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    Default How do you pamper yourself?

    I've decided that every day that I manage to log onto a free chat site, I get to pamper myself afterwards.

    Problem is, I've been broke, sick and/or depressed for so long (like over 10 years), I've basically forgotten what I actually enjoy in life. So far I've come up with: bubble baths, fancy coffee, new books. Cheap clothes aren't all that exciting to me, and I'm not keen to eat myself happy, but I'm sure there're other options.

    What small treats do you enjoy? How do you tell yourself, "Hey self, thanks for being awesome!"?

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    I'm really big on spa days; getting my nails done or getting a massage. I have a new rewards system: If I cam for all the days I plan to AND I meet my weekly goal, then I spend around $100 at the spa.

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    I've endured years of bullying. School was a place of HELL for me so now that I am a free bird, I can do what I want, whenever I want and however I want, I try to be as kind to myself as possible. I start my morning right with Starbucks coffee and take myself shopping regularly. I sure feel like a home coming Queen now

    The greatest way I pamper myself is getting rid of people who are not physically, financially, emotionally or spiritually beneficial to life because #Ideservethebest. I no longer tolerate or accommodate feeling so alone in a room full of the wrong people.
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    Movies, singing, drawing, birdwatching, camera accessories, thrifting for treasures, going to workshops for various interests, reading, learning a new skill, gaming, grooming my dog, sewing, knitting, crocheting, needlefelting, stripperwebbing, drinking wine, drinking tea, going for coffee with a good friend, reorganizing my space...that's just off the top of my head.


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    I do a lot of different things to pamper myself! During work or on break I'll get a little bag of candy to say ''Good job!'' for getting through the day without quitting or I'll watch a movie and chill out for a bit.

    When it comes to money accomplishments, like making more than my weekly goal or saving money for something I need, I'll buy something expensive for myself! I have a lot of different hobbies, not all of them cheap, and it's nice to say ''I totally just bought X for x-dollars and I did it all myself!'' I'm still at that young-adult-just-starting-out phase so it's a big deal when I break 600$ a week or get better at my job.

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    I LOVE spas, bubble baths, hair and face masks, and end it with some smutty fanfiction or a book with some nice Red wine


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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    The greatest way I pamper myself is getting rid of people who are not physically, financially, emotionally or spiritually beneficial to life because #Ideservethebest. I no longer tolerate or accommodating feeling so alone in a room full of the wrong people.
    Actually, I can attest to how effective this is. I've stopped hanging out with people who were using me to feed their narcissistic egos, and it's been fantastic. I have amazing friends now, and it's done wonders for my healing from various life bullshit.

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    Movies, singing, drawing, birdwatching, camera accessories, thrifting for treasures, going to workshops for various interests, reading, learning a new skill, gaming, grooming my dog, sewing, knitting, crocheting, needlefelting, stripperwebbing, drinking wine, drinking tea, going for coffee with a good friend, reorganizing my space...that's just off the top of my head.
    Oh yeah, drawing, singing, cross-stitch, playing guitar! Those were some of the things I used to enjoy.

    I could so reward myself with drawing classes - there's one around here that books models with the most amazing range of bodies of different ages.


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    I pamper myself with a bowl, then homework. Or laundry. I'm one wild and crazy guy.

    But I've gotten into cross stitching as well. I've been framing them and giving them to my friends like some sort of crazy person. Also the internet!






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    I would literally pamper myself daily with a nice hot bubble bath IF I was lucky enough to have one of those gorgeous spa like tubs. * siigh..

    Other then that Id say I pamper myself with good food either bought out or made from scratch(I do enjoy cooking fancy things) or a buy myself some beauty type products.
    Clothes shopping is also something I pamper myself with when I make over goals and have the extra cash.

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    I like to reward myself by adding money to my retirement accounts, bank accounts.. investment accounts.. so one day I do not have to listen to not one more asshole douche I have to be nice to...LOL Hopefully if all goes well that day is coming sooner than I think!

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    I've decided that every day that I manage to log onto a free chat site, I get to pamper myself afterwards.

    Problem is, I've been broke, sick and/or depressed for so long (like over 10 years), I've basically forgotten what I actually enjoy in life. So far I've come up with: bubble baths, fancy coffee, new books. Cheap clothes aren't all that exciting to me, and I'm not keen to eat myself happy, but I'm sure there're other options.

    What small treats do you enjoy? How do you tell yourself, "Hey self, thanks for being awesome!"?

    Slothie xx

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    Ed Sheeran pampers me...and if the following doesn't make you cry than you must be a robot:


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    Love this thread!
    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    I've endured years of bullying. School was a place of HELL for me so now that I am a free bird, I can do what I want, whenever I want and however I want, I try to be as kind to myself as possible. I start my morning right with Starbucks coffee and take myself shopping regularly. I sure feel like a home coming Queen now

    Yes to this! And I second the Starbucks! When ever I do long shifts, I treat myself to sitting on my massage chair and watching Netflix, All the while eating my fav foods and snacks. Maybe ordering takeout.
    The greatest way I pamper myself is getting rid of people who are not physically, financially, emotionally or spiritually beneficial to life because #Ideservethebest. I no longer tolerate or accommodate feeling so alone in a room full of the wrong people.

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    I pamper myself plenty of smoothies, steam showers, bubble baths with lush bathbombs, and some delicious boozes. sometimes smoke some green. lol.

    I was sick past couple months so I did not cam for a while. Now, I am going to be back on cam slowly and I will start saving some money to build a covered deck for jacuzzi and sauna. Yeah, I guess I am turning my home into a spa center and you camgirls are welcome to have a spa day here. ha!




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    Baths with Lush products and travel!

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    I'm taking piano lessons as a reward for sticking to my cam schedule I have a really bad get-on-cam motivation problem, so I bought a little planner and marked each day whether I worked or not (and if not, what my excuse was). As long as I work more days than days off, I get to keep taking piano lessons!

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    Once a year, I like to go out and spend like $1,000 on myself. Get myself a new wardrobe, shoes. and what not. It's always around my birthday






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    Food.

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    Taco Bell.


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    Work on my garden aka try not to kill everything I have planted. Right now i have tomatos, basil, cilantro, squash and catnip wih more to come in the next few weeks
    Reading, knitting, tv, doting on my cat, dog park, eating out at new places, beer etc...simple things
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    Default Re: How do you pamper yourself?

    I also reward myself with garden work. I'm currently growing tomatoes, jalapeños, cilantro, yellow squash, zucchini, pay grass, and I'll be planting strawberries tomorrow.

    I reward myself with kitty playtime/cuddle time.

    I buy champagne splits at my local Fresh Market. It pours a single glass. So if I have a productive day, I pour myself that glass and go sit in the sunshine.

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    ^ that's supposed to say "oat grass" but it's not letting me edit for some reason.

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    This is such a good thread..I haven't pampered myself in ages, like 8 or 9 months, I can't remember when the last time I got something nice for myself was...that needs to change. Now that I am in a new place etc, I have vowed that during April, I am taking a fat stack of cash to the mall and buying myself new clothes, new nails, eyelashes and maybe even a new hairdo.

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    Every other week I let myself buy one little thing online that I really love as long as it costs less than $50 total. This keeps me feeling like I've spoiled myself without breaking my bank. Lately it's been kitchen stuff or things for my house.

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    I love this thread. It's fun to see what other camgirls do for fun and happiness!

    I'd say the thing that makes me feel most pampered is getting my nails done, or my hair styled. Haven't gotten my hair cut in like 3 years so I'm due for that!

    I also find that having a dedicated skincare routine, deep breathing and practicing mindfulness, lifting weights, running (despite how hard it is to get started at 6 am), snuggling my dogs, cooking, baking, and getting drunk with lunch and then taking a nap with my man are some things that make me super happy and feel pampered. Oh, and hitachi-gasms from my man.
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    Writing. I have like a million notebooks .going to give them to my little sister eventually.
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