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    Default Approaching stubborn a**es

    I tried searching for this info but could not find it.....

    At my club we are *supposed* to ask the gentlemen if "they would like some company". For whatever reason, the past two months I have been turned down to even sit with someone by a larger than normal portion of the crowd. I consider myself in the top five as far as friendly and attractive girls working in my club. Just a lot of grumpy customers in general. I know for a fact that girls aren't *asking* this based on the less attractive/annoying (God I sound awful but yall know what I mean) girls sitting with those same people an even getting dances later.

    Honestly I don't feel like I should have to ask unless they are waiting for someone else. They are in my place of work and for me not to approach them is ludicrous. How do I move in on these stubborn asses? I feel like it's an attempt to not be convinced to buy a dance.

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    Default Re: Approaching stubborn a**es

    Well, if no one else is asking if they'd like company, why continue doing it if it's not working for you? Unless the dancers who do are getting in trouble or you're within earshot, I don't see the harm in going along with the club culture and just sitting down.

    FWIW I tend to open with asking if they'd like some company because I'd rather they turn me down upfront so I don't waste my time trying to hustle them. If it's quiet and there's no one else though, I do sometimes just plop myself down and get the conversation started since it's not like I'd have anything else going on.

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    Default Re: Approaching stubborn a**es

    I agree w/ Shanna abt asking if they'd like company b4 just plopping yourself down, bc I'd rather be refused upfront than waste time on them. That said, I have also invited myself over to sit w/ a customer saying smtg like 'Hey love, I just need sm where to sit & look busy for a few' & had sm success that way. I either genuinely needed to just take a break but wanted to look busy while doing it & ended up closing a sale as a bonus, or used that line as an opening of a really easy, subtle hustle.

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    Default Re: Approaching stubborn a**es

    What's your body language like? When I approach I've found that I have a better success rate if I do more "talking" with eye contact and how I come in than with what I say, which is usually a simple "Hey, how are you?" Like always approach from the side, play with my hair and adjust my top to draw attention to my boobs and face.

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    Default Re: Approaching stubborn a**es

    No I NEVER ask if they want company. I assume they do lol!

    I used to ask before sitting down but I got roughly 50% rejections and I could not afford to lose out on that many sales. I worked on a slow dayshift so I had to resort to somewhat aggressive tactics.

    So now I just sit down and I am able to at least chat a few min. with about 95% of the guys I sit down with. If I sit down with them my foot is in the door so to speak and I have an easier time selling to them.

    The key for me is reading their body language and making sure they see me coming in their direction. I gage off eye contact. If they see me and look away I may keep moving but if they see me and hold eye contact I sit down with them.
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    Default Re: Approaching stubborn a**es

    I always just introduce myself to a few people I see sitting by themselves, tell them I'll be right back for them bc I've gotta go say hi to some "friends", wink and introduce myself to some other people. I make sure I'm known, and then sit down with the ones who seemed most interested. I always tell them to come and tip me on stage too when I go up, they usually do.

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    Default Re: Approaching stubborn a**es

    Who came up with this rule of asking them that? I'm sure there is no fine or repercussion for not doing that.
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    Default Re: Approaching stubborn a**es

    I've always felt super awkward about asking "Do you want company". Idk why I've never thought of just sitting down and starting a conversation lol. It usually works with the guys at the bar so it should have similar results with the guys on the floor.

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    Default Re: Approaching stubborn a**es

    I only ever ask that if I've sat with a customer, tried to make conversation, and they're awkwardly ignoring me. Then I ask "do you want company (or are you alright)?" I agree with watching their body language. Same thing with if I've walked by 3 times and they haven't looked at me once, I won't sit with them unless it's dead in the club. Walk around slow enough and guys will glance/smile, you do it back, and sit down. That's enough of "asking" to me.

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    Default Re: Approaching stubborn a**es

    I plop my pretty ass down beside them & start my sales pitch from there. Sometimes they bite , others not so much. I bullshit at times just to get a free drink out of my time wasted so it gives me the urge to approach another potential Even if they say they don't want company, i give them my pitch anyways haha . I love to hassle them into spending :p
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