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    Default First time escorting nerves ?

    I'm considering starting escorting, but am really struggling to get over my nerves and just bite the bullet.

    I'm pretty sure that once I get into it, I'll be away and quite confident, but in the meantime I kind of just wish there could be someone with some experience there to hold my hand and tell me what to do, haha.

    I'd feel more comfortable doing incalls for my first bookings, but I'm guessing outcalls make more sense to start off with in case I don't get any bookings? Don't want to waste money on a hotel and then not get bookings...

    I webcam on AW and get asked a lot if I do meets- next time I get asked, shall I just go for it? Obviously, with all the pre-requisite safety checks.

    Anyone have any other tips for easing my nerves and just getting my first booking over with?

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    Default Re: First time escorting nerves ?

    Ohh girl I'm feeling you right now! I live in NYC and work on SM and indy, and I get asked too often for me not to want to just say, 'sure what the hell!?' But figuring out rates and how to not get killed is pretty tricky...

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    Default Re: First time escorting nerves ?

    Quote Originally Posted by bonnirey View Post
    Ohh girl I'm feeling you right now! I live in NYC and work on SM and indy, and I get asked too often for me not to want to just say, 'sure what the hell!?' But figuring out rates and how to not get killed is pretty tricky...
    Heya This site has been really helpful for me. Lots of info: http://saafe.info/


    Not sure how useful it'll be for you, since it's written for UK girls and prostitution is legal here, but definitely worth a look!

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    Default Re: First time escorting nerves ?

    In regards to nerves, I came here to say what you pretty much said already - if you want to do it, you just have to bite the bullet! I was SO nervous my first appointment that I literally didn't sleep the night before. I was shaking when my first client came into the room. You just have to remember why you're doing it and try to focus - mind over matter!

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    Default Re: First time escorting nerves ?

    I got nervous when ever I met someone for the first time.

    Keep your session simple until you get the hang of how things play out, don't worry so much about setting mood. Plan for situations that may happen during a session (think about how a night would go in your personal life, it rarely goes that way, this mostly comes from experience). Stay in control (don't get so caught up in the moment that you forget what your doing, it happens to everyone). Set the pace, you don't do anything you don't want to do. I've found that developing an escort persona helps when dealing with customers. Your escort persona is sexy, strong, confident, street smart and a seductress who can handle any situation that comes up. But be careful because after a while the line between you escort persona and you can and will become blurred and you will forget which is the real you.

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    Default Re: First time escorting nerves ?

    Lol it is both terrifying/exciting the first time escorting but after the first few months it starts to not be scary after all! It took me a year to muster up the courage to do it! I say go for it! I myself used to do the hotel thing for almost 1 year and a half and it really stressed me out and pissed clients off with last minute cancellations when hotels don't let you do early check-in and most guys like early appointments. So you either end up paying for two nights at a hotel and sleeping over at the hotel just to guarantee the room is available early in the morning instead of the 3pm check in time. Talk about pricey over time! Plus the price is outrageous each night. You are better off with an apartment studio. You can also post around on the board sites for ladies willing to share an incall location with you to save money.

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    Default Re: First time escorting nerves ?

    I always mention this to girls who are new to escorting, try out NationalBlacklist.com. They have a list of safety tips that cover everything you need to know. They are free and available to the public. Its also a good tool for screening, you can search a guy's number to see if he has ever been listed on there. It helps you avoid bad people. Its $19 a month though, but may be worth it. In general, just make sure you take all precautions to be safe. As long as you are safe, smart, and screen these guys well, you should be fine. You dont have to go overboard during your appointment, just do what you agree to do and be done with it. Dont invest too much emotion into this.

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    Default Re: First time escorting nerves ?

    the first time i had sex for money i did everything wrong its a wonder i didn't get arrested. I did however make the easiest 300 bucks in my life. Then everything in my life changed because i decided it was something i could easily do and be successful at and it was for many years. Be very sure its something you want to do and be prepared for all the consequences of your actions. Once a whore, alway a whore. it will be on your epitaph no matter what else you do for the rest of your life

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    Default Re: First time escorting nerves ?

    Tell yourself that you're only going to try it once and that you don't have to do it ever again if you don't want to. I know it's much easier for me to go through with goals when I tell myself "I'm just going to audition and work one night to try out this club" rather than "Okay, I'm going to work once a week for the next three years and try to make X amount of money per night..." The latter can feel very intimidating. So if you can tell yourself that you're just going to dabble in the industry and see how it goes, that's an easier mountain to climb.

    Also, perhaps try pretending (in your head) that you're going on a blind date rather than an escorting appointment.

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