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    I've been seeing this gent for about a year now, and at this point I'm very familiar with his body. The last time we were together, I found a lump on his "pair" that I've never felt before. Like, a grape in a bowl of oatmeal kind of lump.
    In my (insanely under qualified) opinion, it could be a tumour. Is that something I mention to him? Or keep to myself so I don't scare him away?
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    Default Re: Found a lump.. on him

    You need to tell him! It's important. Do you think it could be a cyst?

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    Id say tell him. Maybe he hasn't felt his own body or maybe he has noticed the lump but doesn't think anything of it and it would take you mentioning it to him before he does something about it.

    You never know worst case scenario it's something serious like a tumor and you could be helping to save his life.
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    Please tell him. He needs to go to the doctor ASAP!
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    Tell him immediately, and if you care about him, get him to a urologist ASAP. If it's cancer you and he will be glad you helped him get to it sooner rather than later. Good chance it's not cancer, there's lots of reasons for lumps down there, I have a spermatocele that's easy to feel, I was terrified about it but the doc could easily and painlessly figure out what it was. He'll do a manual examination, then an ultrasound (they want to see if there's a lump, and if so, where it is; my spermatocele feels to me like it's right on the testicle, which is bad, but it's actually above it); if there's still any question, the doc will send him to the hospital for a higher resolution ultrasound (they want to see how solid it is, which will help them figure out bruise vs tumor, etc.)

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    Tell him. As soon as possible. You could be saving his life.

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    As a man I would absolutely want you to tell me and I would appreciate you caring enough to do so.

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    I would tell him. yeah, for sure.

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    Absolutely tell him, he needs to get that checked out. I would want my partner to let me know.

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    Default Re: Found a lump.. on him

    Tell him & be specific (make it clear it's not a wart lump, more like a "scary possible cancer" lump. Some guys don't check b/c guys are notorious for phobia of the doctor...)

    You are so sweet to care, a lot of girls wouldn't give it a second thought....

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    Thanks all. Looks like you all have the same opinion lol! Definitely will be talking to him about it next time he books!
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    Quote Originally Posted by coffeecup View Post
    Thanks all. Looks like you all have the same opinion lol! Definitely will be talking to him about it next time he books!
    LOL, I hope he get back to you soon.

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    Honey, don't wait until he books, unless he books very often. But what if he doesn't contact you for months? He could be dead by then! Is there any way you could call him and just bring it up to him in a gentle way? You could be saving his life with just a short, simple phone call.
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    He does book nearly weekly... If I dont hear from him within the next couple days I think you're right, a phone call is in order!!!
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    Default Re: Found a lump.. on him

    I have one of those lumps it "very" common. However, I had mine checked out when I was in my early teens. Luckily it was nothing to worry about for me. I have to be careful a lot of the time resting not standing for long periods of time (not as bad as it was when I was younger). Sometimes I get aching pains not horrible just inconvenient. From the sounds of it being something you've not felt before it could be something to worry about. I would get to a urologist if I were him asap.

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    any update?

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