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    Dizzy Going out to lunch with a dancer?

    Hi guys. I'm confused. I got my first private dance the other night. I saw this girl on stage, she was really pretty I tipped her maybe 10$. she walked up to me asked my name and shook my hand. after she got off stage I went and bought my boyfriend a dance and i saw her talking to a group of guys, waited for a few minutes to see if they'd bu a dance and i called her over, asked if she wanted to dance. went to private, she encouraged me to touch her, i asked if it was allowed she said if the managers came to look that we had to stop. apparently i was the first girl she'd danced for. and that i was really beautiful and she was shocked i asked her. then after we sat and had a drink and she wanted to add me on facebook and asked if wanted to hangout with her and that she hasnt had a girlfriend for 5 months, she also tried to convince me to try out dancing at her club. after our chat i went and sat back with my bf. after 10 minutes she came back over and sat on my lap and was cuddling up to me. anyway the next day she added me and started chatting to me. and now we're going to lunch in a few days, her shout.
    What's going on, is this a date? Is she just being friendly so I'll go back and buy more dances? im lost... Help.

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    Default Re: Going out to lunch with a dancer?

    Sounds like that dancer is lost, too.

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    Default Re: Going out to lunch with a dancer?

    It's VERY unusual for dancers to act like this. It's usually the ones with drug or alcohol problems who do. Otherwise, she may be trying to use you for something. Please be very cautious. We don't do what we do to make friends and lunch dates. The only time I go out to lunch with customers is if it's someone I've known at the club for a while who spends a lot of money on me. If she just met you at the club once, then her behavior is really strange and inappropriate IMO. Use your best judgement.

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    Sorry, that sounded really negative ^^ lol. She may be harmless, and just want to have some girl on girl or threesome fun. If that's your thing, then go for it but feel her out first.

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    Default Re: Going out to lunch with a dancer?

    Okay thankyou so much guys, I really appreciate it, I'll feel it out and use my best common sense

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    Default Re: Going out to lunch with a dancer?

    she said she was new too f that makes any sense. 2 months?

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    If she's new, she's most likely trying to make regulars. She may truly be into you and want to have a hot young couple or girl as a regular. Just don't let her use you.

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    Default Re: Going out to lunch with a dancer?

    Be sure to set the right expectations with her. If she goes out to lunch is she expecting anything for her time or is it just as friends? If she ends up seeing you guys outside the club what happens when you see her again at the club? You don't want any misunderstandings.

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    She sounds like she's really new and in a dry spell. She handled this in the most unprofessional and least profitable way possible.
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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