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    Default When guys tell you you're a good sales person?

    What does it honestly mean when guys say you're a "good sales person" "you must tell everyone this" "you're very aggressive/persuasive" (not in a dismissive way) or a variation of these comments? I've been getting them recently.

    I'm new and I've settled on an upscale club. Tbh the guys who tell me im a good salesperson or that I must tell everyone this usually are looking for ego stroking and do spend after coaxing and telling them how amazing they are. I love hustle and it works for me. But what I wanted to know is...do you girls get this? Is this a veiled way of telling me I'm being too pushy or not sincere enough?

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    Default Re: When guys tell you you're a good sales person?

    I respond with something like....Well, your pleasure is my business *smile/wink move back into sales pitch.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kirakonstantin View Post
    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.





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    Quote Originally Posted by Flickdreams View Post
    I respond with something like....Well, your pleasure is my business *smile/wink move back into sales pitch.
    Haha I like that I'm going to try that next time. Usually I smile and giggle and say that I noticed him off the bat and needed to have him alone..its not sales just honesty! *twirls his hair*

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    Default Re: When guys tell you you're a good sales person?

    I get this too and I've been wondering the same thing...I don't think its neccessarily bad though, my favourite regular is always telling me that I'm a sales and marketing genius and we talk about my vanilla businesses all the time. I think for some of the guys in the upscale club being proficient in this area actually builds repoire...since many of them have jobs that incorporate these very skills...
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    Default Re: When guys tell you you're a good sales person?

    I think sometimes the guys that say this to me don't believe I could honestly be interested in them. They have low confidence. Its crazy because most of the time I'm actually attracted to and interested in the guys.

    I hope they're being honest lmao. Sometimes when I overhear the hustle of other girls its not impressive and nowhere near as tight as id expect. Not sure what their earnings are though. I hear things that I think are less sincere than the hustle I employ...so maybe the men are being straight up!

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    "What do you expect? Does this look like philanthropy to you? Idiot."
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    Default Re: When guys tell you you're a good sales person?

    I find a lot of them do it to deflect the closing. If there are no other prospects, I might humour them and invest a little more time before trying to close the sale, but if there are other potential customers who will pose less of a headache, I'll come up with a cutesy line and leave if they don't go for it. Once they start going on about the hustle/game/sales and especially about how they "get" it, I just find they aren't generally worth the effort unless nothing else is going on.

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    I think you're right Shanna. I probably spend too much time trying to get them to budge when I could be using my time more wisely. One guy laid this line on me, but did end up buying a dance and doing a half hour vip with me. That took a looot of coaxing though. It turned out to be for the best because as the night went on, the club became filled with piss wasted jerks who tried to not pay me and act dumb.

    I always lol at the guys who say "I know you have to make money I know how this works." Lol do you though?

    At my club I see girls talking to guys till the cows come home even when its been busy. Maybe that's the culture there or they know how to pick them??

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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyJezebel View Post
    At my club I see girls talking to guys till the cows come home even when its been busy. Maybe that's the culture there or they know how to pick them??
    Eh, you'll find dancers like that in every club. Lots of dancers just don't know how to hustle or will wait until a customer asks them for a dance, but never try to close the sale themselves. They can be annoying since sometimes it feels like they're camping with customers you could actually be making money off of, but they serve their purpose when they camp out with time wasters who have no intention of ever spending a dollar.

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    Default Re: When guys tell you you're a good sales person?

    Yeah, it's often where the guy will buy a dance or two and they'll stay with them for so long. I get too impatient. I'll butter you up for a while but I get bored easily. Then there are girls who talk to a guy for a matter of minutes then its off to VIP or they get repeat dances. I've watched them a bit..they are aggressive and aren't afraid to go after what they want

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    Plus whatever else...drugs and whatnot. Its common here

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    "What do you expect? Does this look like philanthropy to you? Idiot."
    Ha! I'm going to try this cause some get turned on from the bitchiness, like what has been discussed here

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    I usually respond: "What can I say?! A girl's gotta pay for college somehow. Want to contribute to my scholarship? Lets go to VIP together!"

    and in response to them "getting" sales/hustling/etc: "Oh thank god! That means we can cut the bullshit and get right to the chase. Lets go play in the back together now."

    If the guy needs some ego stroking you can always add this: "Its true I've got to make some money tonight, but I'd MUCH rather get to spend time in the back with a handsome/hilarious/fun guy like you over the rest of these sad looking men *points at the crowd*"

    If they transition the conversation toward dances in the slightest way, i usually close right then. That way I can move on if they're a time waster and if they're not i'll get their money sooner. those who are interested in dances will bring it up for a reason.

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    Quote Originally Posted by buttonpop View Post
    those who are interested in dances will bring it up for a reason.
    This!! My two best SC customers I've had so far didn't take really any coaxing. Just flirting and easy conversation. Then they brought up dances and eventually VIP. The ones who are really willing to spend make it clear quickly in one way or another I've found.

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    Default Re: When guys tell you you're a good sales person?

    Yeah I've had a couple guys say this and I actually think its a compliment because they end up buying dances.

    Guys who say this and don't buy dances are clueless. We are working and technically everybody is selling all the time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by buttonpop View Post
    I usually respond: "What can I say?! A girl's gotta pay for college somehow. Want to contribute to my scholarship? Lets go to VIP together!"

    and in response to them "getting" sales/hustling/etc: "Oh thank god! That means we can cut the bullshit and get right to the chase. Lets go play in the back together now."

    If the guy needs some ego stroking you can always add this: "Its true I've got to make some money tonight, but I'd MUCH rather get to spend time in the back with a handsome/hilarious/fun guy like you over the rest of these sad looking men *points at the crowd*"

    If they transition the conversation toward dances in the slightest way, i usually close right then. That way I can move on if they're a time waster and if they're not i'll get their money sooner. those who are interested in dances will bring it up for a reason.
    I also use a variation on this on its own or if they are really pushing the "you're a good saleswoman" line- after that, like Shanna, I walk. I might drop by later and try a wanna dance close, esp if they have seen me going for dances with others.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kirakonstantin View Post
    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    i've been doing this job for nearly 10years now and I swear that the more things change the more they stay the same. Guys have been using these lines from day dot- its never necessarily a 'no' its negotiation engaged.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kirakonstantin View Post
    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    Default Re: When guys tell you you're a good sales person?

    Deflect that topic by saying something like "Well I bought a Corvette/Charger/sports coupe & I cover the payments with what I make here. You could say I'm motivated for things that I like to ride & give me a thrill." It makes you look sexy, exciting and motivated, versus greedy and only looking at his wallet.

    (I usually just said "thanks" & switched the topic. It's not a sexy topic to him.....unless he's a male sub or a con artist)

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    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    Deflect that topic by saying something like "Well I bought a Corvette/Charger/sports coupe & I cover the payments with what I make here. You could say I'm motivated for things that I like to ride & give me a thrill." It makes you look sexy, exciting and motivated, versus greedy and only looking at his wallet.
    I like this one!! Creative...I'm going to try all these things. I gotta get better at sexy conversation. I'm excited to get back to the club ��

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    They usually tell me this after they've spent $$$, so I just say thank you and try another close or move on. I take it as a genuine compliment.

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    It happened again tonight! I know I was working this guy well and he bought a few dances. But he gave me the whole, you're goooood at this,~ I'm in sales~ and so I know you're good at what you do. I got annoyed at him cause he gave me the run around about VIP etc but he did spend some money, I watched him turn down basically everyone else,,and we were super slow.

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    Guys in nyc say this all the time and they never go to VIP.i have to fight the urge to roll my eyes..

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