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    I have been going to one of the local clubs 2 or 3 times a month for about 8 months now.
    So the regular dancers, and rest of the staff, all know me.

    During that time, 2 of my favorite dancers have moved on.
    Luckily, I was recently able to find another dancer that I really like.

    Anyway, all of them, at some point, would leave their stripper bag with me at the table or bar.
    It is nice that they trust me that much, but it actually makes me a little uncomfortable.

    Is it common for you to leave valuables with a regular customer?

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    If you don't mind me answering. While the bag is with you, you won't be leaving or getting dances from anyone else.

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    1. You won't be getting dances from anyone else.

    2. There's (at least in my case) nothing very valuable in my stripper bag.

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    Not anymore.
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    I never leave my bag. I will sometimes leave my top. It's to mark our 'territory', that you are getting dances with us when we get back.

    And I do not trust any customer to any degree about anything. Ever.
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    I'm an odd case. So many many ways.

    I no longer get dances at my home club. My atf and her sister (second atf?) over a year ago told me they would rather hang out as friends, which we do outside the club then do any kind of dances.

    So now when I go it is to sit and smoke and drink on slow nights with them. BYOB club. I am the candy and mint corner Lol. Where everyone shoots the shit and watches the room.

    I am the on call cuddle bunny when there is no hustle.

    that being said, far before that they would leave their crap at my table when they were going to hustle

    . It never once stopped me from doing table dances with anyone, and it also doesn't stop me from doing VIPs, although it made it a lot more than difficult having to carry their junk as well as my own to the back room.

    However. I will say that 99.9% of the time. Anything a dancer leaves is marking you as hers. And making you feel super special to add loyalty.

    Besides. The less she carries...the more she can hustle

    a far bigger sign of trust, at least with my girls, is if they leave their beverages with you and come back and drink them later. Then they trust you not to be putting drugs in their drinks
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    Hell naw! I don't trust nan customer.

    I will say I have some level of trust for my regulars but that's where I draw the line. I trust no one in the club over a fifty percent trust level, if that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cowboy12 View Post

    Is it common for you to leave valuables with a regular customer?
    ^No, it's not normal. But, if their bags only consisted of lingerie/shoes/make up and not their phone/keys/wallet etc then I guess they saw no harm in it (it is odd though IMO).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    I never leave my bag. I will sometimes leave my top. It's to mark our 'territory', that you are getting dances with us when we get back.

    And I do not trust any customer to any degree about anything. Ever.
    We know what you are doing. I find it annoying. I hate having to babysit stripper stuff. Unfortunately, I am cursed with a strong sense of responsibility, and I feel the need to guard the crap you leave behind as if it were my own property. I don't come to a club to babysit. This may keep other dancers away, but won't put me in a mindset to buy dances. It makes me feel like gnawing my leg off to escape the trap.

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    It happens. The most common for me is some item of clothing, but I've had purses and even tip boxes left with me by favorites and others who knew me as a regular. I don't mind if I'm there to see the girl anyway, but it irks me a bit when a girl who I have no history with uses it to mark her territory and prevent other dancers from approaching.

    Be forewarned though that there is an old con used by some less scrupulous girls, where a girl asks a customer to watch her purse and then returns and claims that there is money missing. The theory is that the customer will be under pressure to reimburse her for the "loss." I had a girl try this on me years ago, though unfortunately for her she picked the wrong guy in the wrong club to try it on. Ever since then, I only let favorites and other known girls leave purses or other items containing cash.
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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    It makes me feel like gnawing my leg off to escape the trap.


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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    We know what you are doing. I find it annoying. I hate having to babysit stripper stuff. Unfortunately, I am cursed with a strong sense of responsibility, and I feel the need to guard the crap you leave behind as if it were my own property. I don't come to a club to babysit. This may keep other dancers away, but won't put me in a mindset to buy dances. It makes me feel like gnawing my leg off to escape the trap.
    Heh, I'm exactly the opposite, I'm fine with it. But typically, I go to the strip club, and as soon as I find a girl I like, I'm pretty much going to stay with her for the remainder of that trip. So, she leaves her box during her smoke/toke break, that lets me just enjoy the stage shows instead of shooing away other dancers. By contrast, if I went to the club for variety, I definitely wouldn't allow it. Plus, I appreciate it that she lets me get some alone time with what used to be my money, while she's gone

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    There are 3-4 dancers at the club I frequent that leave purses/phones/money with me. I don't really like it simply because I feel like it's my responsibility to keep it safe after that and I'd rather be free to get up and go to the bathroom, leave, etc. without having t worry about it. My ATF, however, has taken it a step further. I was sitting with her one night when one of her regulars came in and she got up and said "watch my phone". I said "I'm going to leave for a while to get something to eat, so watch your own phone". She just said "well, I'm going to be in VIP with this dude for a while, so just take it with you". Sigh. I was a little honored, especially since I know it's her real phone and I know the passcode to it but at the same time I did kind of feel like I was being her little bitch at that point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    We know what you are doing. I find it annoying. I hate having to babysit stripper stuff. Unfortunately, I am cursed with a strong sense of responsibility, and I feel the need to guard the crap you leave behind as if it were my own property. I don't come to a club to babysit. This may keep other dancers away, but won't put me in a mindset to buy dances. It makes me feel like gnawing my leg off to escape the trap.
    Mrow, hiss, Jesus. Somebody feels ridiculously strongly about this.

    I only do it with my regular customers who I know do not get dances with other girls, or guys who have agreed on a dance when I get off stage, and it's actually kind of a courtesy to tell other dancers not to waste their time. It's a dancer-to-dancer signal, not a sales tactic. How leaving a purse there would pressure a guy to buy a dance, I don't know.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    Mrow, hiss, Jesus. Somebody feels ridiculously strongly about this.

    I only do it with my regular customers who I know do not get dances with other girls, or guys who have agreed on a dance when I get off stage, and it's actually kind of a courtesy to tell other dancers not to waste their time. It's a dancer-to-dancer signal, not a sales tactic. How leaving a purse there would pressure a guy to buy a dance, I don't know.
    It's just annoying. It does keep other dancers away, and prevents me from getting a VIP or go to the restroom, or whatever. And I just don't want to be responsible for watching your stuff, even if I usually buy dances.

    A courtesy to the other dancers? Yeah right. If I don't want their company, I'll just tell them. I dont need your "signal", and you're not helping them either. You may be preventing them from getting a new regular, and keeping me from a possible new atf. No matter how much I like existing dancers, I also like meeting new ones who could be a new atf.

    By the time dancers start leaving their stuff with me, is usually when I'm ready for a new atf. Maybe they can sense that.

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    ^^^ GameOver, couldn't agree more. It's happened to all of us and I don't care for it either. You can always tip the waitress to take the bag/clothing back to the dancer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    A courtesy to the other dancers? Yeah right. If I don't want their company, I'll just tell them. I dont need your "signal", and you're not helping them either. You may be preventing them from getting a new regular, and keeping me from a possible new atf. No matter how much I like existing dancers, I also like meeting new ones who could be a new atf.
    You can see it however you want, but please cut the attitude... don't tell me who I am and am not helping. Many of my regulars do not like being approached at all, they don't like having to tell girls no, and they want to sit quietly alone until I get off stage or finish with my other customers. Same with many regulars of other girls. It is legitimately a signal with us.
    I'm sorry you apparently have some kind of colossal issue with it. If you're so good at telling girls you don't want their company, you should be good at telling girls not to leave their stuff there.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    You can see it however you want, but please cut the attitude... don't tell me who I am and am not helping. Many of my regulars do not like being approached at all, they don't like having to tell girls no, and they want to sit quietly alone until I get off stage or finish with my other customers. Same with many regulars of other girls. It is legitimately a signal with us.
    I'm sorry you apparently have some kind of colossal issue with it. If you're so good at telling girls you don't want their company, you should be good at telling girls not to leave their stuff there.
    I really don't have a "colossal" issue with it (it's just an annoyance), and if my observations don't apply to you, please ignore them with my apologies. I was just commenting based on my experiences in the club. And in my experience, this has not been about being a helpful signal, but more along the lines of "marking territory", which is how you had previously referred to it in this post.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    You can see it however you want, but please cut the attitude... don't tell me who I am and am not helping. Many of my regulars do not like being approached at all, they don't like having to tell girls no, and they want to sit quietly alone until I get off stage or finish with my other customers. Same with many regulars of other girls. It is legitimately a signal with us.
    I'm sorry you apparently have some kind of colossal issue with it. If you're so good at telling girls you don't want their company, you should be good at telling girls not to leave their stuff there.
    I appreciate it when a girl leaves her stuff for exactly this reason. I'm ok at saying no, but it's a drag still. But when I say a girl, I mean one specific girl. I'm sure most here know when it's cool or not, but if any girl leaves her shit but this one I dig now, it feels like a tremendous responsibility. I had one girl leave her water, free glass mind, disappear for an hour, then come ask me where it went. You were gone for a really long time, I said. She was cool, it was a joke, but I had never even talked to her before that night and I held my piss a bit so she didn't get rufied before I gave it to the bartender and bailed on it.

    I think it is a solid move with a regular. With anyone else, it's kind of a dick thing to do. And though that may be obvious to the thoughtful vet dancers here, it happens way too often to not mention it.

    And yes, I was aware she was likely not drinking that water or soda or whatever she left with a stranger, but on the off chance, I didn't want her getting doped. Not that funny a thought.

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    I suppose she may be "marking her territory", which I totally understand in the club environment.
    I do sometimes(rarely) get dances with other girls if my favorite is busy when I first arrive, but when she finally gets to me, I spend the rest of my time with her. At that point, she knows I will not get any more dances with other girls, so no need to mark territory.

    I would just prefer not to be responsible for watching someone else's stuff, even if it is not valuable.
    As mentioned above, I may want to use the restroom, step outside to make a phone call, etc.. If I picked it up and took it with me, someone might accuse me of trying to steal it, especially if I step outside.

    I think I will just politely ask that they not leave stuff with me.

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    I just recently saw a dancer do this. Leave some of her gear behind for the customer to watch for her. I had never seen this before - or at least never noticed that was some sort of signal. As the only signal I see if if a dancer is physically sitting there. In my opinion personal belongings - unless maybe a purse (but then why leave a purse unless there is no money of cell phone or anything important in it). Most likely I say no to this. Even with regulars.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    You can see it however you want, but please cut the attitude... don't tell me who I am and am not helping. Many of my regulars do not like being approached at all, they don't like having to tell girls no, and they want to sit quietly alone until I get off stage or finish with my other customers. Same with many regulars of other girls. It is legitimately a signal with us.
    I'm sorry you apparently have some kind of colossal issue with it. If you're so good at telling girls you don't want their company, you should be good at telling girls not to leave their stuff there.
    Selina, I won't speak for gameover but it looks like we're talking about two different things. If I'm with an ATF and I'm her regular then leaving a bag or clothes isn't a problem of course. I talking about when a girl sits at your table for 2 minutes and then "marks her territory". This happens to me more during the daytime and at clubs where I'm better known. It's just a minor annoyance, nothing more.

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