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    Default Re: customer found me in real life and I went on a date with him

    To avoid this in the future do you have the option to disguise yourself? I.e with awesome make up skills (contouring) or wearing lots more make-up that you would irl to look totally different perhaps in combination with a wig.

    If not, blurring out your face might work or taking pictures with only a bit of your face in it.

    It still won't stop people from prt screening your chatroom, but at least it is not as easy as draggin a picture into Google.

    Also, if you want to fool Google image search... mirror your picture and Google can't find it anymore. No idea how much longer it will work, but I have been doing it for years, just in case.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bbwbrianna View Post
    That's not something I would want a guy to disclose to me on the first date. If a guy came right out and told me I was camming I would personally lose his number because I would know he just wants an easy lay. That is scary!
    This exactly. These guys believe they've struck pussy gold if they personally know a woman in the adult industry. And so much for wanting them to get to know you better as a person. That pretty much flies out the window at that point.
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    Default Re: customer found me in real life and I went on a date with him

    I've had something similar happen except I wasn't on a date with him, I was just chatting with him at a bar. And he wasn't a cam customer but he was involved in cam sites. I don't feel comfortable sharing the details here, but yeah ... if you met him on a dating website (not saying you did, but if you did ...) he could've reverse search your pictures and done this on purpose. Creepy! I'm getting sick just thinking about it. And why the fuck does he think you care if he's "cool with it." Well I guess a customers fantasy came true. :/

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    I met my husband on a camsite 6 years ago, he wasnt creepy. So we were talking, after he began sending me flowers and gifts, writting letterswe met after a year of talking. And we live together for 5 years and we got married back in december 2014.
    Not everybody online is creepy.

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    I can't but help to think, "Goodness, I'm so glad I'm not dating." Because this is a fear of mine. OP, I'm so sorry that happened! That's really creepy.





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    Quote Originally Posted by Elsa View Post

    It still won't stop people from prt screening your chatroom, but at least it is not as easy as draggin a picture into Google.

    Also, if you want to fool Google image search... mirror your picture and Google can't find it anymore. No idea how much longer it will work, but I have been doing it for years, just in case.
    What do you mean by mirror your pic? Sorry I'm dumb


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    I think you are the one in a million case that probably began camming to be fated to meet your husband.. the rest of us should stay away for the most part.. lol

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    I met my husband on a camsite 6 years ago, he wasnt creepy. So we were talking, after he began sending me flowers and gifts, writting letterswe met after a year of talking. And we live together for 5 years and we got married back in december 2014.
    Not everybody online is creepy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    What do you mean by mirror your pic? Sorry I'm dumb
    I think she means to flip it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie View Post
    I'm not saying that this was the specific reason in the OP's case, but facial recognition search technology continues to get better and better, along with becoming more and more available outside the LE / corporate world. If there are pics / videos of your adult entertainer persona online ( webcam host promo pics, customer uploads, tube sites etc. ), and there are also pics / videos of your real self online ( school yearbooks, social media postings, dating sites, etc. ), it's becoming easier and easier for anybody with access to facial recognition search software to connect the two as being the same person.
    Oh for sure I agree! I typed my comment really late last night so I don't think I conveyed what I meant to say properly. I meant did she cross over personal and cam info and this guy was able to do research on his own to find out, did he use recognition software, or did someone post her info somewhere and out her? If someone is outing her then she needs to find the source and do some damage control.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Prussia View Post
    I think she means to flip it?
    Sorry, still don't know what that means


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    How much info he got on you on that date? He probably has high hopes on getting it on with you, so you need to be scared to not piss him off, or he's going to out you on cam, and to people in your life. If you like him, and want to still see him, you need to establish that your work is only work. You might need to be strict and firm about it, to get in into his head. On the other hand, if you don't want to see him anymore, let him down easy, say you are already dating etc.
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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    Sorry, still don't know what that means
    http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mirror_image

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissJu View Post
    I began camming for another reason. I began to cam just for fun.
    2 of my friends married on guys whom they met on a camsite. They are still married already for 7 years or more.
    But i have to agree, my husband is from south america and culturicaly we closer. Im not sure i want to marry Us guy.
    And i knew one girl.. She met a guy on a camsite..and she also got married with him just because he has a big dick:/,))i dunno if she still lives with him thought.
    I also met nice cam girls,i would even say they were better than "simple"people i met at school or jobs.
    I think she meant more it was fate for you to meet your husband through camming, not that you cammed specifically to meet a potential husband. It's an incredibly rare circumstance for a cam girl to have intrest in a customer, let alone to marry them.

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