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    Hello!
    So I just got a job as a camgirl at the Armory (where kink.com films, I'll be doing porn too! EEK) and I'm SO SHY. This is exactly the job I want, I've wanted to do it for years..but i can't get over the shyness. I don't know how to dirty talk. Could I be a mute? Would that work? I'm extremely submissive and will be playing that part, so I'm hoping that'll work in my favor.

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    Default Re: I'm extremely shy with speaking, terrified to screw up

    I think you are so shy because you think you have to be something you're not. Just be yourself! It's okay to screw up, you're gonna screw up but that's part of the learning process. That's how you grow.

    As far as getting over being shy, think of yourself as an athletic, sometimes you have to play in pain. Go easy on yourself. I'm sure you'll look back and think 'What was I so shy about?'?! I was GREAT!'

    Challenge yourself to do something you are shy about today. Big or small!
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    Default Re: I'm extremely shy with speaking, terrified to screw up

    Isn't a lot of it acting though?

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    Default Re: I'm extremely shy with speaking, terrified to screw up

    i was shy in the beginning too.. everyone is.. and nobody starts out a dirty talk pro but we all turn into perverted monsters :p in a good way though.. u'll be fine how ur feeling is normal... and over time u will become more comfortable with it

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    Default Re: I'm extremely shy with speaking, terrified to screw up

    Here is a helpful video


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    Default Re: I'm extremely shy with speaking, terrified to screw up

    My understanding is that since you're doing big box porn (and Kink is def big box), you'll be doing some "acting" since you'll have director, crew, etc. Ask around your friends there, I feel it'll probably be a bit different from the rest of us who are (usually) totally alone in our bedrooms, being our own directors. My guess? The porn filming will be more difficult than the camming, so focus on that and get lots of tips from other Kink peeps.

    Lemme know how it goes! I've heard both GREAT and pretty horrendous stuff about working at the Armory, esp. as a model but I've always been really curious. Good luck!


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    If you're a sub, then yes, fucking own that shit girl!

    You'll be out of your shell before you know it.
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    Default Re: I'm extremely shy with speaking, terrified to screw up

    It is porn, even if you say the craziest thing in the world, it won't matter. In fact, it might go viral. Porn is about letting your inhibitions go. In the setting up for a scene you will have to do some acting. Mainly the dialog after the set up is "Fuck, fuck me now, harder, harder, yes, fuck, shit, oh god, oh god, oh god, I'm cumming". Really not all that difficult.

    But if you stay silent then no one will think you are into it and nobody on a set or off a set wants a silent partner in bed.

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    Default Re: I'm extremely shy with speaking, terrified to screw up

    James Franco did a documentary about the Armory (simply called "Kink"), and I recall an interview snippet where one of their porn directors mentioned that a fake orgasm was less important to him than seeing a genuine emotional response (I'm paraphrasing, but it was something like that). So I was under the impression that The Armory were less interested in typical porn actors and more about real kinksters who would be truly enjoying their scene and their BDSM activities. Did they tell you that you would be dirty talking? If you're naturally a silent sub, maybe they'll go for it as long as you're genuinely into it and it comes off that way on camera?

    As for the live camming end of things, I think with the right dominant clientele you could get away with just saying things like "Yes daddy" and typical submissive language, without having to go into much dirty talking. I do some super submissive shows on SM and a lot of the guys don't want to hear me say anything other than "yes" or anything that they don't tell me to say.

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    It's your first time, don't sweat it. Everyone who does this had their first time too! Just try to relax and have fun!





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