When you approach a guy in the club for the first time, what is the best way to greet him/start the conversation (e.g. Shake his hand, sit on his lap, ask where he's from) without seeming overbearing or too uptight?
When you approach a guy in the club for the first time, what is the best way to greet him/start the conversation (e.g. Shake his hand, sit on his lap, ask where he's from) without seeming overbearing or too uptight?





"Hi sweetie, how are you? Having a good time? Want some company?" Pull up a chair/sit on their lap (whatever is standard at your club).
I only ever shake hands if they offer me theirs and then I kinda make fun of them a little bit for being so formal.
"People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."
"You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave."
I'll usually go up and, depending on the table set-up, either bend down so we're almost level face-wise but he's got a great view of my cleavage, or crouch down next to his seat with my hand on his thigh, and open with "Well hello there, what brings you out today!" Their answer tends to help me figure out my angle -- if they're just there to relax after a long day at work, I'll give them a more sensual hustle and focus a lot on rubbing their back/shoulders. If they're there to celebrate something, I'll play up the fun, party girl angle. If they're visiting from out of town, I'll do a mix of the two until I can figure out what they're looking for. You'll find lots of great advice in Hustle Hut about this sort of thing.
In any case -- if the reply is something that opens the conversation, I'll ask if they're having fun and if they want some company, then sit down and start the chit chat. If it's a reply that indicates they're not interested, I'll excuse myself by wishing them a great evening and to let me know if they'd like to have some fun later. Always very light and friendly!





Thanks for the tips!
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
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salutations fine sir, I hope you are enjoying the spectacle that is a gentlemen's club! or 'hey i'm x and i'll be your designated lap dancer for this evening'
But usually greetings and something extra about them i can question/compliment them on. I shake hands with everyone everywhere in and out of the club, maybe it's an Australia thing? When I travelled customers and tried to shake custies hands they were like 0.o *puts out hand* haha. I don't sit on people's laps ever that's not my thang, but it does work depends what clubs allow.
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Side note but I hate hate hate shaking hands. I'm a bit OCD and there are germs. Plus cash being handled/potential masturbation in restroom/whatever. Ew.
I say the same thing 75% of the time and it seems to serve me just fine.
Hey there! What are you out celebrating tonight? Do you live in town or are you visiting?
1. If they're visiting, I'll ask if its for business or pleasure. If its business, i'll ask about their work, and then about their hobbies. Pleasure, i'll chat about traveling.
2. If they live here, i'll tell them about how i just moved here from ___ and chat about what I like about this city.
Then I introduce myself and shake their hand. "By the way my name is ___ *shake hand* nice to meet you Bob"
(Repeat their name... it helps you remember and everyone loves the sound of their own name).
Then depending on the answers to their questions (if they're a tourist, if they're in a lucrative business, how they're dressed, how interested they seem in me) I'll either chat more or close the sale right then. Remember to mirror their body language, tone, even how fast they're talking, general attitude, etc. Make eye contact. Make light physical contact such as touching their arm. Bonus points if you incorporate a word, joke, or idea that you two previously talked about into your close. For example, if they are visiting town for pleasure and its their first time, I say "Well how about I pop your ____ (name of town) cherry! Lets go spend some quality time together in the lap dance room/vip/champagne room."
I go up to them (remember to smile) and either sit on a chair next to them or stand next them.
NEVER sit on their lap (you're already giving away your goodies for free).
I introduce myself and let him do most of the talking, but still be in control of the conversation.
Try to avoid asking questions like "where are you from?" & "what do you do for work?" because he WILL ask you those same questions.
At the same time be flirty, seducing, and nice.
Depends on your club. Last club I would pull up a chair because it was a slow hustle club. I would have to talk to guys for 10-30 mins in order to have them buy dances. At my current club I just plop right down on their laps, chit chat for 1/2 song to 1 song, and have them spend money or move along!
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I virtually always open with 'hi, how are you tonight?" Their answer makes it quick and easy to judge which kind of hustle to run-
If they say something like, "i'm great!" Then it's all 'omg we are going to have soooo much fun!"
If the answer is something like, "Pretty good," then it's a chill chat for a song or two, and work in a dance line somewhere.
If it's something like, "not great" etc, then we're close and snuggly and "awww well you're in the right place, I can make that all better for you" or something--> This one takes about 35 seconds because he's either going to get a dance or wallow in misery all night and I'm only listening to your life story/mom issues/penis problems in the VIP.
Also I never ask to sit down, "may I join you" etc. I just sit my ass down. You clearly came here to get dances off of me, or you're making poor life choices.
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