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    Default Was I wrong to get mad at this guy for asking for Skype on Kinklive?

    I was on Kinklive and fielding questions from this guy, setting the ground rules; everything seems good to go for a private show and then he says he has one last question: do I Skype?
    I was sitting there in a corset, getting a stiff back and feeling cranky... I couldn't control myself when I scowled and flipped off the screen. I NEVER let them see me mad, but I felt like this guy had led me on convincingly and, well... I reacted.

    He asked if he'd said something to offend me, and I told him something like, "You asked me if I have Skype, when obviously I'm available here, on the Kinklive platform. It annoys me when people ask for Skype." He apologized and left.

    I'm not sure if I explained myself very well, or even if it's something that should have made me mad. The fact is, I don't have a way to accept payment for Skype, and I thought I was going to get a show. Also, it's obviously against site rules for most sites... but I was looking at another model's profile today and right there in her description she says her Skype ID is available. What gives?

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    Default Re: Was I wrong to get mad at this guy for asking for Skype on Kinklive?

    I think you did right. I get the feeling - from the way the guy just left and didn't go private - that he wanted to Skype either for free or at heavily discounted rates. You lost nothing but a TW.

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    Default Re: Was I wrong to get mad at this guy for asking for Skype on Kinklive?

    KinkLive allows Skype because they have no cam2cam option. So a lot of guys will ask to pay through KL for you to Skype with them so they can cam2cam. It's totally up to you whether you do it or not though. I never did Skype on there because it meant logging off every time someone wanted Skype.

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    Default Re: Was I wrong to get mad at this guy for asking for Skype on Kinklive?

    ^^

    Ah, that makes sense. So I take it they pay you a tribute for the pre-arranged amt. of time upfront?
    I would totally have done it, had I known :p Silly newb me.

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    Default Re: Was I wrong to get mad at this guy for asking for Skype on Kinklive?

    Quote Originally Posted by CatBBW View Post
    I think you did right. I get the feeling - from the way the guy just left and didn't go private - that he wanted to Skype either for free or at heavily discounted rates. You lost nothing but a TW.
    In all fairness, if someone had made that face at me, I would've gone running too

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    Default Re: Was I wrong to get mad at this guy for asking for Skype on Kinklive?

    I wouldn't have been aware that KinkLive doesn't have c2c. Most of the time when guys ask for skype they are trying to get a free show out of you. As the guy didn't ask you about c2c you probably made the right call.

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    Default Re: Was I wrong to get mad at this guy for asking for Skype on Kinklive?

    Yea I have never done Skype either.. and usually they want discounted rates.. I just tell them YEA if you pay me the RATE I charge on Kink I will, and they usually leave..lol

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    Default Re: Was I wrong to get mad at this guy for asking for Skype on Kinklive?

    I literally just went through this thinking the guy was trying to get a free show but I emailed kinklive support and they said it was okay as long as the tribute is paid through the site. I'm having some issues trying to figure out prices for them but other than that it seems like a good option since like the other models have commented Kinklive doesn't h ave cam2cam and its kinda hard to dominate/sub for someone you can't see.

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    Default Re: Was I wrong to get mad at this guy for asking for Skype on Kinklive?

    I have had a few guys do skype from KL. They have to pay the same per minute as my private. They are actually getting something better then a KL private. They guys that really want you to see them will not hesitate at paying your KL prices

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    Default Re: Was I wrong to get mad at this guy for asking for Skype on Kinklive?

    I've never worked KL however I used to work MFC and used to sell Skype shows through there. The only advice I would give is make it a minimum amount of time. You don't want to be logging of KL and onto Skype if the guy just wants 5 mins lol, I won't do Skype for anything less than 10 mins and at my per min rate on what ever site I am selling the show on.
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    Default Re: Was I wrong to get mad at this guy for asking for Skype on Kinklive?

    I prefer Skype shows on KinkLive. I have some regulars who contact me on Skype for a session. I simply have them send a tribute via KinkLive and then I give them a call. I am actually dreading the day that they install a cam2camfeature on KinkLive because that means I'll have to actually be online and stream. Everyone has a different hustle, though.

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    Default Re: Was I wrong to get mad at this guy for asking for Skype on Kinklive?

    I charge for my Skype id on there and I have them do the show via a private show and then just tip the difference for watching them on cam. That way I dont have to log out of the site and than log back in.




    Quote Originally Posted by AngelicaFox View Post
    I was on Kinklive and fielding questions from this guy, setting the ground rules; everything seems good to go for a private show and then he says he has one last question: do I Skype?
    I was sitting there in a corset, getting a stiff back and feeling cranky... I couldn't control myself when I scowled and flipped off the screen. I NEVER let them see me mad, but I felt like this guy had led me on convincingly and, well... I reacted.

    He asked if he'd said something to offend me, and I told him something like, "You asked me if I have Skype, when obviously I'm available here, on the Kinklive platform. It annoys me when people ask for Skype." He apologized and left.

    I'm not sure if I explained myself very well, or even if it's something that should have made me mad. The fact is, I don't have a way to accept payment for Skype, and I thought I was going to get a show. Also, it's obviously against site rules for most sites... but I was looking at another model's profile today and right there in her description she says her Skype ID is available. What gives?

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    Default Re: Was I wrong to get mad at this guy for asking for Skype on Kinklive?

    Wow, that's a really smart way of doing it. Thank you for sharing the insider tip, Jane!

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