Cohabitating/domestic partnership vs marriage - back taxes/ medical bills on his end -700 credit on mine vs marriage. Pros/cons?
We're looking at power-of-attorney/medical-power-of-attorney, which may sound stupid, but I have no real assets anymore. And we both have the same, leave-'em-better-than-you-found-'em mentality.
i would like to get a better perspective from you as far as when it would make financial sense to get married or what to do if we have kids or whatever.
(He doesn't really believe in the LTC of marriage either - after how my parent went, I don't think that differently...)
Thank you.
PS I am not the one pushing to get things resolved. We live together and I don't work anymore. And probably can't work again, given joint pain/burn out. He's the guy that I want for as long as our love lasts, we just went through a pregnancy scare, talked a lot about where we want to be and are working toward it. Dumping him is not an option.



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Anymore advice that you can give more specifically would be appreciated. We need to get this resolved.

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