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    Default Overcoming your inner bitch (post dancing); aka: don't kill dude in the checkout line

    Maybe it's a 'me' thing, where adapting to civilian life is challenging... Loved the girls, loved the camaraderie, loved the physicality of it all... After my boyfriend-at-the-time/forever-partner-now broke his knee, I became his primary caretaker after 12 years of dancing- through physical therapy, through the month+ in a wheelchair- I was there. I'm retired now. I miss ALOT but NOT unpredictable money or fending of super creepy pervs. Working together as he is in recovery but...

    Occasionally, I find that my 'she-don't-take-no-shit' mentality take over. Was in the line at our local corner store to buy us both a couple packs of cigarettes (side note:if you 'chide' me for smoking, I will report you for offensive behavior) and a dude walked up, mid-transaction, for specifically numbered scratch offs. At the time, the poor cashier, whose name I'd just asked the pronunciation of, was trying to read the neon price tag on my pellegrino.

    And find my cigarettes.

    After I swiped my card, I told him 'that's really fucking rude.' The older Indian lady was STUNNED. He didn't get it and said that he was just talking to her and not interrupting anything. Once I was finished, I walked out the door, propped it open, and yelled that I hoped that he choked on his own dick. Took my hair down, removed my overcoat, and made sure that he couldn't see me...

    I would really love to know that it isn't just me that has these breaking moments...

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    Default Re: Overcoming your inner bitch (post dancing); aka: don't kill dude in the checkout

    I don't really understand what happened? Did the man cut in line?

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    Default Re: Overcoming your inner bitch (post dancing); aka: don't kill dude in the checkout

    ^ I think he walked up as she was checking out and started talking to the cashier.

    No it's not, I have taken to telling off men who hit on me, or tell me to smile, in almost the exact same way ("that's really fucking rude"). Got no patience with people giving me runaround either. I don't think anything is wrong with us. I think we expect to be treated a certain way and society is largely full of rude assholes who never get put in their place.
    "People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."

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    I don't see why telling a rude asshole that they're a rude asshole is a problem. If the rude asshole doesn't want to be called on his rude assholery, maybe he should have some basic respect and wait in line. That time could be well spend reflecting on ways not to be a rude asshole.

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    Default Re: Overcoming your inner bitch (post dancing); aka: don't kill dude in the checkout

    Quote Originally Posted by kirakonstantin View Post
    I don't see why telling a rude asshole that they're a rude asshole is a problem. If the rude asshole doesn't want to be called on his rude assholery, maybe he should have some basic respect and wait in line. That time could be well spend reflecting on ways not to be a rude asshole.
    Say "rude asshole" one more time.
    (I love this post).
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    Default Re: Overcoming your inner bitch (post dancing); aka: don't kill dude in the checkout

    Of course not and I do agree that it is incredibly rude! I have to give you major credit for taking charge of your past situation, that speaks words about your strengths! I hear many people make rude remarks under their breath about my boyfriend smoking his E-cig, regardless of whether it is vapor or smoke..I can't help but feel my inner bitch scratching for a way out. I make an irritating groan/teeth clench when someone pisses me off, I find actions are not appropriate for words..but sometimes people deserved to get called out once in a while. I once had this guy tell me my painting wasn't art and my aunt who is very flamboyant and super bitchy screamed, "You are a giant asshole!!!" lol, was awesome and was able to enjoy the comic convention that day without getting down about someone calling out my work at a fun event!~

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    Default Re: Overcoming your inner bitch (post dancing); aka: don't kill dude in the checkout

    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    Say "rude asshole" one more time.
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    Default Re: Overcoming your inner bitch (post dancing); aka: don't kill dude in the checkout

    This thread is awesome. I've always had a short fuse all my life. But after being a stripper, that fuse is as short as ever. I can relate, OP!

    My bf tells me I often look pissed off when I'm walking around in public. I have the look of "I want to kill you" written on my face, lol! I wasn't even really aware of this until he told me. But yeah, I often get really tempted to go off on someone whenever they try to piss me off.

    This thread may be relevant: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...e-REALLY-angry
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    Default Re: Overcoming your inner bitch (post dancing); aka: don't kill dude in the checkout

    ^ I have that look too and it's probably because I'm off in my own head, planning what I'm doing next or something...
    "People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."

    "You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave."

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    Default Re: Overcoming your inner bitch (post dancing); aka: don't kill dude in the checkout

    Oh, I live in chronic bitch mode when dealing with people outside of work. I am paid to deal with shit like that, I am NOT going to do it for free in my personal life. I love stripping because it gave me the ability to say "fuck off" to people who irritate me, people who are rude, or people who just fucking suck.

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    Default Re: Overcoming your inner bitch (post dancing); aka: don't kill dude in the checkout

    Your princess attitude probably made you money in the club, and being confrontational is often a character trait. I probably wouldn't have reacted the same way - I tend to diffuse with humor - but that doesn't mean your reaction was wrong.

    You can try to overcome your inner bitch if you see that it's becoming a problem in your life, but if your worst bitchy-discretion is to snap at some dude in a corner store I wouldn't say it's a huge deal. Does it go further than that?

    If you were throwing tempter tantrums in a payless because they couldn't find your shoe size, or started slapping kids who butt in line at Dollar Store it might be more of an issue.

    Random man in line should have waited his turn. Poor Indian Lady may have been unjustly startled.



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    Default Re: Overcoming your inner bitch (post dancing); aka: don't kill dude in the checkout

    Lol im.too the same way.... reminds me of the other day I was at WAlgreens and same thing hAppens..as I wAit in line this piece of shit older queer guy cuts me off and puts his shit on the counter before me.....ooooh he had some nerve...and hell yeah I gave him the buisness. Cashier gave me a weired look. Im just.trying to pay and get the f out... dont need that shit period..

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