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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    Quote Originally Posted by ScarletKitten View Post
    1. Your comparison to WOC and dogs is offensive and irrelevant. I just don't think it has anything to do with the topic at hand.

    2. Your statement that men avoid WOC because they are afraid the wig will fall off in their hand while touching their hair is laughable. Men shouldn't be running their fingers through a stripper's hair anyway. And I am getting tried of someone mentioning wigs/weaves EVERY SINGLE TIME the topic of WOC and race is brought up. White women wear wigs and extensions just as often as WOC. Even white celebrities wear hair extensions. Like, almost every single one of them. Again, how is this relevant?

    3. There are alot of "trashy" white dancers I've seen too. I've seen alot more trashy white girls in the clubs than I've seen trashy black girls. The reason for this is because the standards for black dancers are higher in general than for white dancers. So, when a black dancer gets hired at the clubs I've worked at, she is very well put together, walks gracefully, speaks articulately, and looks like a 10, because otherwise she might not be there. The white girls come in droves and tend to act more on the "trashy" side b/c they feel they can afford to. So there goes your theory on black "ghetto" girls. I'm fed up of this stereotype too.

    4. We don't need your advice in order to "better connect" with customers. Your assumption that WOC need to prove themselves by showing "there is nothing to be scared of" is pretty offensive, too. How is that, on any planet in any universe, good advice?

    Ever heard of mansplaining? Well, I think whitesplaining is a thing too. smdh.
    Well this is the same poster who posted a thread about "domestic violence hustle".
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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    @Scarlettkitten, I knew there would eventually be someone who would misinterpret what I said. The original posters question was "Are white dancers more desired than black ones." To which I basically said that I don't believe they are discriminated against conciously because of their skin tone alone, but other factors that may play a role. If you don't like my dog analogy then I'll use a different one....ok, so we all know black is a slimming color. Why is it a slimming color? Because it HIDES DETAILS and DOESN'T MAKE THINGS STAND OUT. If a dancer with a dark skin tone wears a dark or black colored outfit it makes it harder to see her in a dimly lit club. Again these are not all things that I particularly believe myself so don't shoot the messenger. What i said is based off of what I've learned from studying customers. And you're correct, there are ghetto white girls too and most classy men reject them as well as the ghetto black girls they are trying to emulate. Men are stupid. I'm trying to give some insight into how alot of THEM think. I knew these three black girls at my old club, they were all top earners and good friends. One was very light, one was more medium tone, and one was very dark. Two of them had their hair natural and the other one had a weave but it was a natural color for her and was done well. They all wore classy bright colored lingerie, they all smiled alot and came across as very friendly. Like I said these girls always made alot of money from all types of people. The debate isn't if guys should touch your hair or not.
    It's a fact that different races are generlized in different ways. Is it fair? no. I'm simply giving some insight into how customers generalize girls and how to not be put in to that box if you don't want to be. Forget anything about race for a second. Everything I said could still be good advice to any dancer. "wear somthing that makes you stand out." "Smile and be approachable" "keep your hair looking clean and taken care of" "build trust with the customer" "complement the customer" " dance to music that is more neutral and won't turn off old guys who generally have the money"
    " Be classy and speak properly."

    The original poster wanted to talk about black vs white dancers and even admitted that she thinks that whites are more desired.

    That's why I directed my response towards what black girls could do differently that may help, and to shine some light on the subject of how customers commonly perceive things.

    I was trying to let her know that it probably wasn't so much about skin color alone but possibly other factors SOMETIMES ASSOCIATED with black dancers that she might consider revamping in order to appeal to a larger audience.

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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Well this is the same poster who posted a thread about "domestic violence hustle".
    About the Domestic Violence thread, I wasn't asking if I should do it. I was just stating that I heard about a girl who did that. I was just curious if that was a common thing that any of you all had seen too.
    Damn some of you guys misconstrue everything and are way too sensitive.

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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    If I was adopting a dog or cat, I'd be going for the black one. I used to have a black kitten named Sabbath.
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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    ^ same here, i specifically asked for a black kitty and i love that name

    anyways, to the op absolutely not! men like all different kinds of women, and i think a lot of them dont even care about how much melanin we have and just want a pretty entertaining girl on their lap. however, we do live in an anglo dominated world and culture where clubs will discriminate because they believe they know what customers want ( the skinnier and whiter the better in their eyes), but i dont think that reflects what actual men like. least not in my experience. do women like the exact same kind of guy?? hell no, and neither do men

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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    It's clear that none of you are actually reading what I wrote. I have said several times that I DO NOT BELIEVE IT'S A MATER OF PIGMENT!!!! IT'S HOW YOU PRESENT YOURSELF!!!

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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    Sorry simon87, I miss read that. I thought that was directed at me in response to my earlier post.

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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    Everybody has a type. I'm not interested in white guys myself for example.

    I'm sure in places where there are many Caucasians, it can be harder for back girls. However we all know about the famous "black clubs" in miami, Atlanta etc and I can definitely tell you that black girls have an advantage there!

    Also it is true that some wealthy guys are exclusively attracted to black guys.

    I don't think any stripper can know a customers type just by profiling them because. I have been surprised many times.

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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    The answer is no. Men are pigs. I gave a dance to an aryan nation guy about 2 weeks ago. He told me this halfway thru the dance and his dick was hard. Also he was in a group of about 6 whites and they bought the dance for him. Why did his dick get hard? He should have been apalled to have a black women on him!

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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    Quote Originally Posted by Jay12 View Post
    I really can't stand when people use the term "light-skin Hispanic" as if Hispanic was a racial classification (the SOCIAL classification of races are: Caucasoid, Congoid, and Mongol, but scientifically everyone is a Homo Sapiens). Those women are white people as well (usually of southern European, Jewish, Slav, ME, or combination), or have very little Amerindian markers in their genes.

    My ex (a fellow 'Rican) was one of those Neo-Nazi types (he looks like Ricky Velez, from "The Nightly Show with Larry Whitmore"). He kept it very quiet for years. I found out about those tendencies after the divorce. My current dude likes to make fun of Jewish people 'cause they tend to be cheap...and I had a great grandma who was a Jew (and she was a cheap mo-fo), so I kinda improved in that department.

    A "Hispanic/Lati-American" (I personally hate both terms) can be of ANY race.



    eAnother term I can't stand. I've seen tons of WASP people (mostly men) calling themselves "I'm just a white man, you can't expect me to properly pronounce this word correctly" (I am a Spanish tutor). I point them to my chest (yes, my chest), and I ask them: " what color are they? brown? Tan?" Most say "of course not silly, they're lighter than MY ass cheeks". Then I proceed to explain them that the amount of melanin is no justification to do bad in Spanish. According to that, they should be the people of color and not m.
    GIRL, your last paragraph really fucked up my mind. Like what..?

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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    I find often that it is Black and Asian men (the ones that actually spend) that do not want to spend money on black dancers.
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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    She's way off subject lol

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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    Quote Originally Posted by kaninchen View Post


    I've heard customers say some incredibly stupid things but this is ... special.
    I wear hair extensions, not even wigs and I got asked once if it's because I am naturally bald that I wear extensions (not if it's because my real hair is short). My extensions look natural but the custie put his hand in my hair without asking and felt all the clips lol

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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    If a guy wants to put his hands through my hair I tell him straight "ok if you wanna be with a black woman you have to know the number one rule; you're not allowed to touch our hair" LOL

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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    Its definitely quite common for black and mixed women to be judged for wearing a wig/weave/piece. I'm mixed and usually have my hair natural but if I haven't got time to style my hair and wear a piece instead I often get comments, it's always this idea I'm wearing it because I havent got much hair or nice enough hair; rather than the fact I just wanted a change of style or whatever as would be assumed with white women.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Christina2013 View Post
    The answer is no. Men are pigs. I gave a dance to an aryan nation guy about 2 weeks ago. He told me this halfway thru the dance and his dick was hard. Also he was in a group of about 6 whites and they bought the dance for him. Why did his dick get hard? He should have been apalled to have a black women on him!
    I did a private show for a guy with a huge Nazi Swastika tat....I later found out a lot of non-racist whites who serve hard time in prison get Aryan tats to fit in with the white gangs in prison (b/c face it, it's bad in some of those places & survival means more than a tat than can be lasered off.)

    Back on topic, it's common knowledge that straight up Klansmen have used women of color for sex....in their eyes it's usury, not respect.

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    Quote Originally Posted by newb2 View Post
    As a black dancer I don't really know how to feel about that post tbh
    Oh I KNOW how to feel about that post. It's what happens when someone can't see the difference between cause and effect.
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    My one buddy who is a dark skinned black Barbie likes to play "Black Dog" by Led Zeppelin, incidentally.
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    I think the real question here is: who earns more? That is pretty much the only way to know if one has a business advantage over the other.

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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    Without delving too much into the reasoning of WHY a particular race may or may not be preferred, the short answer is: Maybe. It depends on the club and its location.

    For instance, my first club (in ETX) had a definite bias for white girls but the WoC that worked there knew how to hustle the customers that were receptive to WoC. The second serious club I worked at (in Houston) was fairly evenly represented black/white and a handful of Latina; the playing field was far more even since it was an urban watering hole type of club the majority of my time there. It's been my experience as a customer at more upscale clubs that WoC can be/are just as desirable as white women, but it comes with the expectation of an "ethnic Barbie" type appeal rather than embracing their own ethnicity's inherent beauty.

    I don't like it, but it's what I've observed.
    Exotic dancing is like any other job.
    If you work in an office, you wear dress shoes and a suit.
    If you work in a restaraunt, you wear skid resistant shoes and a uniform.
    If you work in a strip club, you wear 7" stilettos and lycra g-strings.

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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    I agree with NakedNicole on saying yes they are more desired, money wise I'm not sure.I'm not currently a dancer. But I know for a fact majority of black dancers either have to stick with either urban/mixed clubs it's not often you'll see them at those luxurious high-end stripclubs because of the managers.

    But from being in the adult industry in general yes they are naturally more inclined to be attracted to white women.Let's be honest even black actresses aren't even acknowledged at the AVN awards.It's the adult industry/and nation in general.White women are considered the ideal/standard of beauty , so it's considered normal.

    Black women are considered Taboo for some reason, and have to work 2x's harder than the average white/latin chick.A lot of men are curious but it's not the "ideal" or "Norm" for them I guess,wouldn't even give you a second glance out on the streets. I think people try and downplay this alot it does play a role along with other factors.
    Quote Originally Posted by Ivy Love View Post
    ...than black ones? Meaning, do white women have greater chance at making more money than blacks ones because they are more desired by their clients based off the fact they are WHITE, and WHITE ALONE?

    I asked this because this article suggest so.

    And because, deep down I know it's true with the way society is built around white women, and their beauty.Especially blondes. For some odd reason,people are so damn smitten by blondes.She could look like a hot damn mess,be rude as hell,and shaped funny,but as long as she is blonde she's deemed as this perfect specimen.


    P.S. Know, that I am NOT trying to be rude. Y'all ladies have been really sweet towards me.
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    Default Re: Strippers of all races, tell the truth. Are white dancers more desired than black

    I skipped all the comments in here, and in response to the original topic, here is my input:

    It depends on the customers. My area of town is predominantly white, like throwback redneck types. The black girls at the dive out here do seem to have more issue making money. At my club in an area of town with all kinds of customers, the black ladies do just fine. The old white farts LOVE them, and most of them get along with the young guys very well, so that's where they tailor their attention to. Most of them seem to know who to avoid and who to approach.

    I have seen management at many clubs put a quota on black girls though, or else only hire those who are dressed up in full lingerie and look like a class act (they don't hire the girls who appear to have come from the ghetto, and will send them to one of the "hood" clubs).
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    The only reason a girl does not make as much money as someone else is because she did not hustle hard enough or get lucky enough to get the whale. I have seen many, many times black girls and asian girls make more than white girls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    If I was adopting a dog or cat, I'd be going for the black one. I used to have a black kitten named Sabbath.
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    This is "my" black kitten named Cat Sidhe sitting in my lap and sniffing a new pair of work heels. He lives with my parents. My dad says he is a 3,000 year old Sumerian demon trapped in a cute little kitty body. Black cats forever.

    Back on topic... Obviously, I don't think that anyone here believes white dancers are objectively more desirable than black dancers. But I've heard enough racist comments from customers to know that, at least in my club, there are plenty of morons who do think that way.

    I also don't think it's even remotely helpful to tell black women that they could be more successful if they only tried a little harder to stop being so frightening.

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    Short answer is "no", longer answer is "N......................o"

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