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    I'm curious. I've never had the guts to actually ask a dancer in a club... but how would some of you feel about teasing a customer who asked you to treat him poorly during a dance? I've always sort of fancied the idea of asking a girl for a dance but explaining that instead of removing any clothes, she just tugged at them to tease me and whisper something like I didn't deserve to see her, even though I'm paying. Maybe she could tease that if I bought another dance, but let her choose the guy she danced for, that I could watch her take her clothes off for him... and threaten to tell the other guy that she made me pay her to dance for him.

    What kind of reaction might I get if I asked? I think it could be a fun game, but I don't want to seem like a total creep... maybe just be embarrassed and made fun of. I wouldn't want my friends to know... just have a fun, embarrassing secret.

    Has anyone every tried something similar? I can't imagine I'd be the first guy in a club to ask for something like this.

    Please share your thoughts, experience!

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    I would ask until you meet the dancer who says yes and then pay for it, special requests deserve a VIP experience. I don't think you'll have trouble finding someone to do this one for you and i would suggest an upscale club and an older dancer who is accustomed to looking at life a little more openly- ie. doesn't think in terms of 'creepy' and 'wrong' because they have been around the block and know themselves a little more.
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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    "Are you going to hurt me?"
    "That costs extra."
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    id definitely do it, easy. I love that kind of thing!

    I had a customer who wanted me to tell him about how i would spank him onstage and humiliate him in front of the other girls... and then he picked out which ones he would like to have watching the humiliation happen... just the ones he thought were attractive. I said, "Yes, her, and yes, her too," and it turned him on just to imagine that they would watch the spanking. He paid me just to say the narrative to him out loud. Well, actually, i did also spank him afterwards, too. But not onstage.

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    Hi There, Mike. Nice screen name..
    I saw once (pretty sure it was a bachelor party) the guy on all fours onstage, & a tiny petite dancer riding him. I, & most of the audience,thought it was hilarious.
    There was another guy, that used to throw his wallet on the floor..he'd ask a dancer to pick it up, take the $ out, & throw it away. He did this all the time.
    Not exactly what you're asking about, but kinda similar.


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    Anything fetish or special request related, definitely VIP. Humiliation and denial is a pretty common fetish. My favorite shows are always the ones where I'm paid to keep my clothes on! I'm pretty sure you'll find a dancer no problem to agree to you special request.


    Sex workers have experienced or witnessed a lot of fetishes. I bet you they won't even bat an eyelash.
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    Quote Originally Posted by humiliatemichael View Post
    Has anyone every tried something similar? I can't imagine I'd be the first guy in a club to ask for something like this.
    I'm a fetish customer, not exactly the same kink as you. I've had amazing times in strip clubs, in fact I tell anyone who will listen that it can be 10x as fun as being with a pro domme or someone who offers this as a profession.

    I think the key to not coming off like a creep, is not to be creepy The fact that you can write out a post on stripperweb and get welcoming, useful responses means you have the skill to ask about your kink without being jerk (you'd be surprised how many guys can't even do that). Your post also comes across as a little self-effacing, and that, too, plays really well in person. On top of that, you're asking for something that to me seems pretty tame compared to the stories many strippers tell me (hell, you're even tame compared to me, and I'm tame compared to some of those guys)

    What I typically do is spend some time with a stripper, drinking and laughing, doing a fun non-boundary-pushing VIP, basically establishing an easy&fun stripper/customer relationship, and then I'll lightly bring it up in our 2nd VIP, and I can often start the conversation fairly organically. I don't zero in on my particular kink, or anything remotely edgey ... if she'll pinch my nipples or choke me a tiny bit or whatever, well, then we'll have a fun conversation ahead. If she won't even do that, no reason to continue. Agree with Flickdreams that, in general, older dancers are more likely to say yes, but I've found lots and lots of takers even among younger dancers. I really think the key is not being creepy, and letting her pursue things at her own pace rather than pushing her to do more edgy things really fast.

    I've had a number of great stripper/customer relationships, where she'd even start with the humiliation by text a day or two before I get to the club, dominate me in subtle ways even when we're out on the floor, etc. Not to be expected, but a wonderful surprise when something like this occurs.

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    ^ I want you to come to Melbourne and see me Radius.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kirakonstantin View Post
    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    Look for dancers who are dressed in corsets or similar domination get ups. Also, ladies who are artfully tattooed are likely to be open to domination scenarios. Don't be shy about asking. We know which girls are into fetish stuff and who isn't. Plan on paying extra for role playing and tip generously.

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    I would love to have more guys like you. Teasing is artful and requires some ability to 'read' the customer.

    It's the opposite of the Neanderthals we sometimes get in my area's clubs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Flickdreams View Post
    ^ I want you to come to Melbourne and see me Radius.
    Pefect, I've been looking for an excuse to vacation in Australia

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    Sounds like fun! Fetish-friendly dancers really aren't that hard to find.

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    I have a few somewhat extreme fetishes at the other end of the spectrum from the kind of kink you're talking about. I don't actively try to find dancers to act this out with for a variety of reasons, but I do enjoy talking about it. I've found a good way to broach the subject is to ask what they think of the movie and/or book "50 Shades of Grey". Regardless of what their opinion is on the movie, or what they're into, it serves to work kink into the conversation. From there, you can elaborate on your own interests. Most dancers have absolutely no problem talking about things like that, which is why most of the girls at the club I go to know what I'm into.

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