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    Default when to tell ppl your interested in your a dancer?

    I tend to just fib about where I work when I first meet a guy. When is an appropriate time to tell a guy and how do I go about telling them the truth?

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    Default Re: when to tell ppl your interested in your a dancer?

    At this point - Im going with never. I can't risk my family finding out. Im single though so its easy to say that

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    Default Re: when to tell ppl your interested in your a dancer?

    I tell people right away what I do for a living and I look at their reactions. I tend to walk away from men who galmorize it and act like hed be lucky to be with a stripper. I continue to date men who just see it as a job. I tend to be a loner but a bubbly personality so I'm not scared to go for what I want instead of compromising like a lot of girls do.

    I think it's better to be honest from the beginning so not to waste each others time. Heck I even told my parents what I do for a living
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    Default Re: when to tell ppl your interested in your a dancer?

    I'm a camgirl but as soon as I feel im interested in someone I've been talking with I tell them. I feel like they should know from the gate and don't want to waste my time on someone who has a problem with it.


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    Default Re: when to tell ppl your interested in your a dancer?

    it depends. if you are still "in the closet" and dont want friends and family to know, i would wait it out..you dont need him blabbing. but if you are "out" then i'd wait a few dates til he sees you are a real person, and then bring it up. before things get too serious, but late enough so that its not the first thing he learns about you. just my take.

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    Default Re: when to tell ppl your interested in your a dancer?

    I've told guys that "I used to dance" and usually watch their reaction from there. I keep my line of work private bc it's really none of anyone's business. If we end up seeing more of one another & it's going somewhere, then i'll say something like "I'm going to start dancing again, with a couple of shifts a week for extra cash" and if he bails then he wasn't worth my time anyway. If he stays ,then cool I still have a watchful eye over past & newer boyfriends that know I'm in this biz bc some have tried using me for money which ended up being a complete wast of their time.
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    Default Re: when to tell ppl your interested in your a dancer?

    Only if I decide that the guy is a keeper and I can't imagine my life without him. But by that time, I probably can predict how he would react to me stripping.


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