So my boyfriend and I are rife with problems. Let me let you in on one:
He has this female friend from work who he does things with, and documents them with pictures on his Facebook. Totally fine in a relationship. People are allowed to have friends. This girl is aware that we are together however and never asks if he wants to bring me anything. Thanksgiving dinner at her house, not invited. Easter dinner at her house, not invited. Dinner out of town, not invited. Whiskey bar crawl out of town, not invited. The holiday dinners are the only two of those things that he has actually gone to. They've done other stuff together with usually other people around. The only thing I know of them doing just the two of them was playing magic the gathering at a store with a bunch of other dudes then dinner after (just to give some background).
So when he told me the other day that he was invited to her house for Easter dinner (I had to work during this so even if I was invited I couldn't have gone) I asked why she never invites me to anything. The answer was basically I don't know. Fine.
So today he tells me that she invited him to dinner out of town Saturday and he didn't want to go. Fine. I asked if I was invited. He said he didn't ask. So I said the answer was no then. He said (this is all through text btw) "You know it's perfectly alright for me to have friends you know. You have friends..." So I says "Don't take me wrong. I don't have a problem with you having friends it just bugs me that she never invites me to anything. It's not your fault". He says "That solves that." I was like "Well I hope."
I felt the need to elaborate so I told him that I never really got the vibe that she liked me much anyway (she doesn't fucking invite me anywhere) and that if he wanted me to do things with them I'm sure he'd invite me (I'm sure he would). I'm sure he took this in a negative way. Do I expect him to invite me? No. Will I be disappointed if he never does? Yes. Will I be pissed at him? I would hope not. Did I get a chance to say all this to him yet to clarify? No. He is now "fucking disgusted with the conversation" and says I should leave him alone for the time being.
Am I crazy or is he just a dick? And what's up with this bitch? Everyone's different but holiday meals? Don't you normally ask if someone wants to bring their significant other?
She is single.
Blast me with your opinions please and thank you.



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is a big disconnect and red flag.


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